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It is said that beautiful women have good eyes and make people look pleasing to the eye. But what can keep a man's heart is the woman's inner cultivation. A woman's solid core is always greater than her appearance.
Interpersonal relationships, the first sight depends on the appearance, the long-term rely on the character, and the same is true for love. In the world of feelings, a woman's gentleness is like water, empathetic, far more than looks can make a man move you.
A cultured woman will make men feel solid and happy. Because in her body, it is full of understanding, gentleness and care for men. Make men willing to rely on her and stay tired for a long time.
Therefore, whether a home is happy or not is not how big the house is, but how much laughter there is in the house. Those women who have an inner will run the family happily and with ease, and will let the man not abandon you.
In fact, if you want men to be dead set on you, there are 3 methods that work and are worth trying.
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First: Women can be independent
Although the man pays lip service to not need you to make money, he makes money to support you. But in his heart, he still longs for you to be independent, because this will not only allow him to reduce the burden, but also allow him to earn enough face in front of his friends.
Independent women, with their own outlook on life and values, their vision is also unique and broad, she will not count on the ability of others in everything, but have their own opinions, and manage their feelings stably.
Coco Chanel was such an independent woman, and she lived in a time when most women were supported by men after marrying. But Chanel did not rely on men, but had an independent consciousness in her heart.
She was born in an orphanage and lived at the bottom of society. Forced to commit herself to people for her livelihood, but people do not respect her.
Until her second man appeared, respected her talent, gave her the greatest support for her work, gave her the start-up capital to invest in her career, and finally achieved the heirloom brand.
Chanel never married, but she was favored by many men. She is smart, beautiful, kind, independent, and is the ideal goal that many men pursue.
An independent woman is not a vine that climbs and clings to, but a pine tree that can stand side by side with men in her career. Will give men support when they are confused and give him dependence when they are tired.
Such a woman, who is the most intimate lover of a man, and a companion that a man can rely on, can help each other and achieve each other with men.
Such a woman is not easy to get, so if you meet it, you must cherish it.
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Second: Women have self-confidence
Confident woman is positive and optimistic, free and capable, her beauty does not lie in the superior appearance, but in the confidence precipitated in her heart, the competence in her bones.
They will not complain endlessly, nor will they be angry at will, whether it is family or career, they will do well, and they can deal with difficulties calmly.
Yang Pei is a girl without arms, the same thing, in life she must pay a lot more effort than others to be able to meet the standards of her own approval.
However, she is very confident and has been working hard.
From embroidering cross-stitch stalls to later working for people, until now having its own company, although it has experienced many unbearable hardships for ordinary people. However, she achieved enviable success and gained true independence.
Through her own efforts, she lived the life she wanted. It's like a little sun in life, warming yourself and illuminating others.
With confident women, when the days are bright, you can enjoy the beautiful scenery of life; when the situation is not good, you will not be pessimistic and lost, but will ride the wind and waves and get out of the trough as soon as possible.
Confidence is always a woman's strongest card, and she has fascinating experience and maturity that makes men fall for it.
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Third: Women have self-esteem
Self-respecting women know how to love themselves, whether it is a life or marriage has a humble attitude, has a clearer understanding of things, no matter how things develop, she will abide by the bottom line.
Such a woman does not compromise, does not settle, will not be submissive on occasions that are unfavorable to herself, and will not bend the rules. Women have this attitude of self-esteem and are often treated with respect and equality by men.
In "The First Half of My Life", there are three intellectual women: Luo Zijun, Tang Jing, and Ling Ling.
Tang Jing is Luo Zijun's girlfriend, although she comes from an ordinary background, but through hard work, she has made herself look like a superior person. When helping the divorced Luo Zijun out of the predicament, Tang Jing advised Luo Zijun to be independent and not to rely on Chen Junsheng.
Luo Zijun was abandoned by Chen Junsheng because he was not independent; Ling Ling broke up Luo Zijun's family as a third party; only Tang Jing was the most self-respecting and self-loving, and became a winner in life on her own.
A self-respecting woman, gentle and powerful, handles things decisively. She has a strong tenacity in her heart, a humble connotation in her bones, and let men respect.
She will not be tempted by material things to be ambiguous with others, nor will she do anything that undermines her dignity because of greed for profit. Be emotionally determined, have a clear plan for the future, and let men appreciate it.
Only when women have self-respect, they will be respected and appreciated by men, and can they have the most sincere emotions.
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As mentioned above, women work harder on 3 things, do not have to deliberately perform, and will also make men love you deeply.
In the world of feelings, if you want others to be good to you and like you, you must make yourself better. If you bloom, the butterflies will come. The man who really loves you rejects your superficiality and likes your excellence.
A woman's personality quality, hierarchical cultivation, and life experience will make men who like you care. When you are good enough, men will also take your feelings with him very seriously and respect you more.
The rest of your life is not long, may you go through a thousand sails and enjoy the most beautiful scenery. Be an independent and gentle, confident and unobtrusive woman.
In this way, the man who loves you will be dead set on you and will not lose his affection.