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In life, every child is very much looking forward to their birthday, which can not only receive gifts from their families, but also eat delicious and delicious cakes.
But I don't know when it started, for children who have already gone to kindergarten, it has become a fashion to celebrate birthdays with their friends in kindergarten.
In the eyes of parents, although the group birthday is more fun, it has formed some inexplicable customs.
The children celebrate their birthdays in kindergarten and want to prepare gifts for the whole class, and Bao Mom angrily rebukes the unhealthy wind
Not long ago, a bao mom posted on the Internet, complaining about a classmate in her daughter's kindergarten.
Bao Mom said that once when picking up her daughter from school, her daughter excitedly showed her a gift bag in her hand, which was exquisitely made, similar to the souvenir she received when drinking full moon wine.
After returning home, Bao Mom opened the gift bag and found that there were not only small snacks such as biscuits and chocolates, but also a mug engraved with the names of the whole class, and there was also a blind box that the children liked very much in the gift bag.
After careful questioning, Bao Mom learned that a female classmate in her daughter's class had a birthday, and the student's mother not only ordered a large cake for her daughter to take to school, but also prepared a gift for each classmate with great care.
Bao Mom said that the kindergarten where her daughter is located, there are nearly 40 people in a class, and the price of this gift bag is never less than 100 yuan, which means that the girl's mother has spent at least a few thousand yuan for her daughter's birthday.
Although financial conditions allow, it is not much for parents to spend money to please their children.
But after the mother made a start, other children will use this way of celebrating birthdays as a reference standard, and in fact, not every family can afford this level of expenditure.
Bao Ma's complaint has also triggered the discussion of many netizens on the Internet.
Some people agree with Bao Ma, thinking that this is indeed a crooked and evil atmosphere, and normally children should not receive gifts from other people for their birthdays? Why do people who have birthdays now have to give gifts to others?
Some people also said that some parents do this, just a generous performance, the purpose is to make the child happy.
Netizen Comments:
@ Polo Ball: This situation was also encountered when my son was in the kindergarten class, forgot which child to start from, as long as someone has a birthday, parents will prepare a bunch of gifts to distribute to the children's classmates, resulting in my son's birthday later, he also clamored for me to do this, but the gifts we prepared did not have much money.
@ A cloud in the sky: Now it is like this, the name is happy to share with other children, in fact, it adds a lot of unnecessary burden to parents, but if parents are not prepared, children will feel faceless.
@ Can't finish eating and walking: Why do you have to go to kindergarten for your birthday? Completely incomprehensible to this behavior, in my opinion, is to promote the atmosphere of comparison!
@ Little Demon of the Year: I think that parents are only doing this to make their children happy, there is nothing wrong with this, but it is worth it, they all want to give their children a good memory.
Children have a birthday in kindergarten, is it necessary to prepare gifts for the whole class?
In life, teachers and parents always mention the word sharing when educating their children.
Therefore, when the child has a birthday, many parents will also prepare a small gift for every classmate in the child's class in order to let the child experience the happiness of sharing.
For parents, this is a small heart, but this practice may indeed trigger a comparison between children, and it will also make some parents with ordinary family conditions feel embarrassed. After all, if the standard of gifts is set high, many families cannot afford to spend.
Therefore, when children celebrate their birthdays in kindergarten, they should share happiness and emotions, and happiness and emotions cannot only be obtained through materials.
If your child insists on sharing the joy of their birthday with their classmates, parents can help their children prepare some small gifts at a good price, such as cards, candy, etc.
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