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Spend 20 million for a wedding, how pitted?

Remember the 24 million RMB, star-studded "dream wedding" held by Beckham's eldest son, Brooklyn Beckham, and billionaire Nicola Peltz in April last year?

Recently, a 188-page lawsuit revealed that this seemingly elegant and noble wedding was actually very bad and chaotic, and it was a "show" full of drama.

Surface dream wedding

Is it actually a mess?

Earlier this month, Nicola Peltz's father, billionaire Nelson Peltz, sued the wedding planners, Nicole Brackin and Arianna Griharba, demanding that they refund the £132,000 deposit.

Mr Peltz, 80, claimed the wedding planners were fired last April, weeks before a three-day wedding extravaganza at a family mansion worth £76 million in Palm Beach, Florida, for making a number of "mistakes".

Spend 20 million for a wedding, how pitted?

The two wedding planners are from a planning company called Plan Design Events and were hired in February 2022, six weeks before the lavish wedding. However, they did it for only 9 days before they were resigned.

In the lawsuit, Nelson called his daughter a "world-class famous actress" and claimed that Brackin and Griharba did not have enough "expertise" to run the "once-in-a-lifetime" wedding.

The lawsuit documents, which contained hundreds of chats and emails on social software, read the following: Nelson claimed that the two planners "could not properly handle the couple's guest list of more than 500 people" and could not even determine whether the guests were confirmed to be able to attend; Travel arrangements are not made; The flowers and cakes at the feast need to be tidied up; Even hairstylists, makeup artists and photographers have not been confirmed.

At a meet-and-greet on March 1 last year, Nelson said in front of two planners that he wanted to "cancel the wedding" because it was so chaotic that it looked like a "show," but his wife, Claudia, stopped him, saying that canceling it would "ruin Nicola's career." ”

Spend 20 million for a wedding, how pitted?

Like all billionaire family farces, this matter has now become Rashomon. Last week, Brackin and Griharba hit back, filing a counterclaim against Nicola's family for breach of contract and interference in business deals.

They claimed they were working 17 hours a day to meet the needs of their customers, calling Peltz a "bully billionaire." Brakin, 42, and Griharba, 40, spent 17 years building their wedding planning business, but the day before they were fired, Nicola sent an angry text: "You're ruining my wedding!" ”

While Nicola has reportedly fallen out because she chose a Valentino couture dress over her mother-in-law's sister-in-law's brand (Nicola later denied the feud), the lawsuit alleges that the Peltzes did not want their in-laws to know about these last-minute episodes of the wedding.

The two planners sued the bride Nicola, her mother Claudia, father Peltz and wedding designer Rishi Patel for at least £41,000 and possibly hundreds of thousands of pounds.

One source commented on the lawsuit: "This lawsuit is a microcosm of the world of the super-rich. Six weeks before a wedding that is about to attract worldwide attention, event planners are entrusted with heavy responsibilities, and despite their dedication to it, nothing seems good enough to satisfy these rich people. ”

The star behind the lavish century wedding

As early as last year's wedding warm-up stage, many publicists commented that the "wedding of the century" by Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz can be called the Hollywood version of Meghan and Harry, "the son of a sports and fashion tycoon married the daughter of an American billionaire, and she is an actress."

Of course, Brooklyn, as the son-in-law of a "rich" wealthy family, naturally did not take the wedding money. Peltz threw $3 million (about 25 million yuan) for his family's wedding, more than 130 times the cost of an ordinary wedding.

We have also written about this century wedding, from the wedding venue, a 700 million yuan palm seaview estate with an area of 4,000 square meters, Valentino custom wedding dresses of about 2 million yuan, to the flower decoration worth nearly 500,000 yuan on the wedding day, nearly 2,000 yuan per bottle of Bollinger champagne, and the photographer, styling, makeup and masseuse who circled around Nicole before and after, keeping her in the best condition. Nicola allegedly spent $100,000 (700,000 yuan) on hair and makeup.

The most important of all the rings, of course, is the wedding planner, and Peltz has hired three wedding planners.

The first is the industry's star planner Preston Bailey, who has planned the weddings of Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas, as well as the weddings of Trump and Melania, and the weddings of Ivanka Trump and Jared Kushner.

Spend 20 million for a wedding, how pitted?

However, he was hired by Peltz in April 2021 to be Nicola's wedding planner, but quit more than a month before the wedding because his schedule was too tight to "reach the level he is used to".

That's why the mess of wedding planning was handed over to the two planners mentioned above. In their lawsuit documents, they described a series of old-fashioned, short-tempered, and impatient behaviors.

For example, her messages often contained spelling or grammatical errors, refusing to use the more convenient mini-program that would confirm attendance as long as guests logged in, and instead ordered the planner to email or text her to confirm. But after dozens of text messages to confirm, Nicola ran out of patience again.

She also complained that the flowers at the wedding were not white enough, "These roses should be whiter, I don't know what roses are cream." And when the planner suggested that "a slight color change would make a single rose better apart," Nicola asked rhetorically, "What do you mean?" ”

Spend 20 million for a wedding, how pitted?

Nicola also asked the planner to design an all-pink lounge with sphere lights for her. In addition, when the two planners raised the idea of hiring a performance band, Nicola directly dismissed the offer, saying that their idea was very "cheesy" and that she only wanted a lead singer.

After angrily firing Brackin and Griharba, Peltz eventually hired a third mastermind, Michelle Rago. She reportedly planned the wedding very easily. But Peltz claims that the emergency hiring of Rago in the weeks leading up to the wedding meant that he spent "much more money than they normally would charge."

How many pits are there in a high-class wedding planning

The celebrity's wedding has long been proof of their financial prowess, and in the lawsuit, Brackin and Griharba said they had never met a client as brutal and disrespectful as Nicola. They also believe that the Peltz family has damaged their reputation and affected their business.

Although this lawsuit does reveal a hint of Nicola's PUA planner's feeling, but then again, wedding planning worth 20 million yuan is not common, and it should be done to meet the needs of customers...

But for most ordinary newlyweds, the cost of a wedding is usually around 200,000 yuan. According to the survey data of the 2021 "Marriage Industry Insight White Paper", the average cost of a wedding for young people is 174,000 yuan, which is 8.8 times the average monthly income of both couples. And 42% of newcomers will spend more than they originally budgeted.

In addition to wedding dresses, photos, hotels, etc., now just an ordinary wedding planning, slightly related to the "high-class" and "light luxury" style, the quotation starts at 100,000 yuan. And there are more pits in this than in the National Anti-fraud Center app.

Spend 20 million for a wedding, how pitted?

Many people see the case of wedding planning on Xiaohongshu or short video platforms, and then contact the planning company behind it. Most of these pictures are so dreamy and exquisite that they can't be faulted, but only those who have experienced it firsthand know that these seemingly expensive cases were not designed by the wedding company itself, but planned by other cities bought from Taobao Xianyu.

Even for reputable and powerful wedding companies, the pictures they provide are the best 1% success stories after countless practices.

After signing the contract, you have already fallen into the pit of the wedding company. Planners will do their best to get newcomers to increase their budgets in order to achieve better "design results".

Not to mention all-inclusive wedding planning (including hotels, photographers, makeup artists, emcees, etc.), wedding companies will extract more profits in order to maximize profits.

Only when the set is actually completed can someone react, and the renderings and live drawings are comparable to buyers' shows and sellers' shows. The luxurious and delicate background in the photo becomes a cheap spray drawing; Premium champagne-colored balloons transformed into colorful children's playground decorations; Neon strips turned into stickers...

However, for wedding planning companies, as long as there are still people willing to find the door for the once-in-a-lifetime "perfect wedding" in their hearts, their routines will never disappear.

But look at the billionaire's wedding is also a bunch of, let's ordinary people let ourselves go.

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