Lei Xiaoying, 38, is an elderly woman with a 7-month pregnancy, but neighbors have talked about her pregnancy.
Since 4 years ago, neighbors often see Lei Xiaoying standing up pregnant, has not given birth, and began to wonder, is this pregnant with a "Nezha"?
In the face of the suspicion of the neighbors, Lei Xiaoying told everyone that in the past four years, she was not pregnant with one, but constantly pregnant and miscarried, and now the cause in her stomach is the ninth in 4 years.
Listening to Lei Xiaoying's words, everyone is full of doubts, as we all know, miscarriage is very harmful to the body, especially Lei Xiaoying is still an elderly mother, and a careless person is likely to be life-threatening.
So why has she been desperately trying to get pregnant over the years, but not to give birth to a child, in the face of everyone's heavy questions, Lei Xiaoying finally said her pain.
She was pregnant with nine children in four years
38-year-old Lei Xiaoying, somewhat dull skin, wearing a white T-shirt, a big belly is very conspicuous, she said that every time she walks on the street, she is often asked, has been standing up with a big belly, why not see life?
And Lei Xiaoying also because of the year-round constantly stand up the big belly, often by friends ridicule big belly, in the face of this nickname she accepted frankly, but a person can always be pregnant is indeed a little unbelievable.
Looking at everyone's face of doubt, Lei Xiaoying took out his pregnancy certificate, and a white medical record examination said that pregnancy was five, which means the fifth pregnancy.
She turned back another one, it said pregnant seven, looking at the list of pregnancy tests, everyone felt a little surprised, the reporter couldn't help but ask: "So how many times are you pregnant this time?" ”
Lei Xiaoying smiled with some embarrassment and said, "This is the ninth pregnancy." ”
She told reporters that from 2013 to 2016, in just four years, she has been pregnant 9 times, so when people see her, she always keeps her belly open.
The reporter still feels shocked to hear this number, nine pregnancies in four years, for a woman, it is simply a crazy behavior, not to mention that Lei Xiaoying is 38 years old, is an elderly mother, everyone can't help but wonder what Lei Xiaoying is so crazy pregnant for?
In the face of everyone's incomprehension, Lei Xiaoying said very calmly that he just wanted to give birth to a healthy child and be able to be a companion with his eldest daughter in the future.
Lei Xiaoying's words uncovered the reasons behind her crazy pregnancy.
The reason for crazy pregnancy
Lei Xiaoying told everyone that she and her husband are a halfway couple, and after getting married, they very much want a daughter, and soon after, the daughter was born, adding a lot of happiness to the family.
Lei Xiaoying's daughter, named Pearl, looks cute, has a shawl-length hair, smiles missing one front tooth, and her eyes are full of childlike innocence.
Lei Xiaoying said that he wanted to have a child in order to give Pearl companionship, but after a while, everyone found that it was catty.
When the reporter asked about Pearl: "Do you like Mom?" ”
Pearl said, "Don't like it, bad, you can't take a break." ”
In the face of her daughter's accusations, Lei Xiaoying was full of guilt, and she took out a genetic diagnosis report for everyone to see, which reported that Both Lei Xiaoying and her husband were carriers of the poor gene.
Thalassemia is a more harmful genetic disorder caused by the deletion or point mutation of globin genes, the deletion or point mutation of these genes can cause various peptide chain synthesis disorders, resulting in changes in the composition of hemoglobin.
At present, there are no measures to cure thalassemia, and one of the commonly used methods is blood transfusion treatment, but long-term blood transfusion can cause excessive accumulation of iron ions, resulting in heart failure and death.
The pearl, which inherited the poverty gene of the two parents, became a patient with severe thalassemia, so in order to protect her daughter, she did not let her daughter go out to play, and only allowed her daughter to read or paint alone at home.
Young Pearl did not understand her mother's good intentions, and every time her mother did not allow her to go out, she could only pout in protest.
Looking at the unhappiness on her daughter's face, Lei Xiaoying still softened her heart, she took her daughter downstairs, but did not allow Pearl to run around and jump, unexpectedly, just a few minutes later, Pearl, who was still playing happily, suddenly said that she was unwell.
Lei Xiaoying and her husband immediately took their daughter to the hospital, along the way, Pearl began to cry in pain, Huang Xiaoying was eager to bear the pain for her daughter, but she could not do anything but look at it.
After coming to the hospital, Pearl did not cry or make trouble, and the doctor seemed very familiar, Lei Xiaoying told everyone that her daughter had been here since she was a child, and the doctor could be said to have watched her grow up.
When the reporter asked how likely the cure for pearl's disease was, the doctor told everyone that at present, only regular blood transfusions and iron drainage can be relied on to prolong the life of pearls.
However, if you want to cure it, only bone marrow transplantation and umbilical cord blood stem cell transplantation, but this treatment method, patients and donors must match bone marrow or umbilical cord blood.
At this moment, the doctor's words made people feel sad, he said that like the mother of pearl, constantly pregnant, is to do a cord blood stem cell transplant.
And there are many people like her, and many families have to constantly get pregnant in order to save their children.
At this time, everyone suddenly realized that behind Lei Xiaoying's crazy pregnancy, it was not as simple as wanting the second child to be a companion for her daughter.
Lei Xiaoying said that she originally wanted to wait for the bone marrow to match, but the bone marrow bank was not found for several years, and she did not want her daughter to spend a lifetime of blood transfusions, so she decided to get pregnant herself to find the matching baby's umbilical cord blood.
However, after each pregnancy, Lei Xiaoying waited for the news of the failure of blood type matching, but she did not give up, but it did not matter if she failed, as long as the good reason of the body comforted herself and continued to prepare for the next pregnancy.
But with the miscarriage again and again, Lei Xiaoying's body has been overloaded, and her age does not allow her to take any more risks, but thinking that as long as she can save her daughter, Lei Xiaoying still wants to fight again desperately.
This is a mother's great love selfless, but also a mother's sadness and helplessness, this time, can the child in Lei Xiaoying's belly be matched successfully, can the child in her belly make the shadowy home see the light of day again?
Finally see the light
Lei Xiaoying told everyone that the first 3 pregnancies and children are very healthy, but because the matching is not successful, she can only beat the child off, the fourth time, she is pregnant with a pair of twins, no examination directly beat the child, the fifth and sixth time, the child was found to have thalassemia, she had to beat the child off.
In four years, nine pregnancies, three inductions, six miscarriages, one after another shocking, all represent a past that Lei Xiaoying does not want to recall, she said that when it was last circulated, she almost died.
In these four years, Lei Xiaoying has been living in the cycle of pregnancy, examination, miscarriage, and re-pregnancy.
The purpose of her doing this is to hope that her daughter can go to school happily every day like a normal child, and can go out and play with children after school.
Fortunately, after the child in the belly was examined, the doctor told her that she was healthy, so that Lei Xiaoying rekindled hope.
When Lei Xiaoying went to the field to do a matching check, her mother came to the house, and Lei Xiaoying had tears in her eyes when she talked about her daughter, she knew in her heart that her daughter was doing this to save her granddaughter, but for her, Lei Xiaoying was also her own daughter.
Looking at her daughter's four years of torture, she was very distressed, but every time she was dissuaded, her daughter still insisted on pregnancy matching, the mother and daughter both held their headaches and cried in bed, and the mother-in-law on the side was indifferent, so that people could not understand.
It turned out that Lei Xiaoying's mother-in-law had always been very opposed to the daughter-in-law's approach, and she told her daughter-in-law that as long as the child was born healthily, both men and women liked it, but Lei Xiaoying, who had a stubborn personality, did not listen to the advice of her mother-in-law, so the mother-in-law made a lot of trouble.
Even if all the people objected, Lei Xiaoying still carried his bag to the station, the husband looked at his wife for a moment of silence, he wanted to stop his wife, but he was afraid that his wife would not be happy, but he was afraid that his wife would be in danger if he did not stop.
After last night's matching, Lei Xiaoying returned home to wait for the notification, these days she is like an ant on a hot pot, going back and forth in the living room is very anxious.
Fortunately, this time good luck finally took care of this poor mother, and after experiencing 8 failures, the child in Lei Xiaoying's belly finally matched successfully with the eldest daughter.
After hearing the good news, the husband called his good brother for the first time to share the joy of this share, and the husband and wife were full of smiles on their faces, and the long-cherished wish could finally be fulfilled.
After learning that the child's matching was successful, Lei Xiaoying's first task was to ensure that the child was born safely, and she went to the hospital for pregnancy examination, but the doctor's words made her heart cold in an instant.
After the doctor's careful examination, the doctor's face was very solemn, and she told Lei Xiaoying that because the uterine muscle fiber damage was more severe, the probability of postpartum bleeding was very high, and the situation of adults would be very dangerous.
However, after experiencing ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties, Lei Xiaoying had a hard time waiting for the success of the matching, and she was unwilling to give up the opportunity in front of her.
After returning home, Lei Xiaoying took out her daughter's book and pen and wrote many words on the paper, she told reporters that this was a suicide note written by herself, she wrote in it, if she had an accident, she must save the child.
However, another problem arises, because she and her husband can no longer afford the operation because of the high daily medical expenses paid for their daughter.
In order to be able to collect 500,000 yuan in the operation fee, she found local caring people for help, and finally, with the joint help of the government and caring people, everyone helped Lei Xiaoying through the difficulties.
It is said that maternal love is great, and Lei Xiaoying interprets the greatness of maternal love with her own life, although she is an ordinary mother, but her approach deserves to be admired by everyone.