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Not all people will pluck their hearts and lungs out at you; not all people can become friends; not all feelings are worth cherishing.
In this fickle era, friends do not need much, sincerity is enough; no matter how long the feelings are, the intentions are good, and the deeds are cherished.
People who are really good to you will not meet a few in their lives, and they should be grateful to meet.
Just like the person who took you out of the trough when you were sad; the person who gave you confidence when you encountered setbacks; the person who helped you in time when you encountered difficulties.
Cherish it well, lose it, never get it back; leave, never contact it again.
In this world, there is only one kind of person who deserves your unreserved flattery.
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The one who lets you out of the trough when you're sad
There is a saying in "Contemporary Youth Talking About Life": "It is better to find a friend who praises you than to find a friend who picks your thorn." ”
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", the heroine Luo Zijun can perfectly counterattack after encountering a marriage change, and has a great relationship with her friends behind her.
In the play, He Han is like someone who helps her "open up" to Luo Zijun.
When she collapsed, He Han dragged her to a foreign company. When she hit a wall again and again when she was looking for a job, He Han recommended a reliable job to her, teaching her step by step how to deal with workplace troubles and family problems.
In a sense, without He Han, there would be no "rebirth" of Luo Zijun.
However, when Luo Zijun squeezed the subway to squeeze his shoes and threw them away, he called He Han for help, but he refused fiercely.
Why? Because he will not be meticulous, fully represented. He hoped that Luo Zijun would be able to stand up on his own when he fell on his heels.
But when Luo Zijun's brother-in-law fainted and was hospitalized, He Han stopped eating and immediately drove her to the hospital.
He Han is sometimes very "poisonous tongue", but he only says that it is useful to Luo Zijun, not what she likes to hear.
Yes, I really want to help your friend, the words may be ugly, the things you do may be ruthless, but in the long life, you will eventually understand that he is helping you, not harming you.
It is a kind of happiness to have a noble person like He Han in life!
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The person who gives you confidence when you encounter setbacks
True friends are generous, inclusive, full of positive energy, people who accompany you all your life, and the wealth of your life.
With such a person around you, your life will be sunny everywhere.
What is a person full of positive energy? In "The First Half of My Life", Tang Jing is the most perfect interpretation.
When Luo Zijun encountered a marriage change, Tang Jing was rational and decisive, and reacted most quickly.
She was the first to find out that Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling had an affair, and she warned Chen Junsheng at that time. Unsuspecting Luo Zijun asked Ling Ling to eat, Tang Jing was afraid that she would suffer losses, and mentioned Ling Ling in the words at the dinner table.
When Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun showdown, Tang Jing resolutely took Luo Zijun to his home, helped her analyze the pros and cons, and thought of countermeasures to help Luo Zijun and defend her rights and interests to the greatest extent.
She asked Luo Zijun not to expect Chen Junsheng anymore and help her find the best divorce lawyer. She reminded Luo Zijun that if she wants to fight for custody of her children, she must have a job. Then help her find a job and accompany her to the interview.
If there was no Tang Jing, Luo Zijun was likely to end up with two empty personal funds. It is precisely because of Tang Jing, Luo Zijun after the divorce, that he can grow up quickly and walk out of the shadow of divorce.
How lucky it is to have a friend like Tang Jing in life!
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People who encounter difficulties and help you in a timely manner
Mencius said, "The acquaintance of man is in the knowledge of each other; the knowledge of man is in the knowledge of you." ”
Yes, those who are in trouble, in times of suffering, help from friends, just like charcoal in the snow.
There are also many such friendships between celebrities, such as when Zhang Weijian suffered from the financial crisis, Andy Lau generously helped.
Andy Lau's reputation in the entertainment industry has always been good, he is not only successful in music, film and television, but also he often helps others.
Zhang Weijian bought a house with all his money for a period of time, but unexpectedly encountered a financial storm later.
At that time, he was filming in other places, and suddenly received a call from his family: "If we can't raise money to pay for the next month's loan, then we will file for bankruptcy next month, and then there will be nothing." ”
At that time, Zhang Weijian was in a mess and there was no way. With only two weeks left in that month, one of his plays was broadcast for 5 days and received very good ratings. Suddenly, the owner of a brokerage company wanted to sign a contract with him.
Zhang Weijian sincerely said frankly: "I am about to go bankrupt, can you help me get through this difficult time?" ”
The boss didn't say a word, directly took out a check for him, and finally sent him a sentence: "What you learn, you must teach people; if you earn, you must give it to you." ”
This boss is Andy Lau.
Later, whenever Zhang Weijian talked about this matter, he always said with tears in his eyes: "I will never forget that check in my life, and I am very grateful to Andy Lau for his helping hand." ”
It can be seen that Andy Lau's personality is worthy of being a superstar and an idol of so many people.
Such a noble person is worth cherishing, no matter at any time, we must remember that people have been good, and we can't just ask for it. When the other person needs help, they must also help.
He adds to you when you're happy; he doesn't hesitate to pull you along when you're in trouble.
How fortunate it is to have such a noble person as Andy Lau help in life!
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In the end, life is short, and the person who is really worthy of your favor is actually one kind.
In the vast world, there is a person who knows you, understands you, and hurts you, and your joys and sorrows are willing to share together, what a beautiful and fortunate thing it is.
Life is a long road, when we meet those:
People who can give you guidance when you feel lost; people who can give you confidence when you are anxious and depressed; people who can help you when you are down, regardless of gains and losses.
Encountering it is really a fate cultivated in the previous life; encountering it is really a great happiness; when encountering it, it must be cherished unconditionally.
A long life, no one knows what will happen later, real friends will always accompany you.
What we can do is cherish what we have in front of us and take care of this friendship with our hearts. Regardless of the final outcome, at least there are no regrets in recalling.
The wonderful life is fate, the preciousness of friendship is sincerity, the most touching moment is remembered by friends, the most beautiful moments are remembered by friends.