Text: Jing Ma
The hardest thing in the world to change is someone else's point of view! Everyone has their own opinions, and everyone is selfish and likes to stand on their own side and accuse others. #头条创作挑战赛#
In Qingdao, Shandong Province, there was a jaw-dropping conflict on a subway full of passengers, with four seats in the car, the first one was a 60-year-old aunt, and the second was a pregnant woman with a big belly.
And because the pregnant woman's belly has protruded, when sitting on the stool, it is difficult to avoid that the belly may bulge outward, occupying some of the positions of others, just occupying the position of the 60-year-old aunt next to her, fortunately, the pregnant woman got off the car not long after, and the pregnant woman got off the car after the aunt secretly scolded: fat like a pig, accounting for half of my position......
I never thought that the pregnant woman's husband hadn't gotten out of the car at this time, and when he heard others scolding his wife, he was furious, and pointed at the aunt and scolded: Who are you scolding a pig? What's wrong with she's pregnant? She's pregnant, don't you know?
At this time, my aunt was also very angry when she was pointed at and scolded, and said: What's wrong with pregnant women, pregnant women occupy half of my position, should pregnant women eat more and occupy more?
The pregnant woman's husband was also very angry, and his wife, who was pregnant with his own flesh and blood, was scolded by others as a pig, and his hand was about to point to the forehead of the aunt. The aunt also stood up angrily, pushed the young man aside and said: Does a pregnant woman have two heads? Should pregnant women eat more and occupy more?
In the end, the pregnant woman's husband was really impatient to quarrel with her, so he sat in the seat and played with his mobile phone, and the aunt was still babbling: Young people nowadays are really shameless.
Seeing such a scene, it is really incredible, and the people next to him don't dare to dissuade it, after all, that aunt is really a person who ignores and wants to stir up three points, when a pregnant woman gets on the bus and takes the bus, there is no way to put away her stomach, everyone should understand.
As a woman, this aunt should have been pregnant and had a child, and she should be more able to understand the inconveniences of pregnancy, but she didn't expect to spit fragrantly, and actually said that others were pigs, no wonder this pregnant woman's husband lost his temper!
In fact, it can also be seen that mothers do experience various inconveniences when they are pregnant, and it is best to give understanding and convenience as others.
There may be these inconveniences during pregnancy, and people should be more understanding and supportive
Type 1: Reduced mobility
I saw a pregnant woman on the Internet before, because she usually has to squeeze the bus and the subway, she is wearing a green dress like a traffic policeman, which says "pregnant women don't push don't push", in fact, it is to tell others that my belly is big, don't push me, don't squeeze me when you see it.
After all, when a pregnant mother has a big belly and is pushed by others, her center of gravity is unstable and easy to fall, and her belly is easy to be uncomfortable when she is pushed by someone, so we should avoid it when we see pregnant women on the road, try not to push, do not squeeze.
Type 2: Inconvenient to eat
Some mothers will vomit when they smell some smells in the early stages of pregnancy, so when going out to eat with the mother in the first trimester, it is best to consult the mother in the first trimester what she wants to eat and what she can't eat, so as to avoid the situation that the pregnant woman will vomit at the dinner table.
Some pregnant mothers may be more sensitive to some foods when they reach the second and third trimesters, for example, some pregnant mothers can't eat shrimp, some pregnant mothers can't eat crab, or can't eat peanut butter, sesame paste, etc., so when you eat with your mother, you should tell her in advance what ingredients these dishes have.
Type 3: Inconvenient to go to the toilet
When we go to the mall or go to a tourist attraction, the most lively place is actually the girls' toilet, the boys' toilet generally does not have to queue, but the women's toilet is mostly queued.
If you see a pregnant mother behind you when you are queuing, it is best to make it convenient for the pregnant mother to go to the toilet first, especially in the third trimester of pregnancy, because the pressure of the uterus on the bladder can not store too much urine, always feel urgent, plus the pelvic floor muscles are relaxed, at this time I can't help but leak urine.
And we, as people in society, give convenience to others, and others will also give convenience to ourselves in the future.
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