Ling Ling is dull-looking and dressed in ordinary clothes, and is the most inconspicuous person in the whole "First Half of My Life", even Luo Zijun's mother, Ms. Zhen Zhu, is more fashionable than her.
However, Ling Ling, such an unforgettable person, successfully pried away Chen Junsheng in only one month with only one effort and found a better umbrella for himself and his son.
When I first watched "The First Half of My Life", I had the same idea as many people, Ling Ling, regardless of age or appearance, was crushed by Luo Zijun every minute.
Why could she make Chen Junsheng, who was swaying left and right, suddenly have a firm will and be inseparable from Luo Zijun?
After revisiting "The First Half of My Life", I found that Ling Ling had been working step by step in replacing Luo Zijun, and it was not what she said: "Liking you is my business, it has nothing to do with you, you don't have a burden." ”
Ling Ling graduated from college, before entering Chenxing, has been on the spot as an interviewer, this position suffers a lot, but the salary is the least, more importantly, suffered from the blank eyes of various people.
Without a good background, you can only create your own future.
In order to make her life go to a higher level, Ling Ling endured what ordinary people could not bear, climbed up step by step, and finally climbed into the headquarters as an information investigator.
When she arrived at Chenxing, Ling Ling still did not dare to relax herself, and the boring job of an investigator was made by her in various tricks.
Every time she submits a report, she always uses her own way to classify the content with sticky notes of different colors, so that when the project manager Chen Junsheng reads it, he can understand the content he wants as quickly as possible.
Chen Junsheng often works overtime until very late, Ling Ling will accompany him until very late, and from time to time will send him some stomach medicine, which is Luo Zijun, who needs to drink a cup of water and needs to be handed by the nanny, which is completely impossible.
Therefore, Chen Junsheng was slowly impressed by Ling Ling's carefulness.
As a result, the two got closer and closer, and gradually began to have feelings.
However, they could not be together, because they both had their own families.
But Ling Ling is different, she and her husband have always had a bad relationship, and then she took her son to run away.
How easy is it for a single mother to live a good life?
Ling Ling also wants to give her son a better future, at this time, Chen Junsheng enters her range, she wants to replace Luo Zijun and become the real Mrs. Chen.
Chen Junsheng was very embarrassed, on the one hand, he was with Ling Ling, and her gentleness and understanding really made him feel comfortable, on the other hand, he did not know how to talk about divorce with Luo Zijun.
In fact, in the early days, Chen Junsheng was simply a two-headed deception and two-end concealment.
He, like many men, is greedy.
What Chen Junsheng enjoys the most is that Ling Ling in the company shares the pressure for him, and when he returns home, he can feel the warmth of the family with his son.
As He Han said: "A wife is a wife, and a lover is a lover." ”
But women don't think so,
In a long-developed relationship, it is always the woman who wants to change the most.
When Ling Ling returned home with Chen Junsheng, Ling Ling tested his relationship with Luo Zijun.
From Chen Junsheng's description, she could feel that if she wanted Chen Junsheng to take the initiative to propose divorce, it was estimated that it would have to wait until the Year of the Monkey.
No way, she's going to shoot herself.
When Luo Zijun went to Chen Junsheng's company to find him for dinner, she met Ling Ling, and she immediately ran out to pull Ling Ling to eat together.
After eating, Luo Zijun and Chen Junsheng went home together. At this time, Ling Ling deliberately stood on the only way for Chen Junsheng to go home and waited for the bus.
She knew that with Chen Junsheng's soft-hearted personality, seeing Ling Ling standing on the side of the road, she would definitely feel pity, and at the same time, she would feel a little more guilty.
Sure enough, when Chen Junsheng's car passed by Ling Ling's side, the two looked at each other, and Chen Junsheng's face appeared with undisguised pain.
Many times, Ling Ling saw Chen Junsheng's embarrassment.
Let's assume that in such a thing, many people will force men to make choices, but Ling Ling is not.
She always said softly to Chen Junsheng: "I don't want to embarrass you, liking you is my business." ”
But on the other hand, he and his husband divorced the marriage cleanly, and then threw the problem to Chen Junsheng: I divorced for you, and the rest is up to you.
Chen Junsheng died of sorrow, on the one hand, he wanted to be with Ling Ling, and on the other hand, he couldn't find a reason to divorce Luo Zijun.
Tang Jing knew about Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling, she couldn't help but tell Luo Zijun, she didn't expect that Luo Zijun didn't believe it, she didn't look at Ling Ling in her eyes.
Luo Zijun said that he didn't believe it, and then he dressed up and went to Chen Xing to find Chen Junsheng.
When Luo Zijun saw the intern next to Chen Junsheng, the necklace on his neck resembled the one sent by Chen Junsheng, Luo Zijun could not control himself, ran forward and ripped off the necklace from the intern's neck.
At this time, Ling Ling was next to Luo Zijun, and she knew that the necklace worn by the intern was not sent by Chen Junsheng, but she verbally advised Luo Zijun not to be impulsive, but the behavior did not stop too much.
Because Ling Ling wants Luo Zijun to be ugly in front of everyone, when Chen Junsheng divorces in the future, everyone will make up a reason for him because of this matter: such an unreasonable wife, I will also leave.
At the same time, Ling Ling also wanted Chen Junsheng to start a gap with Luo Zijun.
After this trick, Ling Ling gave Chen Jun another dose of strong medicine: leave disappeared.
After Luo Zijun went to the company to make trouble, Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling met in the café, at that time, Ling Ling told him that she was tired of this relationship, and she wanted to return Chen Junsheng to Luo Zijun.
Ling Ling said that she got up and left, and then pulled Chen Junsheng out of black, and then took a leave of absence with the company and disappeared completely.
Chen Junsheng panicked, he thought that Ling Ling was really moving, after she left, Chen Junyang constantly looked for the stubble of his subordinates at work, in order to vent his inner panic and dissatisfaction.
Unexpectedly, a few days after leaving, just when Chen Junsheng was teaching his subordinates again, Ling Ling appeared just right.
Disappearing is not Ling Ling's purpose, making Chen Junsheng feel inseparable from himself is the effect that Ling Ling wants to achieve.
Sure enough, when he saw Ling Ling come back and then bear the criticism of his colleagues in the company, Chen Junsheng could not bear it any longer.
He went home and directly filed for divorce with Luo Zijun.
Suddenly mentioning divorce, this is very impulsive, Luo Zijun did not agree, the Luo family mother and daughter also ran over to persuade again and again.
After everyone's good words, Chen Junsheng still does not change his original intention and must be divorced.
At this time, the mother-in-law, Ms. Zhen Zhu, played a divine assist in speeding up the divorce.
Zhen Zhu saw that Luo Zijun was being bullied like this, and she was so angry that she went straight to it
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The company looked for Ling Ling.
When everyone pointed out who Ling Ling was, Zhen Zhu pulled her to the front desk of the company and scolded Ling Ling vigorously.
At this time, Ling Ling changed her usual meekness and directly carried Zhen Zhu in front of all her colleagues.
"Auntie, do you think this kind of thing is useful for curses?" I tell you, flies don't sting seamless eggs. Even if it wasn't me, Chen Junsheng and your daughter would have lived like years. ”
This passage is a bit informative.
This kind of thing can't be slapped on the face, not so much that she hooked up with Chen Junsheng, but rather that the two of them are in love.
Chen Junsheng's marriage has long been problematic, even if it is not destroyed by her, divorce is sooner or later.
Why didn't Ling Ling pull Zhen Zhu aside to apologize to her, preferring to be humiliated by her in public?
In fact, she did this for a purpose.
The first is to let colleagues know the actual situation of Chen Junsheng's marriage from chen Junsheng's family.
Second, he suffered all the insults, which made Chen Junsheng feel even more guilty.
This trick was very effective, and after Chen Junsheng returned home, he complained in front of Luo Zijun that Zhen Zhu had made things too ugly.
Luo Zijun saw that Chen Junsheng, who was still defending his lover at the moment, completely died to him, and then moved to Tang Jing's house, and then began to fight a divorce lawsuit with Chen Junsheng.
This big gamble, Ling Ling was a great success.
Tang Jing said before that an on-site visitor like her would spend an unknown amount of effort to become an investigator at the head office.
Similarly, in order to get Chen Junsheng, Ling Ling went to great lengths to bear the humiliation that many people could not bear.
However, we do not dare to agree with her approach.
The stolen marriage may not be able to be as she wishes, and henceforth harmony and beauty.
Especially after she and Chen Junsheng married, the careful machine in life still appeared frequently, although she was materially guaranteed, but it made Chen Junsheng feel that she was becoming more and more strange.
After all, the mind machine gets something, focus on imperfections.
Another reason why Ling Ling will succeed is Luo Zijun's letting go, if she meets someone who is dead or alive and does not divorce, Ling Ling will not get it so quickly.
In any case, it still feels inappropriate to use the means to deal with marriage.
(Pictures are from the stills of "The First Half of My Life")