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The 4-year-old girl is super focused and loved by teachers, sharing a few tips from her grandmother

Cousin recently some abnormalities, in the past never sun children, she began to frequently "show off" in the family group, not to show the niece's award, or to send the teacher's praise screenshot, or otherwise is the parents of various consultation news.

It turned out that her 4-year-old daughter Zihan was loved by teachers because of her super concentration, and often won praise in the class as a positive example, and also suggested that parents learn from their cousins.

It is said that Zihan's most brilliant time, the teacher arranged for the children to go home to paint a painting with mountains and water and blue sky and white clouds, as a result, 45 children's class, only Zihan's painting meets the requirements; not only that, zihan's performance in class is also very eye-catching, other children can focus on 10-15 minutes on the can not sit still, Zihan can easily focus on half an hour, she can also follow the teacher's thinking throughout the whole process, at any time to the teacher's questions to do feedback.

However, everyone in the family knows that when Zihan was 3 and a half years old, he was still a small poor student with long thorns on his ass: poor concentration, easy distraction, procrastination, and was recognized as a child with only 3 minutes of heat.

Even kindergarten teachers once suspected Zihan's ADHD, suggesting that the cousin take the child to check it out, the cousin was invited to the office by the teacher more than once, and was ordered to cultivate the child's concentration, otherwise, Zihan could not keep up with the teaching progress after going to primary school, and would only be far away from his peers. My cousin was very anxious about this and cried several times in private.

In less than half a year, Zihan changed from a small poor student to a highly focused baby, what magical method did his cousin use?

It turned out that this was all the credit of Zihan's grandmother, since knowing the situation of her granddaughter, the old man could not sit still, she knew that her cousin was an acute child, usually busy at work, and did not have time and energy to cultivate children. As a result, the newly retired elderly people have taken up the burden of taking children and cultivating concentration.

Grandma is a retired teacher, worried that she is not doing well, she also specially consulted several professional preschool teachers, found several reasons that affect Zihan's concentration:

1. Less exercise

The cousin is very busy, Zihan is also relatively quiet, the mother and daughter go downstairs for a walk at most, and the maximum amount of exercise every day is in the kindergarten.

The amount of exercise is not enough, which directly leads to the excess energy of the little girl being released nowhere, and no matter what she does, she can't calm down.

2, usually too much interference

A child who is not attentive enough is often surrounded by an adult who always bothers him. It is said that the cousin: Zi Han draws, the cousin can't help but point out; Zi Han watches cartoons, the cousin frequently asks; Zi Han plays with toys, and the cousin always interrupts her...

Because she paid too much attention to the child and expected her to be excellent, her cousin became a source of interference for the child, so that later, any sound would distract her.

3, the electronic screen contact too much

Zihan has to touch a lot of electronic screens every day: kindergarten uses smart blackboards and TV to take classes, go home to watch two or three episodes of Peppa Pig cartoons, make a video call with grandma every night, and if you meet your cousin and cousin-in-law, the mobile phone becomes Zihan's toy.

The high-intensity audio-visual impact further distracts the little girl's attention, and when she returns to a relatively gentle way such as reading and learning, she will feel "bored" and it is difficult to concentrate.

Knowing these mistakes and deficiencies, Grandma developed a targeted solution:

1. Increase the amount of exercise

Every day after school, Grandma will first take Zihan to play in the community garden for an hour, which can be you chasing me, or riding a stroller, climbing, and then letting the cousins and couples take the children out for a walk for 20-30 minutes after dinner.

In addition to releasing excess energy, moderate exercise can also keep the body and mind active, so that children can develop positive and healthy thinking, so that Zihan can sit for a longer time.

2. Reduce interference

Grandma and cousin had a long talk on their knees, euphemistically expressed their disapproval of the cousin's frequent interference with the child, and also made three chapters of the covenant with the cousin, clearly emphasizing: Unless the child invites, it will never disturb the child.

Without the interference of his cousin, Zihan was finally able to draw quietly, read books, play with toys, and had time to observe and think independently.

3, reduce the use of electronic products

Watching more and more children wear glasses, no mobile phone, TV can not sit still, grandma arrived at home on the first day, it was clearly stated: to reduce the time of Zihan's use and contact with electronic products, as long as the child is at home, no one is allowed to let the child watch TV and brush the mobile phone.

Instead, focused games led by Grandma, such as targeted deliberate exercises such as stickers, are fun, effective, and fun.

The reason for choosing stickers is that the stickers are in line with the child's cognition and can arouse the child's interest at the first time;

Second, the stickers are large and small, which can further train the child's hand fine movements and enhance the coordination ability of the hand-eye brain;

Third, the difficulty is moderate, and the child can complete it by "jumping", and can get confidence and satisfaction from it;

Fourth, playing with stickers can also comprehensively cultivate children's observation, logical thinking ability, imagination, and a variety of abilities promote each other and form a virtuous circle.

Grandma chose the "Children's Concentration Training Sticker Book" for Zihan, which also had the best effect. The 16-volume set contains 196 situations and as many as 3,080 exquisite stickers, far exceeding Grandma's expectations in terms of volume alone.

Secondly, this set of books is comprehensive, and the stickers contain everything from animals and plants to graphics and numbers, to letters, daily necessities, and other things that children are common and interested in.

Best of all, this set of books covers 16 topics such as concentration, imagination, IQ, emotional intelligence, logic, comprehension, judgment, mathematical ability, language, etc., and a set of books meets all the needs of parents and children.

Also, this set of books is environmentally friendly printing, the colors are bright and do not hurt the eyes, and they are no longer afraid of children's myopia.

At the beginning, Grandma was afraid that Zihan would not be able to sit still, and only set a 5-minute time period. Who knows, the little girl fell in love with it as soon as she played, played for more than 20 minutes the first time, and then became more and more focused. With a set of stickers entering the door, in less than half a year, Zihan's concentration has taken a qualitative leap: the class is more concentrated, the listening is more serious, the observation is more meticulous, the understanding ability is better, and even the teacher's praise is more and more.

Even my cousin shouted: It's amazing!

Looking at the change of Zihan, the family group was boiling, scrambling to arrange for their own children, afraid of being left behind. Honghong is not far behind, quickly bought a set for the 3-year-old child, the child loves to let go, only half a month, the time to sit is extended from 10 minutes to 20 minutes, the effect is really immediate, even the mother-in-law said: This book, buy worth it!

Honghong thought that when the child goes to kindergarten, he will definitely get the love of the teacher, and he will be happy to think about it.

If you also want to cultivate a child with high concentration, so that he will have more advantages in learning and life in the future, it is recommended to give your child a set of hands.

Especially if there are old people with babies at home, it is more appropriate, because the elderly are more careful and patient, and they are more attentive to accompanying children, and the effectiveness of this set of books can also be exerted to the extreme.

The most important thing is that the child can sit still on his own, and the elderly can have more time to rest. After all, there is an old family like a treasure, it is important to cultivate children's concentration, the health of the elderly is also important, and a set of books takes into account both the elderly and children, which is really worth the money.

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