Question: What Lady Xing told the Mandarin Duck was the truth, and Jia Mu was lenient and did not intend to keep the Mandarin Duck!
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In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Yu took a fancy to the Mandarin Duck in Jia's mother's room, and Lady Xing repeatedly took the initiative to go to the media, and after Lady Xing was rejected by the Mandarin Duck, Jia Yu found the Mandarin Duck's brother and put pressure on the Mandarin Duck.
According to the rules of the ancients, men and women were not intimate, Lady Xing could only talk to Mandarin Duck, and Jia Yu could only talk to Mandarin Duck's brother, and turned to Mandarin Duck's sister-in-law to talk to Mandarin Duck about it.
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", after Mandarin Duck's sister-in-law was scolded, his brother could not wait to convey his daughter-in-law's complaint, and he actually directly conveyed the meaning of Jia Amnesty. So, what did Jia Shu threaten the Mandarin Duck and say?
First, slandering Mandarin Duck for being in love with the young prince of the family must have taken a fancy to Baoyu and Jia Lian, telling her to rest her heart early, meaning that Jia Yu wanted to accept her as a concubine, she did not agree, Jia Lian and Jia Baoyu as juniors, and did not have the courage to accept her as a room person in the future.
Second, warn the Mandarin Duck not to worry about the old lady hurting him, and then hire a positive couple to go abroad, that is, to marry, and do not want to escape from the palm of his hand in the future, and will eventually take revenge.
In order to resist marriage, Mandarin Duck pulled her sister-in-law, knelt down in front of Jia Mu, and made an oath in front of everyone.
First, defend yourself, whether it is Jia Baoyu, Jia Lian, or others, he will not marry anyone in this life, and he would rather die than obey his fate.
Second, Jia Yu naturally did not dare to oppose Jia Mu, since the old lady came to scare the Mandarin Duck after returning to the West, the Mandarin Duck made it clear that even after the old lady returned to the West, he would not follow my old brother, preferring to seek death, or cut his hair as a nun, and would not give Jia Yu a chance.
Third, the Mandarin Duck knew that Jia Yu would think that he was just taking words for the time being, and when he tried to do something else in the future, the Mandarin Duck swore a poisonous oath in front of everyone, and while speaking, he opened his hair with his left hand and hinged his right hand.
Jia Mu listened, angrily fighting, and only said in her mouth: "I have such a reliable person left, they still have to calculate!"
Therefore, with Jia Mu as the master, the Mandarin Duck naturally escaped from the clutches of Jia Yu. However, many people say that Jia Mu is not really good for Mandarin Ducks, but it is a good idea to make Mandarin Ducks call, and they are not thinking about the future of Mandarin Ducks at all.
Even Jia Yu knew that the old lady hurt the Mandarin Duck, and it was possible to find a good home for the Mandarin Duck outside. Even Lady Xing knew that she should first go to the Mandarin Duck and say that as long as the Mandarin Duck agreed, the old lady would certainly not stop her, because Jia Fu had always treated her with leniency, and Jia Mu was especially kind to girls.
When Lady Xing saw him say this, she liked it again and told him, "My idea is not to ask the old lady for it." The old lady said no, and the matter died. I thought to myself to talk quietly to the Mandarin Duck first. Although he was ashamed, I told him in detail, and naturally he did not speak, and it was appropriate. At that time, I told the old lady that although the old lady did not rely on it, she could not stop him from being willing, and often said that 'people do not stay in the middle', which is naturally appropriate. ”
In other words, if mandarin ducks are willing, even if they sell the death deeds, even if they have children at home, even if Jia Mu loses her left arm and right arm, it is impossible to block the happiness of The Mandarin Duck for her own selfish interests.
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", even such a foolish person as Lady Xing, and even a selfish person like Wang Xifeng, know that Jia Mu is a kind and reasonable old lady. Wang Xifeng told Ping'er about this, and what did Ping'er say?
Ping'er also shook her head and smiled, "According to my opinion, this matter may not be appropriate." Usually, we talk behind people's backs, and listening to his ideas may not be willing. It's just talking and seeing. ”
The official heard that Ping'er only considered whether the Mandarin Duck was willing or not, and there was no worry that Jia Mu would not let people go, but it could be seen that Jia Fu had never had an example of a master for his own interests to force the mandarin to stay.
Looking at Madame Xing's line of persuading Mandarin Duck, why did she decide that Mandarin Duck would definitely agree to her request to say that the media?
Lady Xing knew that he was ashamed, so she said, "What's the point of this?" You don't have to talk, just follow me. The Mandarin Duck only lowered its head and did not move. When Lady Xing saw him like this, she said again, "Don't you want to?" If you really don't want to, you are a fool. Let the master and grandmother not do it, but are willing to be a bitch! Three years and two years, but with a little boy, still a slave. ”
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Lady Xing is also right, you see that later, when she was nearly old, Lin Zhixiao opened a list of people, and mentioned that Jia Fu "has a total of eight twenty-five-year-old single squatters who should marry wives and make a room, and so there are ladies who should be put in it to ask for a match", according to the custom, when they reach the age of marriage, they are basically married to the small squatters in the family.
Sister Feng looked at it and asked Jia Mu and Madame Wang first. Everyone discussed that although there were a few that should be distributed, everyone had a reason: the first Mandarin duck swore not to go. Since that day, he has never spoken to Baoyu, nor has he put on makeup. When the people saw him, they couldn't believe it. The second amber, sick again, couldn't do it this time. Caiyun recently fell apart with Jia Huan and also suffered from no medical treatment. Only Sister Feng and the rough man in Li Yi's room went out, and the rest were not old enough. Let them marry themselves outside.
It can be seen from this that Jia Mu did act according to the rules, and originally planned to let the Mandarin Duck marry at the age of talking about marriage and marry, and then start a family, but the Mandarin Duck himself did not want to marry. Moreover, if the Mandarin Duck has a crush on anyone and privately asks For Jia Mu, he will also have the opportunity to hire an outsider.
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Fu considers the matter of starting a family with Ya Gui and Xiao Wei, and it can be known that Jia Fu has always been benevolent; It is mentioned many times in the book that Jia Fu is exempt from the value of silver, and it is also normal practice for adult servants to be free, and even give travel expenses, and Jia Mu, as the old ancestor, is a model of Jia Fu Rende.
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", the people's lack of strength towards the Mandarin Duck just shows that Jia Mu and others are benevolent people. In the case of a sick mane, such as Jia Mu's other mane amber, Jia Fu will also analyze specific problems and consider them for the sake of mane, which is very humane. The last sentence, "Let them marry themselves outside", also see Jia Fu Kuan Ren.
The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of the Red Chamber" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Full Review Stone Record"