In life, men have done the opposite of machismo to the fullest, women also complain that they have the other half of machismo, the heart is very tired, often pop out of the head of the word to let go, so many men with machismo, the harm is multifaceted, light is as said at the beginning, ignoring women's thoughts and feelings, making a lot of small contradictions, the heavy may be emotional discord, family discord and even children have begun to have resistance to him. So what does machismo mean?
1. What does machismo mean?
The average person thinks that machismo is a derogatory term, which refers to the fact that men are not good at communicating with women, men are domineering in the relationship between the sexes, have a strong desire to control, dictatorship, and unconditional obedience, and show their strong performance by objectifying women and degrading women. Machismo also has a positive side, usually referring to the fact that men can resist pressure, be responsible for their own behavior and related things, have responsibility and courage, have masculinity, as a man can stand up to the sky, so that family members can live happily, have courage and perseverance, just and righteous, which is also another explanation of machismo.
2. What are the manifestations of machismo?
Don't do housework, don't take care of the children, because they subconsciously think that housework is what wives should do and have nothing to do with them. The big things and small things in the family, he decides. Whether it is buying a house, buying a car, buying vegetables and buying medicine, he needs his consent. He has a strong sense of self-esteem and pays special attention to face, especially when he is outside. Can't embarrass him. Once you lose face, you will be irritable; Even if he does something wrong, he won't admit his mistake to you. Possessive and controlling. He can cheat, but you can't, and will even control you and prevent you from coming into contact with the opposite sex. If you lose your temper with your wife, you will only agree in front of outsiders, and when you come home, he will be the king and the boss. Once something goes wrong, he will vent to his wife and not allow her to resist, often leading to domestic violence.
3) How to get along with machismo people?
The best way to deal with this kind of man in the first place is to use a gentle and spoiled way to discipline him. For example, when he comes home from work, for example, you can gently hand over a glass of water, and then shrink back when he takes it and drink it. Ask him, for example, you can tell him that this cup of water I specially prepared for you, you say good obedience I feed you to drink. What can be done this way? Slowly cultivate the man's obedience to you and be willing to change his strength for you. Then it is a spoiled rather than a command, you don't come to the sentence, quickly say a good word I will give you a drink, men will probably ignore you, must be spoiled to infect him.