Wen 丨 Qingxin Junyue
In the recently updated TV series "Little Min's Home", it seems that all the contradictions and hidden feelings have exploded in these two episodes.
Chen Jiajia's love affair with Jin Jiajun was discovered by Li Ping, and Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo also knew;
Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo's love affair is also known to Jiajia and Jiajun;
In order to separate Jiajia and Jiajun, Li Ping began to prepare for sending Jiajia abroad, and at the same time, informed Liu Xiaomin to let Jiajun leave Nengcheng;
JiaJia questions Li Ping why she let Jin Jiajun drop out of school, and quarrels with Li Ping, causing Li Ping to be hospitalized and miscarried;
Jia Jun was deceived as a competitive sparring partner, and Li Ping was given birth by Qi Qi because of his affair with Jiajia, and his heart collapsed to return to Jiujiang, and he was stopped by Liu Xiaomin;
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In short, the plot development of these two episodes can be described as "earth-shattering", the occurrence of this series of events, let Jin Bo wake up, decided to go back to Jiujiang to sell houses to pay off debts, and start a new life, and Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo's feelings were also impacted.
See some netizens commented, all this happened to blame Jin Bo, if Jin Bo did not come to Beijing, Xiao Min's family and Li Ping's family will not "turn against each other".
To tell the truth, for the ex-husband Jin Bo of the "absolute son", I also hate to itch my teeth, I owe debts, let Jia Jun play the game to pay back the money, completely forgot that there is still more than a month before Jia Jun will take the college entrance examination, and even started Xiao Min's idea, first wanted to borrow money, and then had the idea of remarriage, and stayed at Xiao Min's house with a dead face.
But think about it, it seems that we can't blame all the problems on Jin Bo, even if Jin Bo didn't come to Beijing, Chen Jiajia and Jia Jun would be together, and their love affair would be exposed sooner or later, whether early or late, with Li Ping's personality, it was completely unacceptable.
Some netizens also believe that Chen Zhuo's attitude towards Jiajia and Jiajun's love affair is too double-standard, saying that Liu Xiaomin is equally important as his daughter, but when the accident occurs, he only cares about his daughter, does not care about Xiaomin's feelings and situation at all, and even acquiescies to Li Ping's withdrawal from school, and expresses his attitude of not agreeing with Jiajia and Jiajun.
For this statement, I personally do not agree very much.
In my opinion, Chen Zhuo's reaction and attitude toward Jiajia and Jiajun's love affair are very real and completely understandable.
First, the timing was not right
Chen Zhuo and Liu Xiaomin's love affair has always been hidden from Jiajia and Jiajun, mainly to take care of the children's feelings, worried about affecting their college entrance examination, but they did not think that their respective children would go to everything, not to mention whether they would become nominal brothers and sisters in the future, just to say that the timing is indeed not appropriate.
If the two children fall in love after the college entrance examination, then the situation may be alleviated, and no one wants the child to be distracted at the juncture of the college entrance examination with only one month left.
Moreover, Jia Jun came to Beijing for the sake of Qinghua, so how could Xiao Min let Jia Jun act so obstinately?
Second, he is a father, and it is a matter of course to protect his daughter
Chen Zhuo and Liu Xiaomin are in love, but this does not change that he is a father, as a father, when the daughter has an accident, he does not care about the daughter for the first time, but only considers the girlfriend for everything, is it more difficult for people to accept?
This is not a double standard, not to mention some netizens said that Xiao Min is hypocritical, but his instinct and love as a father, driven him to pay attention to his child for the first time, when Li Ping was hospitalized for abortion, Jia Jia was in the mood of self-blame, worry, regret, in the face of crying and making mistakes in the daughter, Chen Zhuo's worry is inevitable, otherwise in case jia jia has an accident, he will regret it for a lifetime because of his negligence.
Besides, Li Ping miscarried, Hong Wei's side will definitely be angry with Jia Jia, at this time he is not staying by Jia Jia's side, where should he go?
We should not harshly condemn a father's love for his daughter, let alone question his hypocrisy towards Liu Xiaomin, after all, for most parents, children are always the most important, for their children they can give everything, sacrifice everything, this is the deep love of parents for their children, this love has become instinctive, so his reaction should not be condemned.
Third, based on the perspective of parents, comprehensive consideration of children's mate selection and even marriage events
Chen Zhuo's unsupportive attitude towards Jiajia and Jiajun's relationship is normal and reasonable.
When Jiajia asked Chen Zhuo if she didn't want to fall in love with Jin Jiajun, Chen Zhuo's answer was:
"First of all, I like the kid Kim Ka-jun, he's fine, but... I mainly think Kim Ka-jun his dad... He owes a bunch of debts and lets his son pay them off..."
To be fair, when faced with the choice of a partner for their children, which parent would be willing to accept that the other parent has a father like Jimbo, who is not only an alcoholic, but also in debt?
Love is a matter of two people, but marriage will involve two families, even if Jiajia and Jiajun have not yet reached the point of talking about marriage, but in the face of Jin Bo's current situation, it is normal not to support the two people in love.
At the same time, we can look at it from a long-term perspective, at this stage, Jiajun is good, but it is unknown whether paying off the debt for the father will affect Kao Qinghua, and then affect Jiajun's life.
Who does not want their daughter to find a self-motivated, promising, potential partner, not to mention that with good conditions, although it is not necessary to find a "golden turtle son-in-law", but it is still easy to find a boy who is not burdened and tied.
As a person who has come over, as Chen Zhuo, who has experienced a failed marriage, his understanding of marriage and love is very realistic, and he does not want his daughter to blindly invest in an unknown relationship, and he is more worried that this relationship will bring harm to his daughter.
Therefore, out of responsibility for his daughter, Chen Zhuo did not support Jiajia's relationship with Jiajun, and there was nothing wrong with it. Moreover, temporary support does not mean that they will never agree, if Jiajia and Jiajun can really prove their feelings and that they can be happy together, then Chen Zhuo may also change his attitude.
Perhaps some people will feel that Chen Zhuo's attitude should not be like this, after all, Xiaomin is Jia jun's mother, but what I want to say is that this is different from whether Chen Zhuo and Liu Xiaomin are in love, and cannot be confused. Just think, if Xiao Min is not Jia Jun's mother, will we still harshly criticize Chen Zhuo's attitude?
No, because this is the common sentiment of people, but also the naked reality, if you just consider your relationship with Xiaomin, let this matter go, that is the real selfishness and irresponsibility.
Qingxin Junyue, an emotional observer, ta said book critic, film critic. Warm you, me with words.