A friend's son Hao Hao is more than 5 years old, is reading a kindergarten class, and is often "complained" by the teacher: "The child can't sit still in class, pokes this for a while, pokes that for a while, and the concentration is particularly bad. ”
Hearing the teacher say this, Hao Hao's mother was very anxious, and the problem of her son's poor concentration also found:
Reading picture books at home often does not turn two pages;
When writing, you can go to the toilet 3 times in 10 minutes, and as soon as the adult turns around, he will immediately do something else;
Often can't hear or hear others, don't know what they're thinking...
Hao Hao's mother was very annoyed by this, and complained to me: "I have beaten and scolded, and I have set up a lot of rules, which is still the case."
Looking at the troubled Hao Hao mother, I comforted: "Hao Hao is still young, but also very smart, that is, the concentration is a little worse, train the concentration is it." ”
"How did you train your Pino?" Often praised by teachers for good concentration," Hao Hao's mother asked with a puzzled face;
"Play more games with your children," I said seriously;
Play is the nature of every child; play, is the best way for every child to learn, now it is the winter vacation, is a rare period of "golden parent-child time". Playing games with children can not only enhance the feelings between parents and children, make good use of them, but also train their concentration.
Take my daughter Pino, for example, when she first started kindergarten, she was always told by her teacher that she "can't sit still in class and has poor concentration." Pino's mother took advantage of the winter vacation, playing stickers with her daughter every day, after the start of school, her daughter was often praised by the teacher for her good concentration and could read the picture book independently for 20 minutes; the same game rules, other children's teachers talked 3 times and were still unclear, and the daughter listened to 1 time to be very clear.
In fact, this is all due to the results of the last winter vacation, taking her to play sticker games every day. The 5-year-old daughter, who especially likes stickers, has bought hundreds of sets of various stickers at home.
When I first took my daughter to play with stickers, I often caused my husband to be dissatisfied: "Other people's children can memorize a lot of ancient poems, and my daughter only knows how to play with stickers." ”
Whenever this happens, I say dismissively: "Don't underestimate the stickers for these few dollars, we can also play the effect of concentration training + logical thinking workbook." Next, pino's mother shares the benefits of playing stickers and the way to play with her daughter as follows, hoping to help you:
01, the benefits of playing stickers are very large
Train your child's concentration and improve his concentration
In the process of playing stickers, children are very focused, after all, children have to think about how to paste? Where to post? Which one to post first? Which one is posted? To think clearly about these questions, the child must be undistracted, and over time, the concentration is improved.
Concentration is a common skill, children can't focus when playing stickers, and suddenly don't pay attention when learning. Therefore, children with poor concentration can try to improve by playing with stickers.
Exercises fine hand movements and hand-eye coordination
In the process of playing with stickers, children can grasp and grasp and fingertip movements, such as holding, tearing, pinching, pointing, pressing and a series of fine movements can be trained.
In this series of fine movements, the child's fingers, wrists, hand-eye coordination skills have been exercised, which is very beneficial for writing later! Some time ago, my daughter was praised by the kindergarten teacher for writing pinyin letters well and holding a strong pen, thanks to long-term play stickers.
Exercise language expression and stimulate imagination and creativity
Stickers require children to stay focused during the process of playing in order to understand the content in the picture, such as some "scene" stickers, each page has a different scene, stickers or characters or items, the child needs to add it to the corresponding position in the scene.
Pino's mother told everyone a little trick, in the process of playing, you can talk to the child through the form of "question and answer" to exercise the child's comprehension ability and language expression ability, so as to stimulate his imagination and creativity.
When her daughter was 4-5 years old, she often played with stickers while muttering in her mouth, listening carefully, she made up her own storyline, and also designed various characters and dialogues.
This is very beneficial for Chinese reading comprehension after primary school, looking at pictures, speaking and writing.
02. Stickers, 3 ways to play to share
Basic Gameplay:
Parents guide their children to privately stickers, find the corresponding shadow, and paste the stickers. Or the parents guide the child, according to the shape of the shadow on the sticker, and then go to find the corresponding sticker to paste.
It is worth noting that children should be as full of blank space as possible!
Advanced Gameplay:
Carefully read the requirements on the sticker book, in fact, they contain a lot of knowledge, parents can guide their children to understand the concepts of vegetables, fruits, animals, size, how much, high and low, classification and quantity.
For example, the "correspondence" page in "Children's Potential Development Concentration Training Stickers", in addition to pasting the corresponding orientation portrait according to the original settings in the book, we can also guide children to recognize different animals and attributes, and let children observe their differences.
Advanced Gameplay:
Each page of the sticker book is a small scene, and parents can also guide their children to look at pictures and make up stories, such as "fishing" and "close to nature" pages.
But looking at this picture, in fact, the bear father takes the baby bear to go fishing, and the parents can guide the child and simply make up the story.
This game is more testing of children's imagination and language organization and expression ability, which is more suitable for children aged 5 and above.
03. How to choose stickers for children?
Look at the quality of the sticker page
Children often come into contact with, be sure to choose the quality of the pass, paste is the same. Throughout the tear-and-paste process, the child should be relaxed and effortless.
Therefore, the sticker must first be easy to tear and paste, otherwise it is easy to damage the child's self-confidence. In addition to this, the edges of the stickers should be smooth and neat.
Focus on printing texture
The paper of the sticker book should be comfortable to the touch, the picture should be clean and tidy, and the colors should be harmonious. If the sticker is ugly and dirty, basically the printing is not passed.
Pay attention to the contents of the sticker book
It is necessary to choose a picture book with knowledge content, such as one that can train concentration and improve comprehensive quality, otherwise it is purely blind play.
Pinocchio, who has bought hundreds of sticker books, stepped on the pit and also harvested surprises, I think a good sticker book, in addition to rich content, science, good painting style, must be good tear, good paste, knowledge improvement. There are countless sticker books on the market now, but this set is especially recommended to everyone.
This set of "Children's Potential Development Concentration Training Stickers" consists of 18 volumes, containing nearly 300 game scenes of interest to children aged 3-7 years old, with a total of nearly 3100 exquisite stickers.
Last winter vacation, Pino's mother bought this set of stickers for her daughter and let her children play every day. From the game stickers of different scenes, the daughter's concentration, observation, language expression ability, etc. have been improved, and she has also learned a lot of mathematical knowledge.
Winter vacation has begun, it is recommended that parents with children aged 3-7 years old give their children a set of it. Instead of letting children play with mobile phones and watch TV, it is better to let children play with stickers and stickers, train their concentration, and there will be big changes after the school starts.