Question: Why would the attacker dare to summon Miss Shi Jia? The ancient ritual water is very deep! What do you hear Mrs. Lin say?
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In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", the raiders have served three people successively: Jia Mu, Shi Xiangyun, and Jia Baoyu. It is reasonable to say that the attacker is Shi Xiangyun's mane, and should bow his head, but the relationship between them is more like a sister, and the attacker is not polite in front of Shi Xiangyun.
The attacker laughed and said, "You still say it." The first sister and the eldest sister coaxed me to comb your hair and wash your face, to do this and that, and now that you are older, you will take out the lady's money. Since you have taken the money of the young lady, how dare I get close?"
The official heard that the attackers were saying everything inside and outside the words that Shi Xiangyun should call her a sister, and should not think of herself as a big miss of the Shi family, and then the raiders began to give Shi Xiangyun a life.
Raider said, "Don't say anything obstinate, there is one thing that still requires you." Shi Xiangyun then asked, "What's the matter?" The attacker said, "There is a pair of shoes that cut the heart of the pad." I'm not good in these two days, I can't do it, do you have the time to do it for me?" Shi Xiangyun smiled: "This is strange again, your family put these clever people do not count, what else is on the needle and thread, cut, how to teach me to do it?" Who is told to do your work, and who is willing not to do it? ”
According to Shi Xiangyun's next words, we know that it was common for people to annoy Shi Xiangyun to do needlework, so much so that Shi Xiangyun said such a sentence.
Shi Xiangyun said, "Reason, you don't know how much you have done, and you must also know the reason why I didn't do it today." The attacker said, "I don't know." Shi Xiangyun sneered, "A while ago, I heard that the fan sleeve I made was compared with others, and the gambling gas was hinged again." I heard it long ago, and you still hide it from me. This will tell me to do it again, and I will become your slave. ”
So, attacking people to let Jia Baoyu and Shi Xiangyun call her a sister, is it too much? Not too much! Let's take a closer look at a few of the things in the text.
In the thirty-fifth episode of "Dream of the Red Chamber", "Bai Yujun Personally Tastes Lotus Leaf Soup, Golden Warbler, And Plum Blossom Network", Madame Wang and Xue Baochao send Yu Jun'er and Ying'er to send lotus leaf soup to Jia Baoyu, which has such a detail.
Yu Ju then sat down on a stick, and the warbler did not dare to sit down. The attacker hurriedly stepped on it, and the warbler did not dare to sit down.
Why didn't Yu Jun'er wait for the attackers and others to open their mouths, and then sat down with a straight face? Why didn't The Warbler dare to sit together in front of Yu Jun'er? The warbler was very crazy in front of her mother-in-law, how could she suddenly be so honest at this time?
Because Yu Jun'er is Lady Wang's mane, according to the ancient etiquette, the elder's mane and the master of the junior generation are the same generation, Yu Jun'er and Jia Baoyu and others can sit on an equal footing, And Ying'er should be inferior, what do you think Lin DaNiang said?
Lin Zhixiao's family laughed again, "When I heard the second master change the words in his mouth, he rushed these big girls to call their names." Although in this room, in the end, it is the old lady and the wife, it is still necessary to respect it. If you accidentally shout for a moment and a half, if you just shout, for fear that your brothers and nephews will do the same in the future, you will make people laugh, saying that there are no elders in the eyes of the people in this family. Don't say that it is three or five generations of Chen people, who are now transferred from the old lady and wife's house, that is, the old lady and the cats and dogs in the wife's house, and it is easy to hurt him. ”
The attacker Qingwen listened, and even said that Jia Baoyu usually called himself a sister and did not dare to cross the courtesy, while the attacker Qingwen called Baoyu directly to this little master.
In the same way, Ping'er, as the deacon of the Rongguo Mansion, held the power of life and death of countless people, but the raiders and Qingwen could make Ping'er in ordinary days, because the raiders and Qingwen were both servants who had served Jia Mu, and Ping'er was no longer capable, but she was only Wang Xifeng's mane.
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Wang Xifeng had a birthday, although the Mandarin Duck was a mandarin, he could justifiably pour wine into Wang Xifeng, and after Wang Xifeng begged for forgiveness, the Mandarin Duck did not rely on it, and Wang Xifeng did not dare to disobey.
Mandarin Duck smiled and said, "Really, we have no face?" Even if we are in front of my wife, my wife will still appreciate her face. Usually, it was somewhat decent, but now in front of these people, he took the master's money. I shouldn't have come. If we don't drink, we'll go. "Say the real one went back." Sister Feng rushed to catch up and pulled, laughing: "Good sister, I just drink." He said and took the wine, and poured a full cup of wine. Mandarin Duck Fang smiled and dispersed, then sat down again.
The officials heard that Wang Xifeng was like this, not only because the Mandarin Duck had Jia Mu as a backer, but because the Mandarin Duck itself had a very high status. Just like when Grandma Liu entered the Jia Mansion, Wang Xifeng and others knelt down in front of Jia Mu, only Wang Xifeng stood alone, and everyone else sat down.
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", the purple crane and the snow goose are lin daiyu's servants, why can the purple crane persuade Lin Daiyu to summon the snow goose? Is it just because the Purple Crane is older than Lin Daiyu and the Snow Goose? Because snow geese are good bullies? In fact, it was because the Purple Crane was originally a servant of Jia Mu, and originally sat on an equal footing with Lin Daiyu, while the Snow Goose bowed her head.
In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Zi Juan and Lin Daiyu are indeed sisters, and Lin Daiyu also has to call Zi Juan a sister according to the rules, that is, Lin Daiyu and others see Qingwen and attack people, and they also have to call a sister.
As for the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Xueyan, it can never be said that they are sisters, but can only be said to be like mother and daughter. Yes, the relationship between the master and the lady is mother and daughter, so Ping'er can't call Wang Xifeng's sister, she can only call her grandmother, just like Ming Yan calls Jia Baoyu a grandfather.
Pan Jinlian and Pang Chunmei in "Jin Ping Mei" are by no means sister flowers, Pang Chunmei has always regarded Pan Jinlian as his mother, and he is also a mother, Pang Chunmei shouts at Ximen Qingde, but most people do not read the original text, and they know nothing about ancient etiquette.
It is true that the ancient etiquette is not necessarily correct, but only by understanding the ancient rules can we stand in the position of the author and understand the author's original intention and understand the behavior of the characters.
Therefore, although the raiders have done a lot of things that are more than enough, they are not qualified to think of themselves as the hostess of Yihong Courtyard, and should not control Jia Baoyu, but she really does not need to be overly restrained in front of Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu, Shi Xiangyun and others.
The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of the Red Chamber" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Full Review Stone Record"