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As the year draws to a close, office colleagues are also mixed, happy that they can go home for the New Year; worried about how to deal with the standard problem of the seven aunts and eight aunts. When Pino's mother heard this, she couldn't help but roll her eyes in her heart, and she had a panic about the aunts and aunts.
"Every year when I come home, the aunt next door will enthusiastically ask me how much I am paid? Did you buy a house? Hearing these questions, it is really a good mood for a day," office Yaya complained;
"Yes! Every year when I come home, the aunt next door is enthusiastic to introduce me to my boyfriend, and I don't look too high... Doesn't that mean I don't deserve it? Linlin rolled her eyes and said;
"I went home with my husband, except for my in-laws, the seven aunts and eight aunts of his family have now joined the spawn team, thinking about all this, I don't want to go home," Da Lin shrugged and said.
Indeed, when Pino's mother returned to her hometown last year, she did not escape the warm "greetings" of the seven aunts and eight aunts, and that scene still feels embarrassed and afraid when I think of it!
01, the First Question of the New Year's Greeting, Pino's mother is very embarrassed
Pino's mother is a Sichuan native, her husband is a county resident in Chongqing, and their hometowns are more than 500 kilometers apart, so they have not returned to Pino's mother's house for the New Year in the first few years after the birth of the child.
Last year, when the children were older, they decided to go back to my mother's house for the New Year. After returning to Pino's mother's house, the parents were very happy, and they liked it very much when they saw their children, and they made a large table of dishes to eat for us every day.
At the New Year, the parents also invited many relatives of their family to come to the house for dinner, my family's seven aunts and eight aunts arrived home, saw that the daughter also liked it very much, and praised the daughter's good manners, Pino's mother was also very happy, and felt that she had a special face.
After the meal, the family sat together and chatted, and Pino's aunt asked Pino's mother: "Your first child is a daughter, why don't you have another child, hurry up and have a second child!" ”
Pino's mother heard this, and her mouth was busy saying: "If you don't give birth, you can't afford to regenerate";
"You can't afford to have such good conditions, isn't that punching us in the face when we have a second child?" Another relative shouted;
Pino's mother was obviously a little overwhelmed, and she greeted everyone to eat sugar and fruit;
"Today's young people, ah, are lazy, just a daughter, far married is left behind the old man," said a relative;
The husband looked at Pino's mother's face turned green, and was preparing to scare her, Pino's mother said: "Big aunt, second aunt, whether to have a child or not is a matter for our husband and wife; we all feel that one daughter is enough, we give her all the love, which is happy for the child!" ”
After Pino's mother finished speaking, my husband gave me a thumbs up, and perhaps the relatives also felt that it made sense, so they grabbed the melon seeds and peanuts on the plate and ate them, and no one mentioned the matter of having a second child anymore.
02, in response to the questions of the seven aunts and eight aunts, these skills should be kept in mind
After the greetings of Pino's relatives, Pino's mother also has some experience, and summed up a few effective techniques to get rid of the embarrassment that may be encountered, and hereby share it with you in need:
Anticipate the question in advance and think of the answer
For example, when visiting relatives in the New Year, according to the personality of the relatives who are walking, it is estimated that she will ask questions, and then think about how to answer. If necessary, you can also rehearse in advance, and when the time comes, you will not fall into an embarrassing situation.
Just like our reading test, according to the exam syllabus, and then prepared to review, as long as the preparation is sufficient, the possibility of high scores is greater.
Ask him and listen carefully
In order not to let yourself fall into the embarrassing situation of the seven aunts and eight aunts asking, you can take the initiative to attack, before others ask you questions, you first take the initiative to ask people's questions, and divert people's attention from you.
At the same time, taking the initiative to ask others questions is also an opportunity to learn from others, and you may wish to try this method in the New Year!
Think about when to leave before visiting the door
The longer you stay in your relatives' house in the New Year, the greater the probability of giving your relatives a thorough question. Setting yourself a time limit will make you feel that talking to relatives is short and beautiful.
When Pino's mother went to visit relatives, when she met relatives who were difficult to "serve", she would find an excuse to leave and would not give relatives the opportunity to inquire.
Be polite and humorous
When asked an awkward question by a relative, we can subtly divert their attention and then politely refuse to answer the question, but be careful that instead of rejecting it directly, we should have a polite euphemism. The effect achieved is to make others laugh
When I went home for the New Year, it was time to relax my mood, and if I was embarrassed by the seven aunts and eight aunts, it was not good. Pino's mother sorted out some answers to frequently asked questions, and those that were needed could be "taken away".
When asked by relatives if you have a boyfriend, you can humorously answer: "No hurry, as long as I maintain it well, the boyfriend is still in the middle of the exam";
When others ask when to buy a house, you can humorously reply: "After the aunt buys the marriage house for my cousin, I will buy it again";
When asked about salary, you can laugh and ask, "Second aunt, are you going to borrow money?" ”
・ When you have a boyfriend and are not yet married, if you are asked," when will you get married? You can humorously say: "Wait until the third aunt has prepared the big red packet";
When asked what time to give birth to a child, you can answer: "When the fourth aunt gives birth to a second child, I will give birth when I will give birth";
Spring Festival home, in order not to fall into the embarrassing inquiry of the seven aunts and eight aunts, the above skills and templates should be collected! Pino's mother is here, I wish everyone a prosperous Year of the Tiger, a happy New Year, and a rolling source of wealth!