Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
-01-
Zhuang Zi said: "There is great beauty in heaven and earth without words." ”
The really powerful people, rarely noisy, the quietest people in a group of people, often the most powerful.
Before the opportunity comes, press the excitement of the heart, this is the skill.
There are some who seem to be doing nothing and doing nothing. But they will quietly succeed when you can't see it, and even impress you.
Rome was not built in a day, and everything in life needs to come in waiting.
Success is never within reach, and if you want to wait for the flowers to bloom, you have to work silently. People who are really powerful are often silent.
It is precisely because they have different thinking and ability from ordinary people, and their inner pattern and mind are relatively large, which can help them step by step to success.
-02-
Lao Tzu said, "The good is like water, and the water is good for all things without dispute." "Learn not to argue with people and you win."
Being able to hold your breath is the skill, being able to hide things, and being able to do things is the pattern. Bitterness is unspoken, it is wise, it is not ostentatious, it is introverted.
The more powerful people are, the more low-key and humble they are, because they know their own smallness in this world, so they will become more humble.
A person who has no ability, but he likes to show off everywhere, for fear that others will underestimate his ability. The more powerful people just do not say, they inwardly cultivate themselves.
There is always no shortage of people around us, who are as quiet and distant as a lake on the surface, but as magnificent as the ocean on the inside.
A quiet person is not only independent but also self-disciplined, and he will spend time improving his abilities. Seemingly obscure, in fact, he has been struggling to move forward, and then a blockbuster.
The depth of the water is silent, the people are steady, the people are low-key and kind, and the humble is like a valley, which is the right way for people to live in the world.
-03-
The Tao Te Ching reads:
"Jiang Hai can be the king of hundred valleys, and because of his good deeds, he can be the king of hundred valleys." If you want to go up to the people, you will say what you say, and if you want the people before you, you will follow them. ”
Low-key people are not incompetent, but they know how to hide and will not show themselves in front of others.
When a person starts to keep a low profile, that's the beginning of success. Looking back at the powerful people around them, they have already turned their lives into silent mode,
The cicadas chirped for a summer, but they didn't dormant for several seasons; they were short-lived, but they waited for the whole day. All the harvest is the result of silent hard work.
The most extreme persistence is to learn to wait patiently!
The truth of life is the same, many things can not be achieved overnight, what is needed is not to make quick gains, but to wait patiently, with this ultimate persistence and the accumulation of time, often in order to enjoy the joy of final success.
-04-
When we were children, we heard the story of "pulling up seedlings and growing up". After coming out of society to do things for more than ten years, I found that in fact, almost everyone has the psychology of rushing to achieve results, but they just don't realize it.
In fact, anyone's outbreak is never sudden, it takes a long time of hard work to make themselves successful. All you need is to be restless and patient before the east wind comes.
So, a really good person, they will know how to be patient and set a long-term goal for themselves. Patience is not only a prerequisite for success, but also a very important survival skill.
It is said in the Count of Monte Cristo: "The total wisdom of mankind is contained in two words: waiting and hope".
Waiting is indeed a great wisdom of life. Wait patiently, accumulate strength in waiting, hone your sharpness in waiting, and look for opportunities in waiting.
Do what you should do, just wait patiently, the opportunity will naturally come, the mountains and rivers are full of doubts, and the willows are dark and the flowers are bright and another village.
A girl who likes words, I am glad to meet you in my words, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.