I make your heart move, you make me feel at ease.
Two days ago, I brushed Weibo, and then brushed into the hot search to discuss Zhang Ruoyun and Tang Yixin.
The reason is that Tang Yixin played Liu Xiaojie in the hit drama "Xiao Min Jia", who has met people in two marriages.
The ex-husband is a mother treasure man, inactive, not responsible.
The current is more terrifying, the establishment of warm men in front of people affectionate people, people after pua, emotional kidnapping, threats, extortion.
Netizens are uneven for Liu Xiaojie, and they are distressed about the experience of this little girl.
Fortunately, in reality, Tang Yixin met someone who really loved her, cherished her, and held her in the palm of his hand.
She entered marriage in the name of love, married to love, and lived happily after marriage.
Speaking of this, netizens dreamed back to the textbook love story of her and Zhang Ruoyun.
In particular, the memorandums that Zhang Ruoyun wrote to Tang Yixin.
What is recorded in it is her habits and hobbies, as well as her own voice.
Like what:
"She loves cherries and laughs sweetly;
She likes to be alone, and she also needs birds to rely on people;
Men should not be emotional, protect her, believe in her, support and not dominate her;
No matter how sweetly she smiled, no matter how stubborn she walked, don't think she wasn't made of water.
Love her, don't convince yourself. ”
Every time I saw this memorandum, I felt that Tang Yixin was so happy.
How fortunate to meet such a person who understands himself, loves himself wholeheartedly, and puts himself in his heart.
The love he gave her, perhaps not so warm, was like the warm sun in winter, the chestnuts and roasted sweet potatoes that stirred in the cold, which could give people just the right tenderness and peace of mind.
In love, the heartbeat may not be the answer, but the peace of mind must be.
How to describe the feeling of peace of mind, probably because you know this person who loves you, and no matter what, he will not easily leave you.
As long as he is there, you can rest assured that you can do what you want to do safely.
No matter what choice you face, his first choice will always be you.
He will give you exceptions, give you preferences, make you feel at the same time, but also make you feel at ease.
When I was chatting with a friend who was going to have a wedding after the Spring Festival, I asked her, what made her decide to get married?
She smiled and said:
"Probably he made me feel a sense of belonging, and when I was with him, I felt that my heart was stable."
She was afraid I wouldn't understand it, and she gave an example.
Just a month before they decided to get engaged, they had their biggest argument since they were in love.
After a heated argument, she slammed the door and left him alone to clean up the mess.
She was in a hurry to get out, she forgot her keys and cell phone, and she didn't wear a coat. It was very cold and it was night, so she didn't dare to go far, just walked around the neighborhood.
Walking around, hungry. Although the gas has not subsided, I also go back, wanting to go back to eat and make plans.
Back at the door of the neighborhood, she saw her boyfriend standing there, holding her coat in one hand and a bag in the other.
Looking closer, the bag contained everything she liked to eat: roasted sweet potatoes, chestnuts, sugar gourds, and the dishes she had been thinking about for a long time.
The boyfriend put his clothes on her and said in pieces:
"Next time, even if you get angry again, you have to bring your phone and keys with you before you go out, so that I can contact you."
But there should be no next time, because I just decided that no matter what you say in the future, I will not refute it and listen to you. ”
My friend said that at that moment, she had thought about spending the rest of her life with the person in front of her.
Some people say that meeting the right person is like the feeling of winter autumn pants tucked into socks, very determined, very reassuring, very comfortable.
You don't have to struggle to find evidence, because he loves you and shows it in the minutiae.
Even if he doesn't say it, cover his mouth, you can see your position in his heart from his eyes, from his expression and actions.
Every word and deed he says to you and loves you.
In the movie "Love in Year", Lu Lushan and Jiang Yu had a fight on the day they broke up.
All along, Jiang Yu felt that Shanshan was very concerned about the more material things on the surface, such as houses and cars. After all, they live in Beijing, a materialistic metropolis.
But in fact, Lu Lushan never wanted this.
The house, she could save her own money to buy, and she had saved enough to save some of it.
What she cared about was whether Jiang Yu really loved her and whether he had given her a sense of security.
In him, she gradually lost his love, and gradually lost the sense of security he gave, so she wanted to escape, wanted to separate.
Many girls are like this, they fall in love, the most concerned is not the material level of satisfaction, but the spiritual level of comfort.
What they really want is companionship, care, care, understanding and support.
As Zhang Ruoyun wrote in the memorandum:
"Be her earth, don't be her heaven."
Understanding her is more important than being romantic with her. ”
I hope that every "Tang Yixin" can meet her "Zhang Ruoyun".
I hope he can give you a heartbeat and also make you feel at ease.
I hope you float for half your life and have a home for the rest of your life.
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Author: Jiang Classmate & Xin He, 97 years of sagittarius female, love to eat hot pot, I have wine, waiting for you to come to me nagging. Public number: Jiang classmate with a story (ID: meiya54264), please contact the background for reprinting.