Colleague's child is 4 years old this year, and she has been alone since divorcing her husband, and a woman with a child has a very hard life, in her words, she can make her daughter eat and wear warm and feel very happy.
We all thought her daughter was more or less introverted and average grades. But who knows that the little girl sings, dances, draws and learns very seriously, and the 4-year-old child learns things very quickly, and the kindergarten teacher often praises her for being serious in class, concentration, memory, and hands-on ability. She has her share in every kindergarten dance, host, and craft competition.
We all wondered how she worked every day, how to raise her daughter to be so good, and why her concentration was so strong at such a young age.
She said: "It is really tiring to carry a child alone, and at the beginning her daughter will not be able to move to disturb her, so that she can't read, draw, play with toys for a few minutes." ”
Of course, children before the age of 6 are active is their nature, but this is also the best time for memory, observation, language ability, hands-on ability training, if the method is appropriate, not only can improve the ability, but also liberate parents.
Therefore, after consulting many experts, she deliberately chose a good way to exercise the child's ability in all aspects without spending much money, that is, to play stickers.
In a state of half-belief, she bought a set of stickers to play with her daughter for a semester, and it turned out that the originally active daughter could quiet down and play a game for a long time or paste pictures without being disturbed, the daughter who originally had a bad memory, now many ancient poems are taught several times to remember, and for a long time do not forget; the daughter who originally did not love to do it, now especially likes to tinker with toys, a person to study.
Even the kindergarten teachers praised her, this semester has made great progress, the class is very serious, the memory is very fast, many kindergartens have learned by hand, and the teacher also specifically asked the mother what methods were used.
Why is it that playing stickers has such a good effect?
First, exercise concentration
1-6-year-old children because of imperfect physical function development, so the concentration is limited, so they can not do things quietly, play with toys half-heartedly, look around in class, that is, poor concentration, in the end, hand-eye-brain coordination can not keep up.
Playing stickers is to combine reading, cognition and games, children read as much fun as playing games, avoid dry teaching, so that children have more sense of participation. In the whole process, the child seems to be playing with stickers, but in fact, it needs a high degree of hand-eye-brain cooperation, which is very good for intelligence development.
Second, exercise observation
As shown in the picture, the sticker looks simple, in fact, the child needs to observe many small details with his eyes, such as how many carrots are there? The size and length of each root are different, and the child needs to paste it to the correct position according to the corresponding position. Socks are paired, each pair of socks has the same shape and length, but there are subtle differences in color and pattern, and children need to complete the correct pairing according to different nuances.
This is challenging for 2-6 year olds and a great test of observation.
Third, exercise memory
Stickers need to paste different objects to the correct position, some patterns are even similar, children need to remember the position of the pattern accurately, and then paste it. It is even interspersed with knowledge of language, mathematics, thinking, stories, words and so on. Children often play unconsciously and remember a lot of content.
Fourth, exercise hands-on ability
This is definitely a very test of the child's hands-on ability, of course, this is also a mental and physical activity. Children need to keep taking and pasting, which is good for the stimulation of hand nerves.
So she said I didn't expect to buy a sticker for less than 50 yuan, played a semester my daughter has made so much progress, of course, this process is also playing with my daughter every day, but the progress is really surprising.