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When in love, there are often not so many scruples, and only two people who like each other can choose to come together. At that time, we thought about the wind and snow moon the most, you can not care about the sky for a long time, only care about the twilight, as long as you live well in the present.
Women are sometimes very controlling, they will be moved by a man's appearance, once they confirm their intentions, they will also bravely express their love, desperate to run to each other.
There are many reasons to start a relationship, two people are together when the love is in full swing, if one day feels inappropriate, you can choose to part ways, do not have to worry too much. Even if he doesn't like you, as long as you like it, you can go and throw in and hit the south wall.
However, if two people reach the age of talking about marriage and marriage, they must become much more cautious about love, and they can no longer invest in feelings like when they were young, just thinking about their own temporary freshness. Everyone has learned to weigh the pros and cons, and learned to think about love from a realistic point of view.
Generally speaking, women will include the criterion of whether a man is good to themselves in their mate selection matters, and if they lack this, even if they love it, they will no longer go to the moth to put out the fire.
In fact, a person's goodness to himself is only the bottom line, and should not be the reason for choosing a person, after all, if a person can't even basically be good to himself, then what else do you want him to do?
Good for you this is only the most basic to maintain love, aside from this level, we will weigh whether a person is worth marrying, it will seem much more objective. Because "good for you" itself should not be taken as an advantage, it is very volatile, today is good for you, tomorrow said to take back is possible to take back. If one day he can't even do that, then how do you get from it?
Choose a person to enter into marriage with yourself, and spend the second half of your life, to make a comprehensive measurement of this person, not just because he is good to himself, if a man does not have these three things, then he can not marry no matter how good he is to you.
Stable emotions, with the ability to process emotions
Emotional stability is the standard for an adult, everyone is not a child, not crying and shouting for candy to eat the age, no one will always endure you, let you, everyone is an adult, to have the ability to deal with emotions, this is a person's most basic ability.
A man, can not have the ability, but can not even the most basic emotional self-control, encounter things to know how to deal with emotions first, and then deal with things, so that is the embodiment of a person's sense of responsibility.
A person who can't control his emotions, like a time bomb, may erupt anytime and anywhere, you need to be cautious in front of him at all times, for fear that he will be angry with a wrong word, he may vent his emotions on you anytime and anywhere, such a person may be really good to you when he is usually good, but once it is not as he wishes, it may hurt you.
A few days ago there was a news that everyone must have watched, a man disregarded his wife holding a child, with his fist again and again waved to his wife, marriage is a big gamble, women choose to marry a man, do not ask him to have more money, but at least bring their own is not harm.
If a person can't even control his emotions, you never know when he will hurt you and when he will vent his temper on you.
Men must have stable emotions, no matter what happens, he can deal with emotions and then solve the troubles in the marriage. It is impossible for two people to remain sweet all the time together, and there will definitely be contradictions. In the face of contradictions, whether he will hurt you or control his emotions to deal with the problems between you is crucial.
Great tolerance, do not be overly careful
Remind women, a careful man, must not marry, because with such a man, you need to always be highly vigilant, maybe when you will touch his sensitive nerves.
Xu Zheng in "Xiao MinJia" is a man who is overly careful with his eyes, because of his careful eyes, he has become neurotic.
He would care about all the opposite sexes around Liu Xiaojie, not allow her to have contact with any of the opposite sex, and even eat her nephew's vinegar. Serious interference in Liu Xiaojie's interpersonal communication has affected her work and life.
He said that it was because he loved her too much, but his so-called love was nothing more than a kind of spiritual bullying, and he used his so-called love to bind Liu Xiaojie and make her his own private property, which was very terrible and eventually hurt her.
Men can be jealous and can be careful with their eyes, but they must be controlled within the normal range and must not be excessive.
Two people together will definitely have some stumbling, there will be some disputes and frictions, if the two people are always intolerable, the tip of the needle to Mai Mang, then it is difficult to go on for a long time, only if both sides do enough tolerance and tolerance, the relationship can go smoothly.
Men must have the broad mind of the sea, to tolerate and tolerate women, if he is more calculating than women, always because of some sesame garlic skin small things to argue with you endlessly, such a relationship will collapse sooner or later.
There must be a clear plan and self-motivation for life, and we must not complain about others
A man can have no money for a while, and he can not get rich for a lifetime, but at least he must be self-motivated, have his own plan for life, let the woman see hope with him, and see that the days are getting better day by day, rather than staying in the same place forever, so self-contained, and even complaining about others, self-pity.
No one's life will be smooth sailing, and there will be some setbacks. In the face of setbacks, some people will be depressed, while others will get back on their feet and wait for the opportunity to make a comeback.
Women don't mind suffering with men, afraid that they will suffer for a lifetime, women don't mind living tight days, at least let her feel that there will be hope with you.
Jin Bo in "Xiao Min's Family" was such a self-defeating person at the beginning, he blamed his fate for his bad life, blamed Xiao Min, but never found a reason in himself.
His life has always depended on others to rely on his parents, on his wife, and on his children. Immersed in alcohol all day, relying on alcohol to anesthetize themselves, unmotivated, always complaining about the world. Such a man must not marry, because you are with him, you will only take you to the mud pit together, and there will never be hope.
Women will always be overwhelmed by the man's kindness to himself, and will choose to enter marriage because he is good to himself.
In this way, it is possible to fall into the trap of the man, he can only concentrate on being good to you for a period of time, attack you, and after getting you, he may change his appearance.
When choosing a person, we must have a picture, if only the picture is good for him, in the end we may not get anything.
Of course, the figure here does not mean to want money, but to figure this person. Figure his character, figure his self-motivation, figure his tolerance, figure his ability to deal with emotions, if a man does not have these, then no matter how crazy he talks, no matter how good he is to you, don't marry.