Dream of the Red Chamber: Aunt Zhao is not qualified to fight with her wife for power, and Mrs. Wang cannot compete with Jia Mu for power

Dream of the Red Chamber: Aunt Zhao is not qualified to fight with her wife for power, and Lady Wang cannot compete with Jia Mu for power!

Text/Jiang Zi shushu

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- Preface to The Book of Stones

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", the two sisters of the Wang family are married to the Jia family and the Xue family, respectively, they are called Madame Wang and Wang by the author, and they are called Mrs. Jia and Aunt He Xue by everyone in the book.

Yes, Lady Wang is called Mrs. Wang, which is the abbreviation of the surname Jia, and Jia Mu is also the wife of the previous generation of Jia Fu, both of whom are Mrs. Jia, so everyone calls Shi Taijun an old lady and Mrs. Wang a wife.

Some people say that Jia Zheng likes Aunt Zhao better than Lady Wang, and feels that Aunt Zhao has swelled up because she has given birth to a pair of children, and even has the heart to compete with her wife for favors, and even compete for the right to be the housekeeper of Jia Province.

In fact, Aunt Zhao was not qualified to fight with her wife for power, that was the following crime, and Lady Wang could not compete with Jia Mu for power, which did not conform to the patriarchal system!

In terms of the traditional Chinese patriarchal system, Lady Wang is under the jurisdiction of Jia Mu and is the main leader in serving Jia Mu, do not believe you see Lin Daiyu's first meal in Jia Province, what do the authors and commentators say?

Therefore, entering the back door, there were already many people waiting here, and when they saw Madame Wang coming, Fang set up a table and chair (Jia Shu side approval: not waiting for Madame Wang to eat, but fearing that Madame Wang would lose the courtesy ear of serving the meal). Jia Zhu's wife Li Shi held rice, Xi Feng An Zhen, and Lady Wang entered the soup.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", even the raiders received the aunt given by Madame Wang, saying that they were in charge of Madame Wang from now on, and they were no longer under the control of Jia Baoyu, which was the ancient patriarchal system.

Bao Yu smiled, "I can see if you can go home!" That time I went home, I came back and said that your brother wanted to redeem you, and said that there was no place here, and it was a long time, and said so ruthless and unjust words to scare me. From now on, I will see who will dare to call you. When the attacker heard this, he sneered, "Don't you say that." From now on, I am the wife's person, and I don't even have to tell you to leave, only to return to the wife and leave. ”

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", the rights of the wife are given by the old lady, there is no possibility of Madame Wang and Jia Mu fighting, even if it is a palace fight drama, which empress have you ever seen fight for power with the empress dowager? This is not in line with the Chinese patriarchal system, and a large family like jia fu is naturally the most patriarchal system.

Moreover, the ancient marriage system and the current marriage system are not the same, in the past, it was "the order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker", only if Jia Mu approved of Lady Wang, she could marry Jia Zheng, in other words, Lady Wang was the daughter-in-law of Jia Zhengxuan, how could she have an opinion on Lady Wang?

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Baoyu was beaten, and Jia Mu opened her mouth to "our mothers and children", which shows that in the old lady's heart, Madame Wang and she are one, Jia Mu returns to Jinling, she must take Madame Wang, you see what Jia Mu said?

Jia Mu then sneered, "You don't have to gamble with me." Your son, I shouldn't care if you fight or not. I guess you're tired of us ladies too. Why don't we leave you early, everyone is clean!" As he spoke, he asked people to go to see the sedan horse, "Me and your wife Baoyu will go back to Nanjing immediately!" The family had to agree. Jia Mu called Madame Wang again, "You don't have to cry either." Now that Baoyu is young, you hurt him, and he will grow up to be an adult in the future, and he may not think that you are his mother. Don't hurt him now, but I'm afraid you'll have one less breath in the future." ”

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", even Lady Xing felt that Jia Mu was partial to Lady Wang, and Aunt Xue had to echo that Jia Mu was partial to her daughter-in-law, and Jia Mu was usually accompanied by Lady Wang day and night, but Lady Xing rarely performed filial piety in front of Jia Mu.

Whether it is Lady Wang, Lady Xing, or Aunt Zhao, it is obvious that Jia Mu trusts Lady Wang the most. If Jia Mu really can't get used to Lady Wang, even after Jia Zheng has married Lady Wang, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a conflict, Jia Mu directly gives the right to be the steward of the Rongguo Mansion to Lady Xing, where is the turn to get Lady Wang?

Moreover, everyone in the whole world knows that several of Madame Wang's children were raised by Jia Mu from childhood, you must understand that ancient times are different from modern times, women can not make money, they rely on their husbands to survive, the resources of Jia Fu are in the hands of the oldest Jia Mu, Jia Mu prefers Madame Wang, will be so partial to her children, and even all of Jia Mu's property is left to Lady Wang's son Jia Baoyu, and so many people think that Madame Wang will be stupid enough to live with Jia Mu, really do not understand Chinese traditions.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Aunt Zhao is also respectful in front of Madame Wang, and Aunt Zhao thinks that Madame Wang is a good wife, even if she advances Madame Wang behind her back, she is also an attitude of expecting Mrs. Wang's grace to benefit herself, and there is no shadow of half a struggle.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Aunt Zhao's brother died, Jia Tanchunli's family, what did Aunt Zhao say in front of her own daughter?

Aunt Zhao asked angrily, "Who told you to pull someone else away?" I won't ask you if you're not home. Now you are saying one is one, and two is two. Now that your uncle is dead, and you have given twenty or thirty taels of silver, won't your wife depend on you? It is clear that Mrs. Is a good wife, and you are all bitter and mean, but it is a pity that Mrs. Li has nowhere to go. ”

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Aunt Zhao never resented Lady Wang, even if Jia Huan burned Jia Baoyu's face, Lady Wang called out to Aunt Zhao and scolded, and Aunt Zhao only hated Wang Xifeng for provoking dissension.

In the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Aunt Zhao and Fangguan fought, Jia Tanchun came, a sentence made her settle down, there was something waiting for Madame Wang to come back to support her, Aunt Zhao immediately did not dare to say a word.

Tanchun then said, I advise my aunt to go back to the room to be angry, not to listen to the instigation of those, not to make jokes, and to do rough work for people. I have twenty points of anger in my heart, and I also endure these days, waiting for my wife to come back and cook naturally. Aunt Zhao was speechless and had to go back to her room.

Yes, Jia Mu is The Reliance of Madame Wang, and Madame Wang is the reliance of Aunt Zhao, which is the truth of "Dream of the Red Chamber". Could it be that Madame Wang's dependence in her later years was not her own children, Jia Mu's grandchildren, but the people of the Wang family, the Xue family? Think about it! Don't say that Jia Mu and Madame Wang are sworn enemies, they have always been a community of interests, but they just look at people's eyes differently.

The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of the Red Chamber" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Full Review Stone Record"