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Naranjand once wrote in "Picking Mulberries": "This love has become a memory of its own, and there are no Mandarin ducks." ”
The sighing sentence tells the difference between the world and the world. Former lovers, when sweet, are naturally the envy of everyone, but when they are scattered, they are just like a pair of separated Mandarin ducks. There is nothing more hurtful about love than this, which gives people a heart-pounding experience, but does not teach people how to face separation.
In the world of feelings, the rhythm of both men and women has always been difficult to synchronize.
When you love, without saying hello, the other party will break into your world, and when you don't love, you will be speechless, and you will turn your former true feelings into a bubble. For the one who is a little duller, love is never fair.
When a man has completely let go of you and has stepped out of this relationship one step ahead, there will often be a series of performances. When you find out about these moves of his, you don't have to dwell on them anymore to preserve your dignity.
One: No more patience with you
Zhang Ailing once said: "Because I understand, I am compassionate." ”
In the eyes of people who truly love each other, all the actions or faults of the other party must have a reason, and he cannot bear to blame, but because he loves deeply, so he is full of patience.
But for a person who no longer loves you, whether it is a fault or an advantage, he can no longer attract him forward, and his problems that he used to tolerate have long since lost patience.
In the TV series "Meet the Season", Jian Hongcheng's ex-wife Chen Xin'er is a highly controlling partner. Because of her inferiority or jealousy, she harassed her ex-husband's White Moonlight over and over again, reminding her not to be a third party, even though they were divorced at that time, and White Moonlight had not contacted Jian Hongcheng for twenty years.
Perhaps before the divorce, Jian Hongcheng could also understand Chen Xin'er's desire to control as caring, but when he walked out of the marriage and let go of everything, his patience had long disappeared.
Love is so amorous and ruthless, when you care, your little flaws are also very cute, but when you don't care, no matter how many advantages he doesn't want to pay attention to.
Two: No longer value your opinion
As Teacher Xue Zhaofeng said, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, it is like a partner who runs a company. Since we are partners, it is extremely important to listen to each other's opinions and express their own views. When a man starts to skimp on his time and stop valuing your ideas, it means that you have no place in his mind.
In "The Season of Encounter", although Jian Hongcheng's Bai Yueguang Ning Yu was not with him, he also married a woman early and formed his own family.
Ning Yu is self-motivated and excellent, and has more income than her husband. In the face of the situation of strong women and weak men, her husband felt that his self-esteem had been seriously hit, so he cheated and escaped, and lived himself into the image of a "scumbag".
Of course, Ning Yu tried to communicate with her husband, but her husband could not listen to what she said at all, nor could he face her opinion. Perhaps because he had already found another gentle hometown, Ning Yu was no longer the one who could touch his heartstrings.
Three: No longer look forward to a future with you
Every couple, when choosing to bathe in love together, must be running to the future. To love someone is to be able to be with each other day and night, to be together for a long time, to hold the hand of the son, and to grow old with the son. Therefore, when you perceive that a person no longer expects a future with you, then it means that the person has already given up.
In an episode of "The Tale of Wulin", Zhan Hong Aya ran away from marriage to find Bai Zhantang, just to confirm whether the other party had loved himself or not, and whether he still loved himself.
However, at that time, Bai Zhantang had already fallen in love with Tong Xiangyu, and the two had experienced ups and downs and could not be separated for a long time.
Zhan Hong Aya asked a lot of questions, and Bai Zhan Tang also provided a lot of answers, but she could no longer read her own shadow in those expectations about the future.
When a man completely lets go of your past, he will no longer expect to have a future with you. Not looking forward to the future is the most desperate and true answer after the disappearance of love.
Since they have truly loved each other, then there must be traces of not loving. When you perceive that he no longer has patience for you, no longer values your opinions, and no longer looks forward to having your future.
Then, learn to let go, wave away from the wrong person, and meet the right person.
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