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Chen Junsheng is a good man.
Fortunately, after he and Luo Zijun divorced, Luo Ziqun went to Chen Junsheng to ask for money, and Chen Junsheng would still give it.
He is very good to Luo Zijun, and he is reluctant to buy his favorite sofa with an annual salary of one million.
With Chen Junsheng's money, Luo Zijun can buy a pair of shoes for thousands of yuan, and she can also buy all the things she likes, even helping her mother and sister.
During his marriage to Luo Zijun, Luo Ziqun often asked Chen Junsheng for money, chen Junsheng never refused, nor did he tell Luo Zijun about this matter, let alone involve Luo Zijun because of this matter.
This is why Chen Junsheng cheated, but everyone still thinks that he is the best "ex-husband brother".
02
Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's marriage began very early, and Luo Zijun married Chen Junsheng when he graduated from college.
At that time, Chen Junsheng was still a poor boy.
He loves Luo Zijun and promises her a happy life.
After Luo Zijun married Chen Junsheng, she was indeed very happy, and she lived the life of a rich wife for several years.
In recent years, her daily thing is to go shopping, dress herself, the child has a nanny belt, and although the days are beautiful, they are also empty.
But she loved her family and devoted herself to it.
In her heart, her husband and children are everything to her.
But Chen Junsheng cheated.
No matter how well a man commits to you when he marries, he can't believe it because his commitment only represents how he feels at the time and what he feels later.
A lifetime so long, he didn't know what would happen to him in this life.
Luo Zijun believed Chen Junsheng's promise, so she ended up in failure.
03
Chen Junsheng's lover is Ling Ling.
She subverted our understanding of Little Three all along.
Not every woman who is a little three dresses up and lives a very delicate life.
Ling Ling is not.
She rarely wears makeup, never pays attention to dressing, she is just an ordinary woman, very ordinary.
Ling Ling was neither as young and beautiful as Luo Zijun, nor did Luo Zijun know how to dress up.
But in this way, the most secure woman in Luo Zijun's eyes took away her husband.
Chen Junsheng likes Ling Ling, not only because Ling Ling is hard-working, but also gentle and considerate.
Most importantly, Ling Ling saw Chen Junsheng's hardships and knew how to comfort his heart, and Luo Zijun lost to Ling Ling at this point.
In middle age, Chen Junsheng, who is under great pressure, bears such a huge burden as his family, wife, children, nanny, parents and even Luo Zijun's mother and sister.
He will also be tired and need to be comforted.
Therefore, Ling Ling also had an opportunity to take advantage of it.
04
In terms of Chen Junsheng's character, even if he likes Ling Ling, he will not easily divorce.
Because he knew Luo Zijun's ability and personality too well, without Chen Junsheng, Luo Zijun would have a very difficult life.
So, he hesitated, hesitated.
He couldn't be cruel.
But Ling Ling is divorced, and she tells Chen Junsheng that her divorce is her own reason, and loving him is also her own reason, so that he can't be stressed.
Ling Ling was so forced, Chen Junsheng made up his mind to divorce Luo Zijun.
Chen Junsheng chose Ling Ling, he thought that his future life would be very happy, after all, he loved Ling Ling very much.
Men always care only about the feelings of the moment and do not consider the nature of marriage.
I always think that if I am not happy in marriage and live a different life, I will get better, but I forget my own problems.
After Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling got married, the shortcomings of both sides were gradually exposed.
Ling Ling did not live the life of a rich wife, she worked overtime every day, took care of her children, and also took care of Chen Junsheng's picky parents.
As a stepmother, she also has to take care of Chen Junsheng's son.
Such a life made Ling Ling lose the gentleness and thoughtfulness before marriage, and also made Chen Junsheng begin to get bored and regretful.
I regretted that I divorced Luo Zijun and let myself fall into such a complicated family environment.
05
From beginning to end, Chen Junsheng was not a bad person, he was just a little stupid.
He abandoned his original match and married Ling Ling, and his life did not get better, or even worse.
He was willing to raise children for others, but let his children suffer all the grievances.
He never summed up his mistakes in marriage, but liked to blame others for their mistakes.
He did not recognize himself in the previous marriage, but he was in a hurry to enter the next marriage.
Chen Junsheng is a bit stupid emotionally, he feels that he can live a good life by trying his best to earn money, but he forgets to communicate with his partner.
He likes Ling Ling because Ling Ling before marriage is gentle and considerate, which makes him feel that the years are quiet.
In fact, Luo Zijun before marriage also made him fascinated.
That's just the way women are treated well.
Women enter marriage, without the help and thoughtfulness of their husbands, they are caught in the chai rice oil and salt, of course, will change their faces.
This is not only a change for women, but also a problem for men.
If a man can help a woman with family problems, understand and fall in love with communication, then whoever he lives with will be happy.
On the contrary, a man only asks women to pay and do his own hand-throwing treasurer, then he will not be happy if he changes more women.
Happiness is not a matter of one person having the final say, but requires the efforts of both parties.
Chen Junsheng always has to pay for his stupidity.
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