Recently, the kindergarten has opened, which can be described as a variety of situations, especially the parents of the small class babies are trembling, afraid that the children will be treated differently if they do not perform well in the kindergarten, and they are afraid that the children will be wronged.
For example, two days ago, wen Wen, the 3-and-a-half-year-old son of a colleague, was sent to kindergarten not to cry, just when everyone thought that the child could adapt to the new environment when he grew up, the new problem came again, the teacher reflected that the child was too noisy, the class could not sit still, always stood up and walked around, slept without honesty, did recess exercises, ran everywhere, and the teacher chased after the ass. The teacher wants the parents to go home and discipline well.
This is not the first time the teacher reflected this problem, at first colleagues did not care, think that the child naughty may be unfamiliar, and then a month after the child is still a bit of a sit-down, talk a lot, the class looks east and west, affecting the order of the class. Why can't the child sit still?
Children are naturally active, curious and sensitive to everything, especially in the new environment there are too many fun and interesting things, will distract their attention, at first active may be no discipline, lack of rule awareness, this situation as long as after a period of guidance, will get better.
But there are also some babies who can't sit still no matter how they are guided, their thoughts are not concentrated, and they can't listen to what the teacher says, which may be insufficient concentration. Wenwen is a typical lack of concentration, so he has been invited to parents many times.
In fact, this situation is not uncommon in kindergartens and primary schools, short-term is to affect the classroom discipline and the impression of the teacher, long-term watching the classroom can not sit still in class and listen to the lecture is not serious, the biggest victim or children's classroom knowledge absorption is not good, if you do not intervene, the higher the grade, the worse the grade. Why do children have poor concentration?
Concentration is the collection of children's attention, is a person wholeheartedly to do a thing, hand-eye-brain coordination ability of the embodiment, the quality of concentration is closely related to the child's brain development, children's concentration time is also affected by age and individual differences and differences. Children aged 0-3 can persist in attention for 5-10 minutes and 3-6 years old for 10-15 minutes because their brains are not well developed and their self-control is poor.
Wenwen belongs to the 3 to 6 years old, the attention is only 3 to 5 minutes, far behind the same age of the baby, and most of the occurrence in boys, which is related to the boy's own body hormone development.
How to improve your child's concentration?
1, do not give children too many toys
Too many choices make children distracted, do not know how to choose, many parents love the baby, will buy a lot of toys for children at once, when children play too many toys and principles so that they do not know how to choose, it is easy to be distracted. Attention also can't be focused on a toy for long.
So don't buy too many toys for your child, and only give one or two toys to play with at the same time.
2, do not give the child too difficult tasks
Baby because the body parts of the development is not perfect, parents do not assign too difficult toys or tasks to them, regardless of age of toys or inappropriate tasks will make children resistant, you can decompose the task into a number of easy to complete small tasks, so that children find confidence in the completion.
During this process, parents try not to interrupt him and let him think for himself how to play next. How to install? How to say and so on, timely encouragement to give him self-confidence.
3. Focus on the game timely training
Another way is to train with concentration games. Let children improve hand-eye-brain coordination in high-efficiency games, improve concentration stability and duration. For example, stickers, puzzles, etc.
Stickers are a kind of game, but also belong to the way of edutainment, while playing while learning a variety of knowledge. For example, there is language knowledge, thinking cognition, finding rules, size, mathematical enlightenment and other knowledge, children seem to be playing games, in fact, invisibly will be attracted, unconsciously hand eyes and brain high concentration, time passes quickly.