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There is a line in the movie "Manslaughter 2" that is impressive.
Lin Rilang, played by Xiao Yang, is a father, and in the face of the black forces that hinder him from saving his children, this father angrily scolds: You don't understand what a father can do for his children!
In life, there are many parents who are desperate for their children like Lin Zhilang, and the 38-year-old Lei Xiaoying is an example, and her experience has made many people cry and sigh that mother's love is great.
Bao Mom was pregnant 9 times in 4 years, miscarried 8 times, and the great mother's love attracted heated discussion among netizens
9 pregnancies in 4 years, 8 miscarriages, including a pair of twins, seeing such information, many people will think that this mother is crazy, so frequent pregnancy abortion, hurt not only the child, but also destroy their own body.
But for 38-year-old Lei Xiaoying, everything he did was to save his 6-year-old daughter Pearl.
Lei Xiaoying married her husband and gave birth to a lovely girl, and the whole family was very happy and named it Pearl.
Unfortunately, after the birth of her daughter, she was diagnosed with thalassemia major, which caused the disease to occur due to a genetic mutation, and after the diagnosis, the little pearl has been relying on blood transfusions to survive.
But this is only a conservative treatment, and if you want a complete cure, you need a bone marrow transplant or a umbilical cord blood stem cell transplant.
Comparing the finished power, Lei Xiaoying decided to get pregnant and save the daughter, both by giving birth to a child who can successfully match the daughter's blood type, and using his umbilical cord blood to save the little pearl.
So in just 4 years, Lei Xiaoying was pregnant 9 times, but because the blood type was not successfully matched, she had to abort the babies in her belly one by one.
One of these babies is twins, but given the family's financial situation and her daughter's condition, she has to give up.
In the eyes of the neighbors, Lei Xiaoying seems to have a big belly all year round.
At an advanced age, she spent year after year in non-stop pregnancy and miscarriage, and miscarriage and induction of labor were quite harmful to women's bodies, and Lei Xiaoying also had a life-threatening situation.
The mother is distressed that her daughter is frequently injured, the mother-in-law is very dissatisfied with the repeated miscarriages of the daughter-in-law, and the husband has no way to comfort his wife, after all, she is doing it to save her daughter's life.
After Lei Xiaoying successfully conceived the child for the 9th time, the hospital gave her good news and bad news.
The good news is that this time the pairing of the baby in the belly with the pearl is successful, and the bad news is that the mother has induced frequent miscarriages and wants to give birth to the child healthily, which is very risky.
But no matter how the doctor evaluates, this is good news for Lei Xiaoying, which means that her daughter Pearl has been saved.
Although he ostensibly comforted her husband that everything would be fine, he privately wrote down such a sentence in his notebook: In the event of an accident, please save the child and save the little pearl.
Lei Xiaoying's experience touched many netizens, originally thought that her frequent miscarriage was an irresponsible behavior, but did not expect that the truth behind the scenes was to save her daughter's life.
But in addition to lamenting the greatness of maternal love, some netizens have questioned this, after all, the baby in the belly is also a life, is Lei Xiaoying's approach too cruel for the unborn child?
In addition, some netizens said that if a life exists to save another life, it is very unfair to himself.
"As a mother, I understand her approach, a mother in order to save her child, it is true that she can not even die." 」
"Mother's love is great, this mother is much better than those who prefer sons to daughters, and she refuses to give up her daughter no matter what."
"I don't sympathize or understand, because the child is alive in the belly." The child is first and foremost a person, not a therapeutic agent. ”
"Although they are all small lives, after all, the daughter has been conceived in October, she has become an independent person, and the mother's behavior is great."
Mom's message
We all say that women are weak, but mothers are strong.
In this seemingly incredible experience, Lei Xiaoying paid a great price for her daughter to recover.
But whether it is his own body, or those little babies who have no chance to come to the world, Lei Xiaoying has never regretted his choice.
In her view, it is her mission to bring her daughter safely into this world, and it is also her mission to ensure that her daughter can grow up healthy and happy.
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