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As the saying goes, "Once Houmen enters the deep sea, Xiao Lang is a passerby", it is said that the hearts of the people in the deep mansion compound and the rich nobles are the most complicated, so the girls, the daughters-in-law of the giants are not good, look at the female stars who marry into the giants, there are not many good results. Of course, this matter is also multi-faceted, those children who have lived in a big family since childhood, anyway, people around me are really quite obvious, will know more than people of the same age to observe the color, is this considered a dividend for a large family?
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Lin Daiyu wants to marry into the rich, of course, she does like Jia Baoyu, and then for various reasons, this person is so casually thanked, whether it is Lin Daiyu in the story, or The Daiyu deduced by Chen Xiaoxu, giving people the feeling of being Chuchu moving, or a young jade girl. But Lin Daiyu's wisdom is actually far more powerful than you think, and it may really be something that many of us adults can't reach.
Although Lin Daiyu came from a rich family, but helplessly her mother died early, and she had no brothers and sisters, so she was taken to Jia Fu to live, unlike those cheerful ladies in Jia Fu, Lin Daiyu had an introverted personality and was careful step by step, although she was very young when she entered Jia Province, her behavior and speech were particularly special.
The third time in the novel depicts the process of Lin Daiyu entering Jia Fu, but throughout this chapter, there are only a few words spoken from Daiyu's mouth, the author spares no effort to use pen and ink to describe what Dai Yu sees and psychological activities in her eyes, most people go to the new environment to be diligent and pleased, but Jia Fu is not an ordinary family, it is easy to say more than wrong, I don't know which sentence gives people a bad impression, and then there are many unspoken rules and regulations in Jia Fu, you have to abide by it instead of letting go of yourself, so Lin Daiyu seems to be delicate and cautious, In fact, it is more liked by the Jia Fu family, especially those ladies are naturally unwilling to have a strong girl to steal their limelight, so at this time Lin Daiyu is very smart and chooses cowardice.
Although Lin Daiyu said little, but she put her mind on observation, such as Lin Daiyu went to visit Jia Zheng, Jia Zheng has not yet come, Madame Wang beckoned Lin Daiyu to sit on the east side, she sat on the lower head of the west side, Lin Daiyu thought, since the head of the west side is Lady Wang, then the east corresponding must be Jia Zheng's position, so Lin Daiyu pushed away and finally sat next to Lady Wang, when the seat was the rank of the family, if you do not know so sit wrong, it will definitely leave an impression of not paying attention to etiquette.
When Jia Mu asked later, Lin Daiyu replied that she had only read the Four Books, but when she turned her head and waited for Baoyu to ask again, Dai Yu replied, "I have never read a book, I have only been in school for one year, and I must recognize a few words." The before and after answers are very different, it is Lin Daiyu's cleverness, the elders are concerned about schooling, so it is easy to answer the elders happily, but in the conversation, it was found that not only the ladies of Jia Fu did not love to read, but even Jia Mu did not care about reading, so later Dai Yu changed her words, and when others asked again, she only said that she had not read, and the change in the answer before and after, she actually had emotional intelligence.
Just like when you first enter Jia Province, when you integrate into a new environment and contact a group of new social relationships, in fact, you don't have to have a clever mouth, many times people do not have to say more, but know how to observe the color, do you agree with such a point of view?