People are always obsessed with beautiful things, including dressing up. When you see beautiful clothes and shoes, you will imagine what you wear on your own children, is it very handsome? Or is there anything beautiful?
Story Case:
As a young mother after 95, Lena's biggest hobby is to dress up her children. A lot of beautiful clothes were prepared for Sugar Treasure, as well as matching shoes, hats and accessories.
Every time she goes out, Lena will carefully prepare clothes for Sugar Treasure, and will match different styles and colors of clothes according to the place where she goes, and each set is very colorful.
For Lena's behavior, the people around her really have mixed opinions. Even with a lot of doubts, Lena never wanted to compromise and still insisted on taking the time to dress up the child. As a mother, she is well aware of her influence on her children, and she knows the importance of aesthetics to children.
Doubts from parents: Is it necessary to dress up children?
Pro-faction: Children's aesthetics are cultivated from an early age, and the concept of beauty is cultivated from the daily dressing. And wearing beautiful clothes every day, the child's mood will become different, who will resist beautiful things?
Opposition: Children grow so fast, there is no need to buy them too many clothes, it is a waste. Instead of focusing on dressing up, take more time to develop good habits in your child. If the parents over-dress up and let the children develop luxurious living habits, it is really too late to regret it.
Parents have different views on dressing up. But it doesn't matter, after all, everyone's lifestyle and environment are different, and the pursuit of life is different. Of course, it is because the pursuit of different ways, so the final cultivation of children will be different, this is the inevitable result.
Put simply: before you are familiar with a person, you will habitually judge them by their dress. If he is dressed very sloppily, even if he is very smart and talented, people's impression of him will not be too good, and the evaluation is not very good; but if a person is dressed very well, dressed neatly and tastefully, I believe that people's impression of him is also very good.
Although it cannot be completely generalized, there is no doubt that dress is really important. Especially children who do not dress up seriously are likely to suffer a lot of unwarranted harm, and parents must pay attention to it.
Injury 1: Being judged by their appearance
Dressed scruffily, it is inevitable that you will be labeled "untidy". In group life, others will habitually exclude and stay away from these children who do not love cleanliness. Even everyone thinks that even if they can't wear clothes well, other things must not be done well.
Once others look at people, it will have an impact on the child's future personality and growth. The exclusion of others will make the child's heart hurt and become more and more inferior.
Injury two: affects social interaction
Another injury, of course, is the social aspect. For beautiful things, people are always eager to have a particularly good impression. For bad things, there is always habitual rejection. Especially when making friends, this sentence will be vividly expressed.
It is said that friends have more roads to go, and it is no exaggeration to say that friends are invisible wealth. Without socializing, children will be very frustrated, and the whole person will appear particularly lonely.
Injury Three: Automatically ignored
I remember watching a video before: The Children's Day performance program, children dressed in some sloppy clothes, were directly ignored by teachers and children. The other children performed a glamorous and sunny and confident performance. Only this scruffyly dressed child, ignored by the others, sat silently in the corner and watched.
Seriously, being overlooked is definitely not a good thing. That feeling of inferiority is really strong enough to make children doubt life. These childhood injuries will accompany the child throughout his life, so that the rest of his life will also be spent in uneasiness and depression.
No one could have imagined that behind not seriously dressing up children, there was so much harm hidden. I would like to ask: What parent is willing to let their children bear these harms? The outfit to be said here is not the brand that many parents think, but clean, tidy and comfortable.
Within the limits of your ability, buy your child some neat and comfortable clothes. Suitable for their age, whether it is color or style, it is not so eye-catching. As long as it is clean and tidy enough, you can show the child's innocence and childlike fun at this stage.
Not too extravagant, not too offbeat. In this way, the aesthetics of children are not only improved, but they do not have to worry about their focus on dress. Most importantly, carefully matched clothing will not be ridiculed by others, and there is no need to worry about being excluded by others.
Write at the end: To the extent that you can, buy your children some comfortable clothes so that they can have a healthy and happy childhood. Remember, it is best not to let children wear other people's old clothes, it is easy to reduce their aesthetics, and it is easy to make children become inferior.