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Women in love, must polish their eyes to see people, do not because of a momentary impulse, regardless of the disregard into a love, in the end fell full of scars.
Women are too easy to be injured, whether physically or psychologically, more vulnerable than men, men can shoot with both hands, do not care about anything, say and go, but in the end it is often women who suffer losses.
Nowadays, there are too many routines and tricks in love, and if you are not careful, it is easy to be used by people with hearts and become a pawn in their love chess game.
They may just be a momentary ambiguity addiction, but only you move the heart, you think that the heart is exchanged for the heart, but in the end you find that only you foolishly believe, foolishly invested.
Sometimes it is a good thing to keep your innocence in love, but the premise is that you have a thorough understanding of this person, and the relationship between the two parties is relatively stable, rather than wanting to dig out a person's lungs at the beginning, not a little heart and eyes at all, and people who are too simple are often hurt the most.
In fact, it is not so difficult to know whether a person is sincere to you, and you can have a rough judgment through a person's daily words and deeds. Even if our love experience is shallow, at least there is some basic theoretical knowledge of love.
As long as you know how to pay more attention, don't say what he says, maintain a certain scale and measure, and know how to protect yourself, you will avoid a lot of harm.
What you know is that a man who really loves you, some words he will not say easily, some requirements will not be easily mentioned, the people who love you are all based on you, will take care of your feelings, people who do not love you, will always keep their own selfishness, completely only care about their own interests and ideas.
Men who truly love you, don't easily make these demands, you know.
Intimate behaviors are not proposed to occur too quickly
Two people together, with the lengthening of time, and the deepening of feelings, the scale of getting along with each other will also deepen.
From the beginning when two people do not have physical contact, to the later holding hands, hugging these are natural, but the last scene is the need for extreme caution, and a man's attitude at this step is enough to see whether he is sincere with you.
Some men are with you simply for their own desires, he only cares about whether his desires are satisfied or not, and does not consider your feelings at all. It didn't take long to be together, he was screaming and wanting to get you, such a man has no heart for you.
As long as you let him be satisfied, he will immediately turn around and immediately turn to you hot and cold, and even directly turn your face and not recognize people.
The man who loves you the most, he will see you as a treasure, and there is no desire for you in his eyes, only pity and pity. In your relationship, you are dominating the progress of love, he will not make further requests too quickly, only follow your wishes, the feelings flow naturally, and will not show an impatient look.
He will give you enough time to slowly discover his goodness, will not force you to do anything, he will not rush for a moment, because he knows that you still have a long time to go together, you get along very well, and everything is natural.
Men who don't get together long and offer to go further, don't be real about you at all, don't be fooled.
You won't be asked to spend money for him and be preoccupied with money
It is said that if you want to know whether a man really loves you, see if he is willing to spend money for you, you can know, through a person's attitude to money, you can see the person's character, you can also measure his feelings for you.
A man who is searching for money and showing a very sharp look must not believe the love in his mouth. His so-called love is that he wants to be able to get you without a little giving.
In addition to seeing if a man is willing to spend money for you, it is also crucial to see if he will demand of you for money.
Some men are very calculating in terms of money, he pays for you and wants to get a cent from you, he gives you a gift, turns his head and asks if you have anything for him? In his case, all the efforts between you are an equal exchange, and you are not allowed to suffer a little loss yourself.
Some men will even offer to let women spend money for him, such as looking at a certain game equipment, or looking at a certain brand of shoes, and when he celebrates his birthday, he will take the initiative to ask you for gifts. He felt that women should take it for granted to spend money for men, without a single bit of guilt.
There are even some men who will take the initiative to borrow money from women, and some people who owe foreign debt outside will also take the initiative to ask women to pay him back, such men will directly block, even if they stay away, do not follow his path because of a moment of softness.
The man who really loves you, he will certainly not ask you on money, even if his life is hard, he will not let you spend money on him, and he will not borrow money from you, which is related to a man's self-esteem, a man who does not even have self-esteem, do not love.
You will not be asked to give up your circle and career in the name of love
A man who truly loves you, he will definitely give you full respect, will fully support you, allow you to do what you want to do, allow you to have your own social circle, and will not bind you in any way.
Some men say that they love you, in fact, they regard you as their own personal belongings, in the name of love to bind and interfere with you, you have to distinguish that this desire to control is not love, do not stupidly sink into it.
Xu Zheng in "Xiao Min Jia" is such a person with a strong desire to control. He said that he loved Liu Xiaojie, would create a lot of romantic surprises for her, looked very good to her on weekdays, often brainwashed her in daily life, and constantly emphasized his love for her, Liu Xiaojie foolishly believed.
So much so that when he proposed to let her not associate with the opposite sex, she thought he cared too much about himself, and when he asked her to give up his chance for promotion, he foolishly thought that he loved himself too much, until finally Xu Zheng locked her at home, exposing the neurotic side that really scared her.
It wasn't until later that Liu Xiaojie finally understood that what he loved was never her, but himself.
Love, never selfish possession, but respect, understanding and support, as long as you want to do things will fully support you, will help you become a better self, this fulfillment is the highest state of love.
Don't be confused by the love in the mouth of a man, the love that is said on the mouth does not need to pay any cost, and anyone can say it when the mouth moves, but the real love must be heartache, the ultimate care, respect, and fulfillment.
He will respect your wishes and will not force you to do anything. Will be willing to pay for you, and rarely will ask you, he will not be willing to because of himself and burden you, and will not offer to ask you to pay anything.
He will support your dreams, support your career, accompany you to do whatever you want without making excessive demands on you.
When a man puts forward the above three requirements for you, you must be vigilant and stop the loss in time, do not sink into it because of a momentary softness, and in the end it will only be exchanged for scaly wounds.