Today's women are becoming more and more independent, whether from the economy, or personality, or thinking. Last month, the Shell Research Institute released the "2022 Women's Residential Consumption Survey Report" (hereinafter referred to as the "Report"), showing that from the perspective of the trend of house purchase and rental housing consumption, the proportion of female consumers has shown an upward trend for five consecutive years.
Many women are relieved to see this report, because it is enough to prove that Chinese women have entered a new era of independence and autonomy. Not only that, as women's expectations of marriage decrease, more and more women regard buying a house as their primary goal. They think marriage is okay, but they must have their own nest.
So for women, why buy a house, and under what conditions is more suitable for buying a house? I randomly interviewed two female friends who had rooms around me to hear what they had to say.
Buying a house makes me feel more secure
ShiShi is my girlfriend, and I was successfully admitted to the civil service in my hometown Linshi the year I graduated, and it has been almost 7 years now. In our opinion, she had a smooth ride and had a much better life than many of her friends who worked outside the system, except for the mother-fetal solo. Her parents and colleagues, including our friends, tried to introduce her to someone, but they didn't know.
At a party home for the New Year, she was happy to share with us that she had bought a house. Everyone was surprised, because in everyone's mind, she has always been the image of a well-behaved woman, and we should think that her focus is to find a good object to start a family. Unexpectedly, I became the first person to buy a house.
I once asked her why she would buy a house herself? You could have gone under the pressure of a mortgage. Shi Shi said: "Although the job is stable, but in the field, there has been no sense of belonging, this house is not large, but it can make me feel full of security." Indeed, there are many single girls like Shishi who work alone in a different place, and the "sense of belonging" brought by the house is the only "sense of security" that can be brought to them in addition to work, and it will also be the "bottom line" for entering marriage in the future.
Give yourself a home
Deep is my hair is small, and I am also one of many "older leftover women". After graduating from college, I have been staying in the provincial city to work, because of the needs of work, I have experienced three days of heavy rain to find a house, only to find a different kind of "partition", experienced being fooled by bad housing agents to sign a "rent loan", experienced moving with a large bag and a small bag in the hot summer... Too many experiences only friends who have rented a house know.
Finally bought the first house in her life in 19 years when the house price was slightly flat, very small but she was satisfied. I remember calling me on the first day she got her title deed and sharing her joy. I know she's not easy and I'm happy for her. But I can't help but worry about her, "Your job is not stable, your salary is sometimes high and low, can you afford a mortgage?" ”
She said, "Over the years, it is precisely because of the difficulty of experiencing too many rents that I have made up my mind to buy a house." When you buy a house, you have more motivation and motivation to do a good job. I think she actually said the voice of most girls, most of them are children of ordinary families, and not everyone is lucky enough to meet one person and set up a "home" for two people. Since the man has not yet come, let's give myself a home first.
Write on the back
Many times we equate the house with a sense of security, and feel that there is a sense of security with a house. In Maslow's hierarchy of needs, there is such a view: food and water are the most basic physiological needs of human beings, and when this need is met, what people need most is the need for safety. And the house is a place to live, so it also becomes a basic source of security.
Most women buy houses based on this need for security. Some people think that marriage can give women a sense of security, but in today's society, this sense of security built on marriage is becoming more and more unreliable, and once divorced, everything that was once there was was gone.
Nowadays, women's need for security no longer wants to rely on anyone, and only those who earn it themselves will enjoy it with peace of mind. Whether the process is passive or active, at least the outcome is good.
With a house, you have your own shelter and will not have the trouble of renting and moving. Anyone will leave you, and anyone may betray you, but your house will never. It's always there for as long as you need to, sheltering you from the wind and rain. Therefore, the house can not only bring women a sense of security, but also give them the right to bravely choose their own lives.
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