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There is a saying in "Sweet Honey": "Silly boy, go take a hot bath, get a good night's sleep, get up tomorrow morning, the streets are full of men, everyone is better than brother leopard." ”
If it makes you feel suffocated in your feelings, it is better to let it go! Find your own true love. True love does not rely on one person's death, but on the two-way rush of two people.
Love, meet is only the beginning, and cherishing is the process, true love needs two people to cherish each other, will last forever.
The person you meet, is not true love, "feeling" will not deceive people.
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In true love, you will feel happy when needed
"City of Glass" said: "The love line, the lifeline, the career line in my hand, are all spelled out of your name." ”
Loving a person will make such an unforgettable love, and even the name needs the other party's palm print to be spelled out. Love, only in the depths of love, will need each other's bits to form their own lives.
In ordinary people, trouble may be a very painful thing, but between two people who are deeply in love, it is a very happy thing to be needed by each other.
In the movie "Mary and Marx", Mary and Marx are both autistic people, and both are lonely before they meet.
They long for friends in their hearts, but based on the existence of the disease, the two people have been lonely.
By chance, Mary met Marx, and she began to write letters to Him. Marx received the letter from Mary, and seeing Mary's sunny and comforting language, Marx immediately felt that his strength was multiplied.
For the first time, he felt needed, and he began to live a confident, happy life, and he felt that his world had become different because of Mary.
At the same time, he felt that he was a useful person, and in the process of their correspondence, both of them had changed from loneliness to happiness. Because they need each other and give themselves encouragement, support and understanding.
Gorky said: "When you feel that everyone needs you, this feeling will make you have a strong experience. ”
Being needed by others is a very happy thing, and only when others need you, it means that you have a valuable existence.
Especially in the world of feelings, no matter how indestructible you are in front of outsiders, but in front of your own lover, especially when he needs you, you will always be the one he loves the most.
The friend's husband is very honest and does the lowest level of work, so she is often looked down upon by outsiders, but the friend loves her husband very much.
She said that when she went to bed at night, she had the habit of kicking the quilt, and in the more than ten years of living together, her husband would cover her with a quilt several times a night.
This kind of subconscious care and care makes friends feel that she needs her husband's care, and in her husband's care, she feels at ease and happiness.
True love is not necessarily vigorous, not necessarily a mountain alliance, as long as you can come to me when I need it, give me warmth when I need it, it is the most beautiful love.
Love cares about the sincere protection of each other, not the rhetoric of hypocrisy.
Smart people like to be honest with themselves and give everything to their partner, because this is the most down-to-earth explanation of their feelings.
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In true love, all promises can be fulfilled
Sanmao said, "Whenever I think of you, a grain of sand falls from the sky, and the Sahara Desert has formed ever since." Whenever I think of you, a drop of water falls from the sky and forms the Pacific Ocean. ”
Love deep down, promises will come true. It may be clumsy, but if the promise is fulfilled, it is a very romantic and happy thing. Commitment doesn't have to be lofty, but being able to do what you say is the most sincere.
In a radio program, the host asked Zhang Jiahui, who is more important, wife and daughter? Zhang Jiahui said that his daughter was important.
Then, the host asked him, did he ever think about betrayal after marriage? Zhang Jiahui did not think about it, because he was afraid of losing his family and wife.
Guan Yonghe, who was on the side, heard Zhang Jiahui's answer and said with a smile, "My daughter must be more important than me, but the problem of betrayal, as long as the feelings are loyal, there is no such worry."
The audience instantly understood that although he was a big-name actor with a graceful appearance, he was just an ordinary person, but he chose to live his life into an enviable happiness.
In fact, when Zhang Jiahui and Guan Yonghe first met, Zhang Jiahui once went to Guan Yonghe's home.
At that time, Guan Yonghe's family was luxurious and luxurious, which made Zhang Jiahui a little timid. He thought that it would be difficult for him to bring kwan Wing Ho a satisfactory life in the future.
But at that time, Guan Yonghe said to Zhang Jiahui, I only like a few items at home, and when we get married, you will pack these items with me and take them with you.
Therefore, he promised Guan Yonghe that he would make achievements in his career, and he would marry Guan Yonghe into the door in a beautiful way, so that Guan Yonghe would be happy for a lifetime.
Zhang Jiahui has the motivation of love and works hard to make a scene. A few years later, Zhang Jiahui became popular with "Witness", won many awards, and he began to turn purple, fulfilling the promise he had made to Kwan Wing Ho.
This is the most beautiful form of love, not abandoned when it is down, and accompanied to the end when it is full of light. Now Zhang Jiahui and Guan Yonghe are living very happily.
Women want men to make promises to themselves, not only because of the feelings at the time, but be able to one day be realized and can give her happiness.
In fact, the promises made by men are not focused on deadlines for women, but no matter how long or short, as long as you can keep them, I am happy.
Good feelings are responses to everything, and everything has a landing. There is no perfunctory in between, no excuses, but what is said.
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The person you love, can you accompany you throughout your life, "feeling" will not lie
In this world, there are some things that can only be realized and understood only when you meet the right person. If you don't meet the right person, happiness is just a passer-by for you, only appreciation and no possession.
Shakespeare said, "Love, which can be created, destroyed love, once rebuilt, is grander, more beautiful, and more tenacious than it was before." ”
Love can give people the power to create, the power to live, the courage to appreciate. Therefore, if you meet the right person, you must cherish it.
Because there are some things in life that must be explained clearly in love, and only in love can it be perfect, so that it is closer to your life and feels happy.
So, whether to love or not to love is up to our own ideas. True love does not care about the oath of the mountains and the sea, but the persistence and protection in the ordinary.
Life is not a moment of emotional beauty, but a lifetime of passion. It is in our love, living a lifetime of mutual affection, living a lifetime of inseparable.