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Title: How tired is it to have a baby? Let the child eat well is not listening, the mother took out the broom seconds to become a good baby.
Is the birth of a child a "disaster" or a blessing?
Children are the crystallization of a family's love, the hope of a family and the future of society.
Parents, as the child's first teacher, have to educate the child from the moment he is born, and now most young people are busy with work, and generally throw their children to grandparents, grandparents and grandparents.
The educational philosophy of the older generation and the educational philosophy of young people often clash, they feel that the child should be well spoiled, can not let the child be wronged, which will also develop the child into an arrogant character, and young parents know the consequences of spoiling the child, so they will carry out the correct ideological guidance for the child.
Recently, a bao mother in Suqian, Jiangsu Province, is feeding her children as usual, I don't know whether the food is unappetizing or deliberately mischievous, and the mother feeds him without eating a bite.
The originally good-tempered mother changed her face in an instant, immediately put down the spoon in her hand and silently picked up the broom from the side, and the child seemed to know what would happen next, so she said to her mother: I want to eat. This saved him from a "beating" .
"Soft does not work to come hard", the previous children have no food to eat, the current children do not eat, and the changes in society have also given parents a 180-degree change.
On the issue of how to coax children to eat, it seems that the vast majority of mothers have made difficulties, and for some stubborn children, whether they come hard or soft, they do not eat.
Later, when the stomach is hungry, look for the mother to ask for snacks, the mother who has no way can only choose to compromise, and this mother has made a good demonstration to other mothers, as the saying goes, "filial piety under the stick", some children need to be frightened to become well-behaved.
But this method can only be a temporary move, when the child knows that the mother will not be willing to beat herself, this trick is useless, in fact, the better way is to guide from itself.
A netizen put forward a good suggestion: whenever the child does not eat, there must be a reason, such as eating a lot of snacks before eating, or the meal is really unappetizing, at this time the mother should put an end to the child's habit of eating snacks before meals, and then for health and nutrition, the mother should learn to increase the diversity of food, so that the child has a strong interest in food.
To put it bluntly, it is to make food colorful, such as buying a variety of shaped modules on the Internet, and then pressing vegetables and other foods into various shapes, so that children feel that this food is very interesting and delicious, so that it naturally arouses the child's food desire.
Editor's opinion:
"The beginning of man is inherently good", the child itself is not malicious, but itself has a little mischievous personality, at this time, if the parents beat and scold him, it will only deepen the distortion of the child's personality, but also can not be too spoiled, netizens have many incidents to warn us of what consequences of over-spoiling children will have.
"Educate children to learn to be patient, to put themselves in the shoes of children", this sentence believes that many mothers know, but it is really difficult to do, whenever you see your children disobedient, the anger in your heart has long been ignited, but finally by a sentence "This is biological" to successfully suppress.
Sometimes educating children has to use conventional means, like the advice made by this netizen, I believe that most parents can't do it, they still have a bunch of things to do, but also to change the pattern to make food for their children, which is what full-time housewives can try it.