Wenwen and Shishi are identical twins.
For parents, it is a big surprise.
In the era of family planning, many families wanted to have two children in one child.
Not only can you justifiably have two children, but the most important thing is that in the process of growing up, you will become partners with each other and not be too lonely.
Like many twin families, parents would buy wenwen and poetry the same clothes, eat the same food, and receive the same education.
Whatever it is, show that you are equal and just to the sisters, and you can't treat one of them badly.
As the sisters grew up, under the same roof, although their relationship was not wrong, the contradictions were becoming more and more obvious.
In the end, the sister came up with a makeover to draw a different line from her sister.
What is the "knife" that makes my sister hurt many people dare not move?
What happened to the sisters as they grew up?
01
Sister Wenwen was only born two minutes earlier than her sister Shishi, but the personalities of the two were very different.
Gentle, quiet, reserved, and focused.
The poems are mischievous, outgoing, and outspoken.
Such groups should reasonably be able to compensate for each other and get along harmoniously.
Things are just the opposite, they fight from childhood to adulthood, and no one will let anyone.
There are many similar situations, parents will always discourage, and teach Wenwen: "You are a sister, just let the sister!" ”
The well-behaved Wenwen finally made concessions.
After that, even if there is only one toy, a new dress, at first, she will also grab it with her sister, but in the end she will still compromise and say to The Poem:
"There's only one piece left, give it to you, and you can buy it later."
Although he was reluctant in his heart, a concept began to emerge in Wenwen's heart: his sister was more important than toys and clothes.
Parents look at it and feel that the text is more sensible than poetry, and it is a child who makes them worry.
02
Perhaps it is Wenwen's easy-going personality, coupled with the "humble" thinking instilled in her by her parents from an early age.
Since reading, the literati have seen and loved people.
In junior high school, the sisters played well with a boy from the same school.
The three of them agreed to leave school together every day, and there were talk and laughter on the way.
In contrast, the results of literature and boys are better than poetry, and the topics are naturally more and richer than poetry.
Especially when they talk about learning, yesterday's arithmetic topic has a better and fastest algorithm, and today's class composition who writes the best... A series of discussions of knowledge, gushing endlessly.
They were like meeting a confidant, if the road home was not too short, three days and three nights of candlelight talk would not be enough to stop the two of them.
The poems were boring on the side.
She couldn't keep her mouth shut, but she wanted to talk to the boys, at least to let the boys know that they weren't worse than their sisters.
When he returned home, Shishi said directly to Wenwen:
"Tomorrow you don't want to be with him, I'm going to go alone with him!"
She felt that as long as her sister did not appear, she and the boy would have a conversation.
WenWen did not know what medicine was sold in the poetry gourd, did not ask much, and agreed smoothly.
The next day, it was very hot.
Wen Wen took a bottle of the drink he had just bought and walked toward the classroom, and just in the corner he met the boy who had returned from the basketball court exercise.
Seeing the familiar classmate sweating, Wen Wen subconsciously handed him the unopened drink in his hand.
The instinctive interaction between the two made the poem secretly glimpse.
Instantly ignited the fire of jealousy in the heart.
She hated that her sister did not keep her promise, and the things she had said yesterday were immediately repentant today.
Therefore, Shi Shi asked out the boy alone, told him how WenWen usually did not pay attention to hygiene, did not wash clothes for three days, did not even change the school uniform, and often played with other boys...
For the slander of her sister, she dared to recognize the second, and no one dared to recognize the first.
There is only one purpose: to destroy the beautiful image of the sister in the hearts of boys.
I don't know if it is the words of the poems that play a role, or the friendship between the boy and Wenwen is like a glass flower, which will collapse in one blow.
Slowly, the boy and Wenwen drifted apart, and then there was no contact.
All this, Wenwen has been in the dark, did not take the boy's estrangement to heart.
A hundred years of life, there is no scattering of feasts.
Wenwen puts academics first.
The strength of the sister makes the jealousy of the poetry to compete and compete, even more ahead of the past.
03
Many people may think that even if the twin sisters have slightly different personalities, their IQ will not be very different, so they are not comparable in terms of achievements.
Wrong!
IQ is not the same as grades.
At least from the two sisters of literature and poetry, it is a good example of dialectics.
Wenwen is the elite in the eyes of parents and classmates, ranking at the top of each exam.
Parents are proud and often set an example in front of poetry:
"You learn more from your sister and raise your grades!"
Such words have created a thick cocoon for the ears of the poem.
Shi Shi didn't want to raise her eyebrows like a sister.
But no matter how hard he tried, he was always more than ten or twenty points lower than his sister.
Knowing that her sister's grades were not satisfactory, Wenwen would take the initiative to explain to her sister to analyze the wrong questions.
Share your own learning methods and hope to improve your sister's grades.
But the poems are absent-minded every time, or they ignore them.
She wanted to surpass her sister, but she didn't want to do the same as her sister.
Once, Shi Shi made a battle book to himself: This time the exam must surpass her sister!
But many times, it is not that you shout a few slogans, you can be invincible, the most important thing is to have real materials.
As a result, the poetry score is twenty points lower than that of the sister.
She was anxious.
She didn't want to hear her parents' clichéd words anymore, and she wanted to make herself a benchmark and a mighty one.
She secretly changed her score with scotch tape and brought it to her father.
Father was pleasantly surprised and praised the poem for the first time:
"Wow, this time the poetry test is good, oh, more than the sister, and then continue to work hard!"
Poetry's heart suddenly blossomed, even if the results were fake, but she received the most precious praise ever.
It was only a parent-teacher meeting that followed, and the teacher listed the students' scores throughout the semester.
The little trick that Shi Shi directed and played by himself was exposed, and he had to be cheeky and take the initiative to admit his mistake to his parents.
The sudden psychological gap made parents feel very disappointed.
04
Shi Shi thought that this method could not be used, and always came up with a perfect solution to impress her parents.
In a final exam, shishi racked his brains and couldn't answer a person who knew.
Seeing that the time was approaching, she had a clever move and asked her sister next to her for help, hoping that her sister would let her copy it.
Wenwen knew that this was cheating and was not advisable, and refused.
But the poem is stalking and crying and selling misery, Wenwen's heart is soft, put away the hands he covered, and let his sister copy it.
Shi Shi thought that this time she could pass the pass smoothly.
I didn't expect to be able to hide my parents' fiery eyes.
Under the serious rebuke of his parents, Shishi preemptively answered:
"It was my sister who took the initiative to copy it for me." She saw that I really wouldn't do it, and pitied me, so she threw the roll over. ”
It seems to be to help the sister say good things, but in fact, he deliberately "yin" the sister.
Wenwen, who had not yet returned to God, inexplicably criticized his parents.
Shi Shi was spared a beating, and a little uneasiness suddenly appeared in his heart.
After all, her sister was scolded for her.
05
The plagiarism incident did not stop ShiShi from pursuing her sister's plan.
Only because every time something is found in the family, the mischievous behavior of poetry has carved a deep mark on the parents' brains.
In any case, they will be the first to ask the poem:
"Sister, is it a ghost you made?"
Not once did he make an exception to ask his sister questions first.
Poetry's heart is full of grievances, although 99.99% of it is caused by his naughtiness, but his heart is not convinced, and there are more and more ghost ideas.
In this regard, Wenwen will never be the opponent of poetry.
When I was a child, my parents bought a piggy bank dedicated to coins and some small notes.
At the same time, educate children and cultivate their habit of saving money.
There were almost three hundred dollars in the jar.
Shi Shi loved to eat and play since childhood, and from time to time sneaked some change out of the jar to buy what he liked.
Wenwen did not want to cause trouble, as long as his parents did not find out, everything was fine.
So, she had one eye open and one eye closed.
One day, my mother picked up the coinpot and found that there were only more than ten dollars left scattered.
She asked the sisters who had moved the money in the jar.
The poem, which seems to have foreshadowed the ending, once again points out to her sister leading her to buy something.
Wen Wen, who had been wronged before, rose up to refute this time.
She felt that although she was a sister, she could not tolerate it everywhere and be bullied everywhere.
What only surprised her was that her sister's three-inch tongue when she was tit-for-tat was like Zhuge Kongming.
The speed of the response, the sonorous power of the language, can say white into black.
Let the parents believe it once again, let themselves be scolded again.
She became like a mute eating yellow lian, and there was bitterness that could not be said.
Shi Shi grunted in his heart: I just want to drag you into the water together, let you pretend to be obedient in front of your parents, pretend to be obedient, and pretend to be obedient again!
In fact, Shishi only wants to have a day to let her parents see that she and her sister have different beauty.
06
The sisters spent more than a dozen spring and autumn, summer and winter in the midst of a fight.
This year, the college entrance examination was taken.
One book of literature and poetry can only be admitted, and only three books of poetry can be admitted.
ShiShi felt that the opportunity had come and could not be missed.
One volunteer night, Shishi lovingly took her sister's hand and talked:
"Sister, you have done so well in the exam, and the schools in the field will definitely be in a hundred shots!"
Wen Wen felt strange, at this time she did not know what her sister was trying to express.
But the next second, Wenwen sincerely sided with his sister's opinion.
"Sister, we should have independence and exercise ourselves well!"
Hearing his sister's words, WenWen felt that it made a lot of sense.
She has never been away from her parents since she was a child, and she also wants to take this opportunity to see the outside world.
Therefore, when the parents wanted the sisters to enroll in the local school, Wenwen took the lead in applying to them to apply for a foreign university.
Daughters want to realize their dreams, parents are not easy to stop, not to mention that children who are admitted to a book are famous schools.
In this way, Wenwen went to the university of his choice as he wished, and the poems also succeeded in supporting his sister.
She cried out from the bottom of her heart: From now on, I will be the only king left in the family, and I will gather thousands of pets in one! Hahaha!
Poetry does not know that there is a kind of love, called "thoughts".
The farther away, the feeling of longing is continuous, just like a river of spring water flowing east.
The "treatment" given to the sisters by their parents is in stark contrast.
Just like calling my sister, my mother's tone is incredibly gentle:
"Baby, have you eaten?" Don't be too provincial outside, add more dishes to yourself. ”
But when I called my sister, every time it was a rhythm of scolding:
"What are you doing?"
"Isn't it time to learn?"
"Isn't it time to exercise?"
"Eat less and lose weight!"
This is not only, the monthly living expenses, the sister has more than two thousand yuan in hand, and her own two thousand are insufficient.
Although in the eyes of many students, their living expenses belong to the upper middle level, but compared with their sisters, they are obviously much shorter.
Shi Shi knows that her sister is slim and fat, and she can go home once a week, and her parents will buy daily necessities, clothes, etc. directly for themselves many times, but they will not treat them with such a big difference.
Poetry is often badly evaluated by mothers:
"What do you see you're wearing?" Can you learn from your sister? The figure is not as good as your sister! ”
Shishi's heart is very chaotic and tired.
She did not expect that when she went to college, her parents' attitude towards her was still: negation, negation, and negation!
She was not reconciled, not like she was exactly the same as her sister anymore, including clothes, appearance and dress... Everything, from the inside out, is determined to make itself a maverick.
Therefore, he worked hard and plucked up the courage to quietly go to the hospital for cosmetic surgery and sign an agreement on the installment loan.
Shi Shi was still a student at the time, and the plastic surgery used more than 30,000 yuan, even if it was installed, it was impossible to taste it.
But she is a person of whim, when she is angry, she will do it and never consider the aftermath.
When the debt burned her eyebrows, she was anxious.
She didn't want her parents to know, nor did she want to make her classmates laugh at her swollen face and be fat, and the whole rong turned out to be an installment loan.
In desperation, he had to ask for help from his sister.
After telling his sister the ins and outs, Wen Wen was heartbroken by his sister's move.
She had never imagined that Shi Shi had the courage to "move the knife" on her face, how dissatisfied she was with herself before she made a painful determination?!
But the urgency of the matter made Wenwen no longer want to speculate on herself, nor did she want to tell her parents, so that they were worried, and they could only find ways to borrow money from friends and classmates, and people around her borrowed her over and over again.
Coupled with the living expenses given by his parents, he saved money and used it to help his sister pay off all the debts.
At that moment, Shi Shi felt sorry for her sister for the first time, looking at herself in front of the mirror, she felt that although she was more beautiful than her sister, there was a trace of regret.
07
In the end, it was revealed.
Parents who do not know the appearance of their children, let alone twin sisters.
The poems after the plastic surgery, placed in the eyes of their parents, became a cloud of anger.
Once proud to have twin daughters, he now has a facelift because he wants to be different.
The pain of the parents tearing their hearts and lungs, and the face of the poems and poems, is a fierce scolding.
Shi Shi hid in the room alone and cried, which was the saddest and most self-condemning time she cried.
She suddenly thought of her sister's kindness to her, whether when she was a child or now, every request she made, even if her sister was reluctant, she finally did her best to complete it for her.
She later learned that her sister had paid for her plastic surgery, but she had fallen into a debt, and had to work odd jobs in the restaurant during college, and returned it to her friends and classmates little by little, but she never asked her for it.
With a tight heart, Shi Shi frankly confided to Wen Wen all the selfish acts such as slandering his sister in front of boys when he was a child.
She begged her sister for forgiveness.
At the same time, she regrets it and misses her past appearance.
She wanted to change back to her old form, to be like her sister, with an angelic face and a kind heart.
WenWen took his sister in his arms and said to her:
"Even if you don't get plastic surgery, I'm still different from you!" Do yourself well, in the days to come, your sister will encourage and help you! ”
"Sister, I'm sorry!" Shi Shi lost her voice and cried, with the apology and guilt she had felt for her sister for 13 years since she had been studying.
08
Today's sisters are brothers and sisters.
Wenwen became a baker, and Shishi learned beauty from his friends, each with his own strengths and hobbies.
They confessed to each other that if they had a boyfriend in the future, they would definitely consult each other's opinions, for the simple reason that we were sisters.
The growth story of literature and poetry allows us to see that children are prone to form a competitive relationship, especially twins.
They grew up together and were the same age. Parents hope that the two little children can get along harmoniously and be equally excellent.
So when two children compete for a piece of clothing and a toy, the parents instinctively teach the sister to be humble to the younger sister, with the goal of calming the quarrel between the children, but ignoring the guidance of the younger sister: to let her learn to "melt the pear".
On the other hand, because of her good grades and good figure, her sister has been set as a benchmark for her sister for a long time by her parents, and her sister has been fixed in her sister's shadow to live and study.
In order to chase after her sister, in order to let her parents sincerely praise herself once, her sister did not hesitate to use all kinds of small means to brush the sense of existence to attract the attention of others. Unfortunately, it has never been seen.
Her sister is very unconfident about this, and in addition to feeling that she is not perfect, there is also a kind of anger of not being recognized, which is the main reason why she decided to become different from her sister from the inside out.
Thus at the level of educating children:
To promote in both directions, so that children understand the truth of "one slap can not be sounded", must know how to respect each other, and recognize each other's mistakes.
At the same time, we should not give children an example, but should combine the child's personality, interests, hobbies, and carry out differentiated education, so that children can play to their strengths.
After all, what really wants the world to see you is not from your own eyes, but from whether you see yourself.
The story is dedicated to all parents, and may every child raise the sails of their hearts.
(Left is Wenwen, right is poetry)
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