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In the first half of "Xiao Min Jia", Teacher Su is a mysterious character.
After Xiao Min and Jin Bo's marriage has problems, reading poetry is Xiao Min's spiritual comfort, she likes poetry, she likes quiet, and she longs for someone in her life who can understand her.
But that man was by no means Jimbo.
So Teacher Su appeared, he was Xiao Min's colleague, the two worked together, their hobbies were the same, they both liked to read poetry and copy poetry, their lives were also very similar, and their marriage was not very happy.
They warm up to each other just to make themselves have some fun out of their chicken feathers.
Life should be happy to meet such people with the same interests, not to mention that Xiao Min and Teacher Su still have the same disease.
If Xiaomin is a boy, or Teacher Su is a girl, or if both of them are single, then they will definitely become a lifelong confidant.
When they became friends, they caused a misunderstanding for everyone.
First teacher Su's wife, she is a fierce woman.
She imagined the relationship between Xiao Min and Teacher Su very dirty, and she "exposed" Xiao Min and humiliated her by everyone, which was a wife's way of dealing with Xiao San.
Then there is Jin Bo, who has never reflected on his mistakes in marriage, and only attacked Xiaomin's "mistakes", making her discriminated against in the factory and making her mother unable to look up.
Therefore, Xiao Min's mother has complaints and misunderstandings about the relationship between Xiao Min and Teacher Su. She did not feel empathy for Xiaomin's marriage, but accused Xiaomin of being out of line.
Xiao Min's hair Xiao Li Ping's relationship with Xiao Min and Teacher Su, she is holding the mentality of watching jokes, she has been jealous of Xiao Min since she was a child, and finally has this opportunity to let her raise her eyebrows.
Because of Teacher Su, everyone watched XiaoMin's joke.
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Later, Teacher Su evaporated in the world, and Xiao Min also drifted north.
They all escaped this matter, after all, two gentle and elegant literary and artistic youths who also loved face could not bear such humiliation.
Although she and Teacher Su have never had a physical relationship, the spiritual fit is enough to make the people around them scorn them.
What is the relationship between Xiaomin and Teacher Su? A lot of people are curious.
Because of this, Xiao Min explained 4 times in the play.
She explained to her mother that she and Teacher Su were clean and just reading poems together.
Her mother's misunderstanding made her very angry, she was not out of line, but in her mother's place, her correspondence with Teacher Su was out of line.
She and her son explained that Ms. Su was her pen pal because they shared a common hobby.
When interacting with Chen Zhuo, she also clearly told Chen Zhuo that it can be seen that because of the follow-up things brought about by correspondence with Teacher Su, it is a sad hurdle for her.
At first, she thought that communicating with Teacher Su was a trivial matter, but in everyone's eyes, it was a big thing.
Later, this matter passed, everyone slowly forgot, for everyone to become a small thing, but in Xiao Min's mind has become a big thing that makes her difficult to let go.
At the end of the play, Xiaomin and Teacher Su met again in the hospital, and she learned that Teacher Su had been living in Shanghai all these years, had a new home, had children, and lived a very happy life.
The "scandal" that embarrassed them at the beginning brought growth and a new life to them.
At this meeting, she also told the sick Chen Zhuo, because of Xiaomin's brightness, she did not want anyone to misunderstand her, and at the same time she also explained how Teacher Su felt in her mind, which was an old friend who had not seen each other for a long time, a little forgetful, but worth cherishing.
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For Teacher Su, Xiao Min will explain to her important people, mother, son, Chen Zhuo, because she does not want her lovers to misunderstand her.
At the beginning, the correspondence between Xiaomin and Teacher Su was not because of love, but because the hobbies were the same, and they happened to have pity for each other, and this state would amplify this relationship and cause misunderstanding by others.
A student's admiration for the teacher, a woman's appreciation of friends, this simple relationship is easy to make people think more, and it is also our taboo.
After marriage, women are not allowed to have their own blue-faced confidants, and men are not allowed.
In reality, we do not allow our husbands to have friends of the opposite sex, let alone allow the opposite sex to appreciate our lovers, which will anger our emotions and arouse our possessiveness.
This is also the sense of proportion that we are asking for.
And Xiao Min this person lives very pure, she loves more purely than Chen Zhuo, she is a gem, Chen Zhuo is just the person who found the gem.
Xiao Min is pure and sincere, her understanding of life is different from others, which is also the reason why she is envied and jealous by the people around her from childhood to adulthood, because they can't become her, so her "mistakes" are particularly eye-catching.
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