Perhaps, a relationship, the most valuable, is that no matter when and where, two people do not want to let go of each other's hands, just want to tie this life firmly together, no matter how much wind and rain encountered, they will carry it together.
However, there are too many people in life who can't stand the temptation.
Perhaps, he has indeed been touched by you, and he has indeed liked you, but in his heart, no matter how good you are, no matter how affectionate you are for him, it is not as good as the actual "seduction".
Therefore, "the mountain alliance is still there, the golden book is difficult to trust", some love, missed, can never go back.
Love needs to come naturally, it needs to be as deep as the sea, but if a man is cowardly, he cannot face reality, and has countless desires, then, no matter how deeply you love, he is likely to betray you at any time.
The red dust years, the tragedies and joys of life, are difficult to predict after all.
If a man loves thinly, then no matter how hard you love, it is just a dream.
You think that "once in a lifetime and a couple", it is likely that the cup of wine you drink is bitter, sad, helpless, you can't become his future, and you can't become the person he wants to hold hands and go home.
Therefore, if a man still holds your hand at these three times, then he must have moved his true feelings for you, and he must have identified you all his life.
However, if he does not hesitate to let go, then don't linger, let him go free, but also give yourself relief.
When your family stands in the way, he will firmly impress them with his actions and let them see his true heart
A few days ago, I heard a story from my cleaning aunt.
In their village, there was a young man and woman, both of whom were just nineteen years old, but because of the opposition of the woman's parents, they both jumped into the river, fortunately they were found in time and there was no danger to their lives.
It is reminiscent of the story in "Exploring the Clear Water River".
I didn't expect that in today's twenty-first century, such a thing will happen, which makes people sigh. But why not think of some young people in love who do not cherish life.
Young love, somewhat impulsive. However, you must understand that if you truly love her, you need to impress her parents with your actions, which is the right way.
Life seems to be very difficult, and many parents do not agree, in fact, most of them have their reasons. If you really love her, it is to figure out why the woman's parents do not agree, and then use their own actions and sincerity to impress them, rather than taking other people's daughters to jump into the river.
Just like Lu You and Tang Wan, Lu You's mother beat the Mandarin duck with a stick and broke them up, and the man was also cowardly, so he broke up with his beloved, so it can be seen that between them, it seems to be very loving, but no matter how tight the hand is, it will be easily withdrawn.
So, if a man does not give up, does not become lonely, does not complain, does not accuse... He is full of positive energy, he is eager to use his own actions to prove his love for you, then this person is worth entrusting a lifetime.
He will also bring a real sense of happiness to your life.
Tragic love, seemingly beautiful, in fact, hidden, are men's cowardice; seemingly powerless, but in fact hidden, are men's childishness.
Life is long, and the love that parents block is just a small thing that cannot be mentioned in this life experience.
If he truly loves you, he will show his sincerity, hold your hand, and impress your parents with his hard work and motivation, so that they will look at him with admiration.
When there is an external temptation, he will keep his distance, have a sense of proportion, and let you feel his singleness
Life cannot always be as beautiful as the first time we first met.
Just like love, it can't always be as stunning as when you first see a beautiful view.
Truly beautiful love needs to be accumulated in ordinary years, strong emotions. But some men, he can't control his inner desires, he will be by your side, the more you love the more miserable, the more love the more cold.
A woman, as far as he is concerned, is like a white moonlight and a red rose, and with the white moonlight, he will remember the warmth of the red rose; with the red rose, he will think of the light elegance of the white moonlight.
In short, a woman is just a decoration in his life for him.
With you by his side, he will constantly sweep his eyes to the "wildflowers" outside the window, and when someone is emitting fragrance, he will uncontrollably release his hand and turn around and hug others.
So, if once you find out that the man next to you is so, you should let go, because with the first time, there will be a second time, there is no need to delay his youth for him, and entangle his life with rotten people.
The person who truly loves you, he will definitely be no matter who appears around him, he will respond with a polite sense of distance, get along with others in a measured manner, he will worry about his own transgression, will make you think wildly, will make you angry, make you upset.
He will always remind himself: you have the most beautiful tenderness and the best love in the world.
The years are always gentle, and the true heart will not dissipate with the passage of time, and the person who really identifies you, if he holds your hand, will no longer want to let go.
When there is interest in "seducing him", he will not be confused, but firmly choose to be by your side
In fact, in the world of men, love occupies only a small part of the position.
What he longs for is the sublimation of his life, and what he wants is the success of his career.
For example, when we watch some film and television dramas, there will always be many men, in order to be able to promote themselves one step further, to be able to go faster than others, they willingly give up their girlfriends who have been in love for many years, and instead walk together with their bosses, or relatives, daughters, etc. of the leader's family.
For them, being able to struggle for a few years less is a kind of success in life.
In marriage, the same is true, just like in "The First Half of My Life", it seems that Ling Ling is not beautiful, and her family is not rich, but it will make Chen Junsheng divorce for her, in fact, through the words of the congratulatory letter when investigating him, we can also know: Chen Junsheng, he is facing a mid-life workplace crisis, and at this time, Ling Ling's work ability just assisted him.
You know, his wife, who has not worked for many years, is just a housewife, and only knows how to spend money everywhere, he must have a measure in his heart.
Therefore, behind many seemingly impossible things, there is a person's selfishness hidden.
So, if a man is seduced by interests, he will firmly choose to give up on you, so much half, he does not have much affection for you.
And if a man, he will continue to use his own efforts, want to give you a better life, he will be firmly by your side no matter how difficult the day is, will not let go of your hand, then this man, very worthy of your love for a lifetime.
You know, the most rare emotion in the world is the couple in distress, most people, when facing difficulties, will show their own nature, "the great disaster is coming to fly separately."
For example, some women are sick and need to spend a lot of medical expenses, while men have fled the ward and disappeared, and in life, such people abound.
So, look at a man, not to see how rich he is, but to see how much affection he has for you.
The truth or falsity of love is not how happy you are when you are in good times, but how dependent you are when you are in adversity.
True love is not a heartwarming romance, but after truly living together, when encountering trouble and danger, the truth of love can be revealed.
The more men and women who can overcome difficulties together, the more firmly they love, the more they will not give up in their lives, and they will work together to grow old.
Conclusion:
In this life, people have met countless people, but there is actually only one pillow person who can stay by your side.
Some love, it seems that the golden boy and the jade girl, the appearance of the langcai woman, but turned around and became a stranger, fell in love, and forgot about each other.
And some love, it seems not so harmonious, not so appropriate, but can know each other, understand each other, and stay together for a lifetime.
Therefore, in the world of feelings, there is no right or wrong, only who cares more than whom, who knows more than whom to cherish.
Therefore, if the person next to you, he shows his sincerity, strives to impress your parents, and seriously loves you, then you must cherish it;
If the person next to you, he can refuse all temptations for you, just want to sculpt your love, then you must firmly grasp him;
If the person next to you, he will not let go of your hand because of some wind and rain, will not leave your side because of some seductive fragrance, then you must live this life with him at ease.
Rolling red dust, love, the most you can see the fireworks in the world.
And the person around you who "does not abandon" you is the most beautiful fate in your life, which is the best gift brought to you by heaven.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!