Wen 丨 Qingxin Junyue
Everyone hopes that their lives can be happier and better, which is the goal we strive for, but there are always some people who want to lie and win, or try to achieve what they want through shortcuts, and the results often backfire.
In order to get the favor of the Marquis, she used countless lies to package herself as the other party's favorite, and used various routines to approach the Marquis, and even in order to exclude dissidents, she did not hesitate to join hands with Mary to frame Wu Eleven for stealing things, all for her "dream of a hero", but in the end she found nothing.
I especially like a sentence that Bi Shumin said: "I like to use clean means to reach a bright ideal." A person lives to maximize their own happiness and to make others happier because of your existence. ”
The Marquis is the prey
Fang Lu's first appearance was at the celebration banquet of Zhirong Construction, as a small Internet celebrity, she and her agent Mary stared at the Marquis sleeping on the sofa from the moment they entered the house.
In Mary's words:
"In this environment, you can still sleep so leisurely, no one disturbs, and sleep so domineeringly, it is not an ordinary person at first glance."
Attending a banquet is fake, and fishing for a "golden turtle son-in-law" is true.
After learning that the Marquis was the young Marquis of ZhirongJian, Fang Lu began to deliberately approach the Marquis with the assistance of Mary.
First of all, he pretended to sit next to the marquis with a foot pain, and then deliberately chatted with others on WeChat, pretending that he was not interested in the banquet, but he had no choice but to work to participate, which made the marquis, who also hated the hypocritical socializing at the banquet, instantly have a feeling of pity for each other.
Subsequently, the two naturally chatted, and in Fang Lu's chat with the Marquis, she created for herself the image of "sincerity", "simplicity", "self-reliance" and "self-motivation".
Especially when others greeted the Marquis, Fang Lu pretended to be surprised by the marquis's identity and quickly said:
"You are Xiao Hou Zong, that doesn't seem to be a class, I don't want to be misunderstood by others, I want to be confused with some rich people, don't talk about it, and leave."
A move to retreat into advance, quickly won the goodwill of the marquis who was kind in heart and never proud of his identity, the two added WeChat to each other, and Fang Lu opened the plan of the Marquis of Taolu.
In Fang Lu's heart, the Marquis is the prey, the cash cow, and the passport to connect the life of the magnate, so she tries everything to get close to the Marquis in an attempt to make him fall in love with herself, so that she can easily dominate and enjoy what he has.
However, although love sometimes requires a little skill, it is only to attract the attention of the lover, love is the premise, and all of Fang Lu's heart is not for love, but to satisfy his material desires and vanity that he does not dare to show.
Disguise and lie are good brothers
In the eyes of the Marquis, Fang Lu is a simple, kind girl, with no background and no connections, working hard for life, such a Fang Lu makes the kind Marquis have pity.
Therefore, the Marquis always generously helped Fang Lu when he needed help, and when the rental house was flooded, the Marquis helped carry the luggage and arrange the hotel; when the crew was excluded, the Marquis drove hundreds of miles to support him; in order to make up for the apologies for not helping, he gave Fang Lu a necklace of great value...
But what did Fang Lu do?
Because the Marquis did not help her bully others, she cried and sold miserably, making the Marquis feel very guilty;
Because of vanity, he falsely claimed that the marquis was his fiancé who was about to get married, obtained the C position, and deceived the marquis into picking a wedding dress for her, in an attempt to fool through;
Because of advertising endorsements, agree to the transaction arranged by Mary, accompany the investor on a trip;
Fearing that Wu Eleven would sabotage his plans and conspire with Mary to frame Wu Eleven, Eleven was not only forced to suspend him, but also almost ruined his career;
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Everything in this way shows that Fang Lu is not as simple and kind as the Marquis imagined, and all the beautiful characters are deliberately disguised by her, so many viewers evaluate Fang Lu as "green tea".
Disguise and lie are good brothers, disguise, is made up of one lie after another, but as long as it is a lie, there will be a day when it will be punctured.
Whether it is love or marriage, the most taboo is lies and deception. This is difficult for many people to accept, those selfish and greedy lies, may briefly achieve your purpose, but if it is false, it is false, and even the most realistic lies are not facts.
Don't think that when the other party is deeply in love with himself, he will not care about lies and disguises, the truth is just the opposite, a person who loves you deeply will give you the greatest trust, when she finds your lies and deception, he will be more sad and angry than the person who does not love you.
The perfect persona created with lies and disguises will not stand the test of time.
On the topic of love and bread
Finally, let's talk about love and bread.
Someone must have asked you, which is more important, love or bread?
In fact, whether you choose bread or love, you have your reason, because most of our choices are based on what we currently have, or have never had.
People with independent abilities may be inclined to love, while people who have love, or people who are desperate for material things, may be more inclined to bread.
From the perspective of both worlds, the most perfect is of course love and bread.
After all, love is an emotional experience and emotional need that cannot be simply replaced by any material conditions, but love is indeed not the whole of life, it cannot meet people's needs for survival, nor can it replace the role of money in life.
It is very noble to have love without bread, but when we integrate all our passions into the life of chai rice oil and salt, who can guarantee that love will always be the same, and we will still love each other to the point of indifference?
Therefore, persistent persistence as long as bread, or as long as love, may not be the best choice.
Of course, the perfect object of both worlds is indeed a rare animal, but what we must insist on looking for is not a perfect object, but a "almost" other party - you have love, personality, the other may not be rich for the time being, but at least have the economic conditions of independent life and a good future.
As for Fang Lu, she obviously did not think about these things clearly, she thought that money and status were synonymous with happiness, she used the marquis's kindness to deceive his sympathy and pity, in order to achieve the purpose of not daring to show people, after all, people had two riches, and she also completely lost herself and the bottom line in materialism and vanity.
Qingxin Junyue, an emotional observer, ta said book critic, film critic. Warm you, me with words.