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In our family, no one has left anyone behind, and no one has given up on anyone.
Naturally, the divorced parents are also compounded.
This Spring Festival holiday, watched "Three Lives Have the Luck to Meet You", because it has ended, the coolest thing is that you can watch it in one breath, and the plot is coherent.
Watching this is also the day I casually asked my mother what drama she was watching, and she said this.
Someone commented on marriage and said:
The essence of marriage is an exchange of values that are balanced with each other.
Psychologist Schiller says of love:
True love is single-minded, the field of love is very narrow, it is narrow enough to accommodate only two people to survive, if you fall in love with several people at the same time, it can not be called love, it is just an emotional game.
The emotion of this drama is a relatively special setting: old and young love, misplaced love, unrequited love, divorce compound...
Old and young love, the premise of love is money? Is there true love?
The setting of old and young love is now normal in society!
Friend Xiu'er 35 years old is still as bright as an 18-year-old girl, as avant-garde as a modern girl, 10 years of marathon love she is not tired, whenever the boyfriend mentions the topic of marriage, she is not concerned about it, or asked: Aren't we very good now?
Xiu'er does not want to get married, not that she does not love her first love boyfriend, but she does not want to be bound by the family, and feels that without the paper marriage contract, love will not change.
Her boyfriend is 25 years older than she is, and she doesn't want to get married and doesn't want to be bound by a marriage contract.
Moreover, she has always lived alone, the two do not live together, for many years of shopping mall hard work, she is free to get used to, there is no idea of living in groups, everything is comfortable and safe.
Then, in the TV series "Three Lives Have the Honor to Meet You", Hou Zhirong, the father of the male protagonist Marquis, met the money he wanted to practice on the tennis court, and this girl who was a security instructor wanted to take a tennis coaching certificate and earn multiple incomes.
The two are young and sassy, look beautiful and lovely, and one is elegant and successful, and it is not old to look up.
Just when qian qian's parents came, Hou Zhirong lent her a luxury car and villa, while distressing the "yatou", while giving the "yatou" all kinds of conveniences, everything is so good.
Until the parents of the want to see her boyfriend.
As the boss, Hou Zhirong refused, he did not want to get married, and his idea, which had been living alone for many years, would not be bad except marriage.
Money wants to get married!
If she doesn't get married, she won't fall in love.
At the end of the TV series, the two people who broke up got back together.
For a long time, the saying that marriage is the graveyard of love has made some people linger at the door of marriage and look timid, and the chai rice oil and salt in life have also made many romantic people feel disturbed.
Hou Zhirong believes that houses, cars, and money can all give money, a difference of 29 years in age, so that he does not want to continue the marriage.
In the eyes of money and money, the legal status and binding nature of marriage is the best way to keep love fresh for a long time.
In married life, two people lift the veil of mystery, whether it is advantages or disadvantages, they are all at a glance. And perhaps Hou Zhirong was afraid of this.
Two-way love, the marquis finally won fifty-one, three lives are lucky!
The male protagonist, the Marquis, at first seemed like a Dou who could not be supported.
The female protagonist, Wu Eleven, because her father is in debt, desperately tries to make money and works as a female security guard.
Because the Marquis was chased and beaten, the Marquis's father, Hou Zhirong, hired Wu Eleven to protect him.
In fact, both people are facing the betrayal of their predecessors at this time.
The two men were also fierce in dealing with the betrayal of their predecessors.
The Marquis made a big fuss at his ex's wedding, saying that the ex had multiple boyfriends...
Wu Eleven hit the ex, welded the door of the ex and Xiao San...
Despite this, later, they all blessed the "scum" man and the "scum" woman, because they were also confused people in love, loved and panicked, and chose to give up.
A weak male brother, a tough kung fu girl, acquaintance.
Because of Wu Eleven's tenacity and self-love, the Marquis fell in love with Wu Eleven.
At first, Wu Eleven, as the Marquis's security guard, the Marquis did not like her and always made it difficult for her, wu Eleven did not get angry or leave because of his determination, but resolved the Marquis's predicament again and again.
She worked conscientiously and responsibly, always vigilantly maintaining her working state, and in the marquis's crisis, she protected him again and again.
For the sake of Wu Eleven, the Marquis was also willing to pay.
He is tough, she is strong, he is stubborn, she is stubborn, and the same love of the three views, such as the copper wall iron wall, no one can urge!
The two went through many twists and turns and finally came together.
What is the name of "three lifetimes have the privilege of meeting you"? It is because in this vast sea of people, there is your sincere dependence, there is your persistent protection, happy is you, happy is you, the rest of your life is you, all of you...
With such a companion, not afraid of the hardships and difficulties of life...
Perhaps, after that, they went through the sacredness of marriage applications, and with the grandeur of the marriage ceremony, they took marriage and love more seriously!
Since the knot is safe, there is a problem, their own convergence point, otherwise someone will take care of it; if they find the shortcomings of their spouses, tolerate each other, otherwise the chickens and eggs will fight, how will this day be lived?
Such a run-in, with the passage of time, can the feelings not be deep?
Crush, multiple loves without being very painful, or letting go.
Wu Eleven is beautiful and strong, and her old classmate Lan Qi is also a business elite and has always had a crush on her.
For her, a lot of things were done, even in the service of her parents, the truth is rare.
As a rich man, the marquis is more popular in the marriage market. Some women naturally like him.
The first is the Internet celebrity Fang Lu, who has not gotten along well with his peers who are also Internet celebrities, always competing and competitive, making himself passive everywhere, and not knowing how to "take a step back from the sea and the sky".
At first, the marquis loved her very much and supported her, she thought that Wu Eleven heard about her going to accompany the rich man, told the marquis, and even set a trap to frame Wu + Yi for stealing her necklace, did not understand the rules of "sparing people and sparing people", and was arrested and ruined a good future.
Another rich woman, Chen Chen, with very high eyes, has not been able to find the right person, and it is difficult to meet the marquis, and her wayward marquis does not approve.
She regarded Wu + One as a thorn in her eye, directly humiliated and insulted, and embarrassed the Marquis + points. This woman simply does not understand that there is still a saying in this world that "treats the public with kindness, treats leniency, treats others with forgiveness, and treats gentlemen with people." Talking rushing, doing things horizontally, where can you win the favor of others?
There is also the little boss Starfish who likes money and money, originally his waiter doll liked him, he liked the woman who was so cool as money...
Fortunately, it was also returned to the position later.
Wrong love, pain, since it is not a two-way rush, then, let go, is the best choice!
The two-way rush of love makes love longer, because love closely links the fate and life of two people, prompting two people to share honor and disgrace and help each other in the same boat.
And the powerful constraint function of marriage makes people unable to play, with marriage, each other can be scrupulous to stay together, home can be called a harbor, with marriage, is the best proof of love!
Photo / TV series "Three Lives Have the Luck to Meet You" (invasion and deletion)
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