After 5 years of marriage with her husband, Whisper finally had children. It was supposed to be a very happy thing, but because of the question of who brought the child, the couple had an argument. The whispering husband feels that his parents are now retired, and letting them come and take their children can be both reassuring and saving money.
But Whisper thinks that it will be better to find a professional nanny, although the expenditure is more, but also some are not at ease, but not all nannies are bad people, in the early stage of their own good investigation, you can definitely find a nanny in charge.
The couple often quarreled because of this matter, no one let anyone, seeing that the maternity leave could not be postponed any longer, the suitable nanny was still not found, whispering no way, can only follow the husband's advice, let the in-laws to take the child.
The old couple used to be teachers in the county, now retired, the whole has nothing to do, when the son offered to help with the child, the old two mouths full of promises.
However, since the ancient mother-in-law and daughter-in-law under one door, it is easy to make mistakes, and the parenting concepts of the two generations are also different, in order to avoid contradictions, the in-laws will make three chapters of the law in small languages as soon as they arrive at the small language family.
The mother-in-law said: "Two generations take care of the children together, then we will definitely have some differences in the concept of parenting, but since we let us bring it, then bring it according to my method, you can't have an opinion." If you think that our way is not right and it will hurt the child, then you can sit down with us and communicate, and if your statement convinces me, I will accept it. ”
Although Whisper was very worried, there was no way but to agree.
At the beginning, every time Whisper came home from work, she saw her in-laws chatting with her children and telling stories, and felt that her in-laws were doing well. Later, when the child was about 2 years old, Whisper found that the in-laws would often accompany the child to play with stickers, and play was an afternoon.
Whispering feels that the child is too stuffy to play alone, the in-laws should take the child downstairs to play with other children, often play with stickers at home, what should the child's social interaction do?
However, when the child goes to primary school, the early stage of the parent-teacher conference at the end of the term, the teacher calls the whisper, praises the child's good concentration, when the class is in class, often listens attentively to the class, and in the interaction with the children, very confident. I hope that whispering mothers can share their parenting experience at the parent-teacher conference.
The teacher's words surprised Xiao Yu that the child's performance in school exceeded her expectations, and it seems that the in-laws really have a set with the child. Retired teachers are just not the same.
After whispering home from work, she happily talked to her husband about this matter and asked her in-laws about their education methods.
The in-laws said calmly that in fact, as long as they do the corresponding things according to the development stage of the child's brain and body, they can do it.
For example, when the child is young, the in-laws often chat with the child and tell the child stories, because at this stage, the child's brain is in the development stage, and the early positive language environment is the key to affecting the child's final learning ability.
When the child is about 1 year old, he often plays with stickers, which is a help to the child's learning ability.
First, playing stickers can exercise children's cognitive ability.
Child psychologist Piaget's theory of early childhood development points out that 0 to 6 years old is an important period for young children to meet their curiosity through exploration, and children will recognize the relationship between things through the superficial relationship of some things.
Moreover, this time is also the best time to improve children's logical thinking ability.
And the stickers are just in line with the needs of children in this period.
By pasting the corresponding stickers, children unconsciously learn the knowledge of the content of the object and its related content.
For example, when pasting the page of the food chain, the child can find the corresponding sticker through the picture and paste it, and while knowing the small animals, he can also understand the relationship between animals and animals.
In the process of playing, children unconsciously gain knowledge.
Second, exercise the child's fine movements
1-3 years old, is a key period of children's fine motor development, early fine motor development, is conducive to the maturity of children's brain structure and function, promote the development of children's cognitive system.
"Capturing children's sensitive period" says: When the sensitive period of the hand arrives, children have a process of grasping - one grasp, three fingers, and two fingers.
When children play with stickers, they can just meet the needs of sensitive periods and help children develop fine movements.
Third, cultivate children's concentration
Many parents will be troubled by a problem, that is, the child's attention in class is not concentrated, when writing homework, one will drink water, one will go to the toilet, half an hour of homework, stunned is delayed until more than ten o'clock in the evening to finish.
This is all due to the child's poor concentration.
2-6 years old is a critical period for cultivating children's concentration, and stickers are a good helper. One is that there are many colors of the stickers, two are many types, and the third is that there is a storyline, so when the child plays with the stickers, the brain is always immersed in how to paste the stickers in the hand in the right position.
Whisperer children, often playing for an afternoon, can be described as an immersive brain. Over time, the child's concentration will get better and better.
Fourth, enhance children's self-confidence and sense of accomplishment
Children with self-confidence will have more confidence in facing difficulties in their future lives.
Albert Einstein said that self-confidence is the first step toward success.
Self-confidence is one of the best gifts parents can give to their children.
In the process of children playing with stickers, completing the storyline again and again, harvesting the relationship between things and their inners, and improving cognition, a sense of accomplishment will arise spontaneously.
Listening to the old teacher's analysis, Whisper was immediately glad that the in-laws could help with the children. The next day, after Whispering shared her in-laws' words with the parents at the parents' meeting, the parents of the children who were not attentive wanted to buy picture books for their children.