The hit drama "Xiao Min's Family" has come to an end, and the joys and sorrows of Xiao Min's family have also come to an end. Looking at the life of Xiao Min's family is like our own life, there is a warm side and a heart-wrenching side.
In the finale, when everything was going in a good direction, Chen Zhuo had cancer. Some people say that the ending is too protracted, and I really don't know what the screenwriter thinks. But in my opinion, this is what people look like in middle age.
1. Chen Zhuo suffered from cancer, exposing the fragile side of middle-aged people
In the TV series "Xiao Min's Family", Jin Jiajun and Chen Jiajia were discovered by Jiajia's mother Li Ping, who triggered a family civil unrest. Li Ping asks Jin Jiajun to drop out of school, and JiaJia has a big fight with her mother for the boy she likes.
Li Ping covered her stomach in a hurry and fell to the ground and miscarried, and all the people were frightened. Jiajia regretted her rash behavior, and Jin Jiajun felt guilty in his heart and packed his luggage and wanted to go back to his hometown. After all the farce was over, Chen Zhuo and Xiao Min inevitably had knots in their hearts, and with the children's college entrance examination imminent, Xiao Min took the initiative to propose separation.
When Jin Jiajun was admitted to Tsinghua a year later, Jiajia also returned from studying abroad, and the middle-aged lovers Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo finally reconciled their old friendships and received a marriage license after a year of missing. Everything in life is developing in a good direction, and Chen Zhuo's career has also improved, but at this time, Chen Zhuo has cancer, and his condition has reached the middle stage.
Chen Zhuo, who has always been optimistic, couldn't help but shed tears at this moment, he could pretend to be strong in front of Xiao Min, but he couldn't pretend to be disguised in front of his good brother Qian Feng. Chen Zhuo did not want to drag Xiao Min down, bent on divorcing her, and had to say that Chen Zhuo was really a good man.
There are many responsibilities that people carry in middle age, and the most beautiful life plan cannot withstand the sudden accident. It seems to be a very strong side, but in fact, the heart has long been fragile. Middle-aged people do not dare to face life and death, but do not dare to leave behind those who need their families.
2. Chen Zhuo wants to divorce, greatness in love and selfishness in human nature
Chen Zhuo thinks for Xiaomin's sake, since she can't be the last safe haven in her life, she won't let her illness drag Xiaomin down. He said his thoughts in tears in front of Qian Feng, and also called Xiaomin's mother to try to persuade Xiaomin to accept the divorce.
This love is precious, not to mention the halfway couple, how many of the original couples can make such a great decision?
People are the most vulnerable when they are sick, who do not want their lover to accompany them through the most difficult stages of life. Chen Zhuo's ability to do this is enough to show that he really loves Xiaomin, not the idea of living together as a halfway couple.
But when Chen Zhuo's father asked Chen Zhuo why he wanted to divorce, he said the heart-wrenching side of reality. Chen Zhuo said: "The divorce is not just for Xiao Min, there are 2 houses in the family, there are some properties and equity in the company before marriage, I have to consider you and Jia Jia, in case the future people are gone, Xiao Min is the first heir, Jin Jiajun and Xiao Min's mother will have a relationship with property." ”
After Chen Zhuo said these words, there was really a scolding sound on the bullet screen. Although he knew that Chen Zhuo had deliberately used these words to comfort Father Chen, these words really made people very chilling. Halfway husband and wife love again, and when it comes to their own interests, they still have their own small calculations in their hearts.
How romantic is love, how realistic is it in marriage, not to mention this reorganization of the family? Chen Zhuo's words lifted the fig leaf in the second-marriage family and completely put the most serious problems in front of him.
The writer Maugham said in The Chains of Human Nature: "When you are older, you will find that in order to make the world a tolerable place of life, you must first admit that human selfishness is inevitable. ”
Sometimes it's really not that they don't believe in feelings, but that they don't believe in the weaknesses of human nature. Every marriage is a matter of taking what you need, which sounds poignant, but it is incredibly true. But life is your own, and you have to decide what you want to live, and you can reap happiness in reality without completely attaching happiness to others.