"The First Half of My Life" Xue Zhenzhu told the secret of Tang Jing's lovelessness before his death

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What kind of person is Xue Zhenzhu?

She is Luo Zijun's mother, but also a poor and rich, vain, calculating, real, cute little citizen.

Her worldly appearance annoys many people.

For example, she looks down on the husband of her younger daughter Luo Ziqun, but looks up to the husband of her eldest daughter Luo Zijun, all because Luo Zijun enjoyed happiness with Chen Junsheng, and Luo Ziqun suffered with Bai Guang.

In Xue Zhenzhu's life, she has one of the most important goals.

She hopes that the eldest daughter, Luo Zijun, will have a good home and a happy life.

I also hope that the second daughter, Luo Ziqun, will have a good home and a happy life.

She also hopes that she can have a good home and a happy life in the remaining days.

This is a very simple goal.

Because every woman who is a mother wants her children to live happily, but Xue Zhenzhu is more realistic.

She's been a single mom for over 20 years, she's worked to raise two daughters, and she knows how hard it is for a woman to prop up a home on her own.

Her reality is tempered by these hard lives.

She knew what kind of person her daughter was and what kind of life she was suitable for.

She had never had a few days in her life, and she longed for a happy home.

However, for ordinary people, they have no ability and can only achieve this goal by marrying a good man.

This is not only Xue Zhenzhu's idea, but also the idea of many elders.

For them, no matter how good the work is, they must also have a good home, which is the most important thing in life.

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Tang Jing is an excellent woman.

In Xue Zhenzhu's eyes, she was envious of Tang Jing.

Tang Jing has a good job, money, and an excellent boyfriend.

But good women don't necessarily have happy marriages.

Xue Zhenzhu is more than half a hundred years old, and for feelings, she is sober in the world.

She saw that the relationship between Tang Jing and He Han was not as good as everyone said, especially when He Han frequently offered courtesy to Luo Zijun, Xue Zhenzhu saw He Han's intentions.

Luo Zijun's feelings for He Han were restrained, but Xue Zhenzhu could see that her daughter did not take the initiative, and she wanted to fight for her daughter.

However, Tang Jing was Luo Zijun's girlfriend, and Xue Zhenzhu also watched Tang Jing come to the present.

She knew that Tang Jing and He Han had been dating for ten years and still hadn't married, which showed that the two of them were not suitable.

Because the inappropriate two people bound Luo Zijun's happiness, Xue Zhenzhu felt that it was not worth it.

She has her life experience, and she knows that it is not an easy task for a woman to find someone she likes and is good in her life.

So she went specifically to find Tang Jing, and she used her life experience to tell Tang Jing that she and He Han were not suitable.

Tang Jing was too independent, and she almost regarded He Han as her competitor, refusing to show weakness or rely on He Han to live.

Zhang Ailing said that when you spend a man's money, your heart is happy. Spend his money, not because of the greed of women.

However, even though He Han repeatedly asked Tang Jing to move into his home, Tang Jing refused to take advantage of him.

Xue Zhenzhu told Tang Jing that women still have to rely on men.

It is good for women to be independent, but if they are too independent and too strong, it is difficult to get happiness.

Tang Jing was just too strong, so that He Han couldn't find a sense of existence around her.

Luo Zijun went on a business trip alone, encountered a rainy day and did not buy a train ticket, and was still hanging on the road, when He Han found her, like a domineering president, he yelled at her disobedience and took her into his arms.

If Tang Jing encountered this situation, He Han did not dare to argue with her, and even with Tang Jing's ability to do things, she was not as stupid as Luo Zijun at all, she could handle various things well, and there was no need for He Han to worry at all.

Such two people, relying on what to upgrade their feelings, can not rely on work, rely on competition.

There is a lack of emotional connection and dependence between them, because they are so similar that neither of them will bow down.

They are capable of each other, economically independent, respectful and considerate of each other, but they lack emotional dependence.

03

Before Xue Zhenzhu died, Tang Jing went to the hospital to visit her.

This mother is still awake, she told Tang Jing that she and He Han have no fate, and she must let go in time to complete others.

Maybe there will be many people scolding Xue Zhenzhu and Luo Zijun and robbing their girlfriends' boyfriends, which is not something that people do.

Indeed fireproof and anti-theft anti-girlfriend.

But emotionally, for Tang Jing, a relationship that is not suitable for herself cannot make her happy, but will consume herself.

Her relationship with He Han is like this.

She didn't get the sense of security and dependence she wanted from him, and he didn't get the presence and warmth he wanted from her.

It is indeed inappropriate between them, but it is only hindered by 10 years of interaction, which has become a responsibility and bondage.

Tang Jing will always grow from this relationship and know what kind of happiness she wants.

She must know how to show weakness in a relationship and know how to operate.

Rich and capable women, want to get the happiness of marriage, it is not easy, but also to learn a lot.

Because of their ability, they are all proud, even if they have no feelings, they still have money, so they often make a lot of mistakes.

Unwilling to accommodate, unwilling to bow down, always to be a queen, but forgetting that no man wants to be a slave forever, always bowing his head in front of them.

In the world of feelings, two people are like dancing, there are retreats and advances, in order to perfectly end the scene.

In the future, Tang Jing will definitely see through this failed relationship and understand the importance of free reinsertion.

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