Many people say that when they were young, they watched "Dream of the Red Chamber" and did not like Lin Daiyu, Lin Daiyu was too fond of playing small, and wanted jia baoyu and Xue Baochao to be together, Xue Baochao was smart and would do things, and she was worthy of the position of "hostess of Jia Fu".
Middle-aged people looked again and found that Jia Baoyu was still the same as Lin Daiyu, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu were no one to replace, and Xue Baochao, she was not baoyu, what she wanted, many people could give, Lin Daiyu wanted things, only Jia Baoyu could give.
However, many things are not in accordance with people's wishes, Jia Baoyu married Xue Baochao, and Lin Daiyu regretted his death, which made many people feel uneasy. So, who is the reason why the "two yu'er" did not come together in the end?
I. Madame Wang's "dislike" of Daiyu
Lin Daiyu entered the Rongguo Mansion, Madame Wang saw Lin Daiyu for the first time, and after a few words of greeting, she said that Daiyu looked at her health and was not taking medicine? Lin Daiyu told the truth that she had been taking medicine since she would eat, and there was no cure. As soon as she heard this, Madame Wang's heart had a bottom, and such a weak woman certainly could not be her daughter-in-law. Therefore, before Lin Daiyu could see Baoyu, Madame Wang told Lin Daiyu: "I have a bad root, the 'Chaos Demon King' in the family, and today because I still want to go to the temple, I haven't come back, and you will know it when you see it at night." You just don't pay attention to him later, you sisters don't dare to mess with him. ”
Many people say that Lin Daiyu was only 6 years old at the time, facing two six- or seven-year-old children, how could Madame Wang think so far?
I think it is very likely, because Lady Wang is very distressed to see Jia Mu Lin Daiyu, in addition, Lin Daiyu looks good, looks different from other women, Jia Baoyu will definitely notice her, Lady Wang knows her son very well, so she has to prevent it in advance.
Later, When Xue Baochao came, Madame Wang was even more worried that Lin Daiyu was an obstacle between Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochao, and coupled with Jia Baoyu's feelings for Lin Daiyu, many people saw it very clearly, and Madame Wang was even more anxious.
Again, Xue Baochao was her niece, and Lin Daiyu was Jia Zheng's niece, and Lady Wang naturally wanted her niece to marry her.
Wang Xifeng was Lady Wang's niece, and after marrying into Jia Province, Lady Wang slowly handed over the matter of the housekeeper to Wang Xifeng, after all, she was her own person. Xue Baochao and Wang Xifeng were similar in their handling of affairs, and the housekeeper was also a good hand in the future. From the perspective of choosing a daughter-in-law, Madame Wang naturally likes Xue Baochao and does not like Lin Daiyu, who is weak and sickly, sentimental and loves to lose her temper.
Second, attack people's hearts
As Baoyu's first-class maid, the raider in Jia Baoyu's courtyard is a big housekeeper, and in addition, because she and Jia Baoyu have a different special relationship, many people have decided that she will be Jia Baoyu's concubine in the future, and she herself thinks so. She also wants to marry Jia Baoyu, because of her identity, it is impossible to be the main chamber, so she wants to be content to be a concubine.
"Fortunately, it is a treasure girl, then if it is Lin girl, I don't know how to make trouble, how to cry." Speaking of this, the real treasure girl is respected. ”
In the original work, it is obvious that these few words of attacking people can be seen that she likes Xue Baochao, in her eyes, Xue Baochao knows the general situation and will take into account the overall situation, if Xue Baochao marries Jia Baoyu, Xue Baochao will allow Baoyu to take concubines. Lin Daiyu's heart was small, and I was afraid that she would not agree to Jia Baoyu marrying a concubine, so the attackers were bent on making Lin Daiyu stay away from Jia Baoyu.
Once Jia Baoyu mistakenly regarded the attacker as Lin Daiyu, and said some words to express his true feelings in his heart, the attackers only learned that Jia Baoyu's feelings for Lin Daiyu were already so deep.
The original work reads: "When people here see him go, they must have risen because of Daiyu, so it seems that it will inevitably be a terrible thing in the future." Thinking of this, I didn't feel the tears of shyness, and how to deal with the darkness in my heart to avoid this ugly disaster. ”
Therefore, she secretly ran to Madame Wang and proposed to Madame Wang that Jia Baoyu move out of the Grand View Garden, ostensibly for Jia Baoyu's face, but in fact, the attack was to keep Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu farther away.
In the TV series, the raider even gave Lady Wang an idea, let Lady Wang enter the palace to "please the will", and asked the Yuan Concubine to "marry" Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochao, this trick is really absolute, as long as there is a marriage from the Yuan Concubine, Jia Baoyu must marry Xue Baochao.
When Jia Baoyu married Xue Baochao, he saw that it was not Lin Sister in the hijab, and he was stunned, at this time, the performance of the attacker was like this:
"The attacker covered his mouth, laughed and couldn't speak, and rested for half a day before saying, 'It's the newly married second grandmother.'" The crowd also turned their heads back and couldn't help but laugh. ”
I think that The raider is a very selfish person, although for her own happiness, but her means make people feel a little off the table, with utilitarianism, not as sincere as Qingwen to Baoyu. Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu could not be together, and the "credit" of attacking people was quite large.
Third, The "Golden Jade Good Fortune" in Yuan Chun's Heart
Madame Wang did not want Jia Baoyu to marry Lin Daiyu in her heart, but after all, she still had to listen to Jia Mu. Yuan Chun is different, she has the right to decide, she fell in love with Xue Baochao at the beginning, and also clearly implied that Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochao are a couple, and Lin Daiyu and several other "springs" are the same.
When Yuan Chun gave gifts at the Dragon Boat Festival, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochao were the same, Lin Daiyu and Yingchun were the same, Jia Baoyu also thought that the next person had made a mistake, and the raider also specially told him that he had not sent the wrong one, which was the meaning of the noble concubine Niangniang. Yuan Chun was hinting here that she wanted Xue Baochao and Jia Baoyu to get together.
Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochao are both guests, and they are cousins with Jia Baoyu, and Yuan Chun's gift-giving is to tell Jia Baoyu that Xue Baochao is the most suitable match for him, and Lin Daiyu, like Tanchun, will marry out in the future.
Yuan Chun herself was in the deep palace, and she described it as a "place to see people", so she knew that Xue Baochao was suitable to be Jia Baoyu's wife, for the good of Jia Fu. Lin Daiyu originally wrote poems for Jia Baoyu, Yuan Chun said that Lin Daiyu wrote the best one, and Yuan Chun also knew that Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu were in love. However, Yuan Chun was not favored in the palace, she knew that a family like Jia Fu, marrying a wife should not only consider whether it was like or not, but also consider whether it was suitable or not, there were hundreds of people in Jia Province, and Xue Baochao was more suitable for management than Lin Daiyu.
IV. Wang Xifeng's Matchmaking and "Making Trouble"
Wang Xifeng was very fond of Lin Daiyu, although Xue Baochao was closer to her, she could see that Jia Baoyu liked Lin Daiyu, and Jia Mu also loved Lin Daiyu more, so from the beginning, Wang Xifeng was on Lin Daiyu's side.
When Wang Xifeng was settling the accounts, Ping'er reminded her that there were still several major events in the family that had not been done, including the two major events of Jia Baoyu's wife and Lin Daiyu's marriage. Sister Feng said, "I am also worried about this, but it is enough: Baoyu and Sister Lin, who marry one by one, can make it impossible for the officials to have money, and the old lady will take it out of her own body." According to Sister Feng's idea, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu will get married, and the marriage of the two of them is equivalent to not spending money.
When everyone gathers to listen to the play, Wang Xifeng often makes fun of Lin Daiyu, saying in the open and secret that she will marry Baoyu. If Jia Baoyu married Xue Baochao, Lady Wang would definitely give the power of the housekeeper to her daughter-in-law Xue Baochao, who was only Lady Wang's niece and daughter-in-law. Wang Xifeng has been in charge for so many years, let her let this errand out, she should be unhappy!
Therefore, in the matter of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, Wang Xifeng is absolutely supportive. In the original work, Jia Mu wanted Xue Baochao to marry Jia Baoyu, but Wang Xifeng came up with the idea to hide Jia Baoyu from marrying Xue Baochao, and it can only be said that Wang Xifeng is too much of a person to meet the wind and steer, because she sees that Jia Mu will definitely let Jia Baoyu marry Xue Baochao.
In the matter of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, Wang Xifeng did good things and bad things, if she did not come up with ideas, Jia Baoyu might be tough and resolute not to marry Xue Baochao.
Fifth, hypocritical love
Does Jia Mu really want Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu? It was a matter of controversy, and I personally think she thought about it, but in the end, reason triumphed over sensibility.
In the original work, Jia Mu's two paragraphs can see her true feelings for Lin Daiyu.
The first paragraph is: "I just looked at him but he was not confused, and I don't understand this principle." In our kind of people's homes, there are naturally no other things, and this heart disease is also unavoidable. If Lin Yatou hadn't been for this disease, I would have spent as much as I could have done. If this disease is not cured, I will not have the heart to heart. ”
Lin Daiyu is seriously ill, Jia Mu here said that she can spend money to cure her body's disease, the "this disease" said later means Lin Daiyu's thoughts on Jia Baoyu, this "heart disease" cannot be cured, not only will not be cured, but even lin Daiyu will not bother to think about it.
The second paragraph is: "Children are stubborn from a young age, and some of them are good." Now that I understand the personnel affairs, I should be separated, which is the duty of being a girl, and I feel sorry for him. If he had other thoughts in his mind, what kind of person would he become? I hurt him in vain. ”
The meaning of Jia Mu's words is that Lin Daiyu does not understand things, when she was a child, let her live with Jia Baoyu and play together, that is one thing, now that she is grown up, if you are still not sure of your own identity, then Lin Daiyu is too ignorant and grateful. It seems that Jia Mu is already very disgusted with Lin Daiyu's desire to marry Baoyu.
Many people say that this is not Cao Xueqin's original intention, and Gao's continuation does not fit the previous plot at all. Jia Mu is Ai Lin Daiyu, and she also wants Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu. I think this kind of continuation is quite in line with Jia Mu's mind, she loves Lin Daiyu is one thing, but it is another thing to let Lin Daiyu marry her precious grandson. It is like having a weak daughter in the family, and her parents hope that she can marry a good family, but they do not want their son to marry such a daughter-in-law.
Since the loss of jade, Jia Baoyu has been ill and his mental condition is not good, and Jia Mu must be worried about her grandson at this time.
"He said that he wanted to marry the person who had a golden life to help him, and he must rush to the joy of the rush, otherwise he was afraid that he would not be able to save it."
Jia Mu believed in these things, Lin Daiyu was not in good health, she was afraid that Lin Daiyu would infect Jia Baoyu's bad luck, how could she marry Jia Baoyu again? At this time, she could only choose Xue Baochao.
Lin Daiyu must have been really disheartened at this time, because in the Rong Guo Mansion, her dearest person was Jia Mu.
Sixth, human nature
Jia Mu's choice is not wrong, when you have to make a choice, some people will choose to benefit first, love in the back, even if everyone knows that Jia Baoyu loves Lin Daiyu, everyone finally stands on Xue Baochao's side.
In the original work, there are a few sentences that write Jia Mu's coolness thoroughly: "Mandarin Duck measured that Jia Mu's heart was worse than the previous pain in Dai Yu recently, so he didn't often go back." In fact, Jia Mu's heart these days is on Bao Chao Baoyu, and she does not see Daiyu's letter and does not mention it much, only ask the Tai Doctor to adjust and treat it. ”
Jia Mu was still worried about Lin Daiyu's body before, and now, she didn't have the heart to care about Lin Daiyu at all, if the Mandarin Duck said too much, Jia Mu would probably be very annoyed! I have to say that if Jia Baoyu's marriage to Xue Baochao was the last straw that overwhelmed Lin Daiyu, then Jia Mu must have pressed on this straw.
Jia Mu's choice was actually doomed from the beginning. When Lin Daiyu's mother died, Lin Ruhai only had this one daughter, he should not be willing to send his daughter so far, it was Jia Mu who wanted Lin Daiyu to go. Lin Ruhai was a patrol salt imperial history at that time, the official position was not small, Jia Min died, Lin Ruhai could not contact Jia Fu, Jia Mu took Lin Daiyu, I think it was to "tie" Lin Ruhai.
In addition, the first time Lin Daiyu left home and went to her grandmother's house, Jia Mu did not let an elder or a relative of the same generation pick up Lin Daiyu, but only handed over a few servants and mother-in-law. Lin Ruhai was seriously ill, and when Lin Daiyu went home to visit, Jia Mu personally assigned Jia Lian to go, and this time, the purpose was more obvious, that is, to let Jia Lian deal with the Lin family's property.
From beginning to end, Jia Mu's "love" for Lin Daiyu is based on interests, if the Lin family has no money and no official position, will she still take Lin Daiyu over? I don't think so.
At last:
Attacking people is for her own future, Lady Wang is for her son, Wang Xifeng is for the power of the housekeeper in her hands, and although Jia Mu is old, she is not confused, and she will not let Lin Daiyu marry Jia Baoyu.
Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are a natural couple, but they have not been able to escape the shackles of the world, they cannot say that they attack people and Jia Mu are bad, they can only say that they have no choice, and no one will choose the visible decline.
Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu can only be said to have a fate and no division!
Author: Muzi