Story: Marriage without love, doomed to not go long, I now regret my original choice, I struggled for a few years, I married a rich woman, but I did not expect such a marriage to make me depressed

Story: Marriage without love is doomed to not go long

　　I now regret my original choice, I struggled for a few years, I married a rich woman, but I did not expect that such a marriage made me extremely depressed, and sure enough, the woman's family is better than the man's, it is difficult to go down, but unfortunately, now I regret that I can't get back my true love.

　　My name is Xiao Hai (pseudonym), I am a relatively handsome young man, with diligence and studious jumped out of the "farm gate". After graduating from college that year, he joined the urban office workers who were envied by rural people. Seeing that it was time to talk about marriage and marry, I needed to buy a house, but the house prices in the city were soaring year by year, and I couldn't afford to buy it on my own salary alone, and my parents who "faced the loess and turned their backs to the sky" could not afford to support me. Although I saw many objects, in the end, they all failed because the other party thought that I had no room.

　　In early 2005, the neighbor introduced me to the girl Lena again, and the two quickly fell in love, but neither of them could afford to buy a house. At this time, the unit transferred a girl Qingmei, her family conditions are particularly good, the family has a house and a car, but Qingmei looks average. After seeing the handsome Xiaohai, Qingmei moved her heart and pursued him.

　　"You don't have to buy a house when you get married", "You can reduce the burden on your family", "You don't need to work hard to live a superior life"... Considering this, Xiao Hai hesitated, and then thought about the hardships brought about by poor family conditions, and finally he gave up his beloved Lena and chose Qingmei, and the two soon got married.

　　After marriage, Xiaohai got what she wanted in terms of living conditions, and the woman's family not only provided housing, but also prepared all the electrical appliances in the family, even daily necessities, and the woman's mother's family also funded from time to time. However, the comfortable married life did not make Xiaohai forget the deeply loved Lena, and she was always lukewarm and lukewarm like warm water to Qingmei, and sometimes absent-minded. Over time, Harumi, who had always been superior at home, became more and more dissatisfied and spread her anger on her mother-in-law.

　　On June 12 last year, Xiaohai's mother came to see them from the countryside and brought some homegrown "green vegetables". Downstairs, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law met. Seeing that the mother-in-law was rustic, qingmei cold face with anger in her heart took over the dish, and then asked the mother-in-law to "fight the road back to the house". The mother-in-law, who was originally full of joy, saw her daughter-in-law like this, and she did not even eat lunch and went back.

　　"Why don't you prepare lunch for the old man?" Xiao Hai questioned. "My mom gave me money a long time ago, and we're still close to ordering that?!" He went far and wide to get vegetables here, and he was not afraid to make the neighbors laugh. Harumi replied with a disdainful face.

　　In daily life, Qingmei looks down on her mother-in-law's family, thinks they are dirty and poor, and when she sees them, she coldly speaks coldly, so that Xiaohai's old people are reluctant to interact with them, and during the New Year's Festival, Qingmei also opposes going back to the countryside to see the elderly, which makes Xiaohai embarrassed. But in order to calm things down, he still put up with it.

　　In December last year, Xiaohai's mother missed her grandson and came from the countryside, and Qingmei also did not cook for the mother-in-law in the countryside. Xiao Hai couldn't help it: "Can't my mother change a meal for you like this?" In the future, you don't want me to come to your mother's house. One of his angry words triggered a fierce battle between the two, and Qingmei asked, "You don't have the right to argue with me, shut me up, whose house do you live in?" Who's eating? If you don't want to stay, get out!" His wife had said such words more than once, which had caused Xiao Hai's self-esteem to be hit hard.

　　Recalling his beloved Lena and looking at the life of "sending people under the fence" in front of him, Xiaohai already regretted his original choice, and he sighed: "This kind of marriage without love is really painful. Not long ago, Xiaohai submitted a divorce application to the court.