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Girls are not willing to implement the AA system with their husbands after marriage, always feel that the implementation of the AA system between husband and wife is a very indifferent behavior, in the married life, do everything to be reasonable, regardless of the feelings between the two people, such marriages are mostly unhappy, and after the implementation of the AA system, the husband and wife are more reasonable, rather than feelings, which is very unfavorable for a marriage.
It is said that men are more rational, so some men have to implement the AA system after marriage, and they can still insist on more than ten years, obviously there should be a happy marriage, there is a happy family, but because he insists on implementing the AA system, the family becomes cold, and his wife is also heartbroken by him.
Such a man is indeed very rational, but sometimes there is also a little faceless, if he himself or his family encounters any difficulties, he will ask his wife to help him bear half the responsibility, the original AA system can also be implemented in this way.
The husband insisted on the AA system for 12 years
Wen Wen admired her husband Ah Yong very much, because her husband insisted on the AA system for 12 years, Wen Wen and her husband Ah Yong were once college classmates, but on the second day of marriage, Ah Yong proposed to implement the AA system, and Wen Wen could not accept it.
Two people because of whether to implement the AA system, quarreled three or four times, every time Wenwen was a courage to cry, but A Yong still did not let go, and then Wenwen's parents advised their daughters "He wants to implement the AA system, you agree, it is estimated that he will not last long, you say which couple can implement the AA system for too long, then he will definitely take the initiative to cancel, do not fight with him, so as not to spoil his body." ”
Wenwen felt that what her parents said was reasonable, just take a colleague around her, at the beginning, her husband also proposed to implement the AA system, but did not insist on half a month and said that he did not implement it, the reason is that the girl only made her own share when cooking, and her husband could not even eat hot food, nor did he wash his clothes, causing her husband to feel that the implementation of the AA system was not good for him, so he took the initiative to cancel it.
Wenwen promised her husband to implement the AA system, she also made three chapters of the law with her husband, saying that after the implementation of the AA system, in addition to being responsible for their own expenses, she only did her own share when cooking, and did not wash her husband's clothes, letting her husband wash his own clothes, but unexpectedly, her husband Ah Yong actually agreed.
The two of them even divided the space at home into two, each responsible for half of the health, Wen Wen can not cook, but Ah Yong is very interested in cooking, every day wen Wen returns from work, worried that he does not know what to eat, Ah Yong bought a lot of vegetables, made a fragrant meal, but also did not give her a little to eat, so that Wen Wen was very angry.
Wen Wen felt that Ah Yong had done too much, so he proposed to sleep in a separate room, one room for each person, Ah Yong had no opinion, Wen Wen told Ah Yong that he had to pay money to enter her room, and ah Yong also agreed.
In the third year of the two people's implementation of the AA system, Ah Yong proposed to have a child, and Wenwen said that it was okay to want a child, but how about a child A? Ah Yong said that during the period from pregnancy to the time he gave birth to the child and took maternity leave, he would be responsible for all the expenses of the child.
Ah Yong said the word, after Wen Wen took maternity leave, the husband and wife were jointly responsible for the cost of the child, and even the time to take care of the child was AA, Wen Wen felt that his marriage was not happy at all, but the two people did not have too much contradiction, so they will always live.
The AA system has been in place for 12 years, during which time Ah Yong never mentioned the abolition of the AA system.
The mother-in-law fell ill and was hospitalized
Not long ago, Wen Wen and Ah Yong were cooking in the kitchen, they were still doing their own thing, the child wanted to eat whatever he wanted, but Ah Yong took a phone call and left, Wen Wen saw that the dishes in his pot were about to smoke, so he turned off the fire.
That night Ah Yong actually did not come back, Wen Wen's heart was a little angry, married for so many years, Ah Yong has never been homeless at night, although the two people implement the AA system, but she as a wife also has the right to restrain her husband's behavior, the next day, after Ah Yong returned, Wen Wen asked him what he did last night? Why not go home? Ah Yong said that he did not do anything sorry for Wenwen, his mother-in-law was sick and hospitalized, and he accompanied his mother-in-law in the hospital.
Under normal circumstances, when the daughter-in-law hears that her mother-in-law is sick, she will definitely ask a few questions, but the marriage relationship between Wenwen and Ah Yong is somewhat special, so she did not ask more, but went directly back to her room.
Since that day, Ah Yong has come out early and returned late every day, Wen Wen has not bothered to ask much, she comes back from work every day to cook for herself and her children, Ah Yong comes back very late, Wen Wen has never asked him whether he has eaten.
Don't face men
One night, Wen Wen was eating with the child, Ah Yong came back, he changed his clothes and went to the kitchen to cook, the dishes he made were all wen Wen and the child loved to eat, Ah Yong took the initiative to bring the dish to Wen Wen and the child in front of him, Wen Wen felt that this was the sun hitting the west side out, married for so many years, Ah Yong did not give her this wife to cook, what is wrong with today?
After eating, Wenwen has been tutoring the child to write homework, until after the child sleeps, Ah Yong comes over to Wenwen and says, "My mother has 160,000 surgeries, and you have 80,000." ”
The husband who insisted on the AA system for 12 years said such a sentence to his wife after his mother-in-law fell ill, and Wenwen laughed, "I didn't hear what you said clearly, you repeat it." ”
"My mom needs 160,000 for surgery, and you pay half of it."
"Why, what does your mother's surgery cost me?" If your family encounters difficulties, I have to AA with you, and if our family encounters difficulties, I have to deal with them alone. ”
"From today onwards, no matter whose family encounters difficulties, we will both AA, right?"
"No, since getting married, the rules have always been set by you, I don't agree, in my opinion, you are responsible for your family's affairs, I am responsible for my family's affairs, such an AA system is fair." 」
"You mean my mom's surgery cost me alone."
"Otherwise, why should I help you pay for this operation?" We have been married for so many years, we have been practicing the AA system, you should have saved a lot of money in your hands, this little operation fee is just a dime for you, how, you still can't afford it? ”
"Of course I can afford it, but can't you, the daughter-in-law, do you have to do your best?" Not a penny, no help at all, what kind of daughter-in-law is it? ”
"Your son-in-law is not much better, after so many years of marriage, my parents did not expect you at all, when our family encountered difficulties, did you pay or contribute, you ask yourself." 」
Listening to what Wen Wen said, Ah Yong slammed the door and came out, did not come back for several days, Wen Wen did not call him a phone, she felt that Ah Yong was really a man with no face, married for so many years, has been insisting on the implementation of the AA system, the mother-in-law is sick, needs surgery fees, wants to let her out of half, it is really whimsical, Wen Wen decided to divorce this faceless man, this day can not go on.
When people encounter problems that cannot be solved, they will naturally start from the two aspects of reason and human feelings, think about how to solve this difficulty in the end, sometimes need to stand on the side of the reason, and sometimes need to stand on the side of human feelings, when couples encounter problems or deal with contradictions, more should start from the human aspect, men should not blindly reason with women, sometimes the simple and easy to understand the truth is not as good as a warm word.
A man like Ah Yong is really amazing, actually with his wife Wenwen insisted on implementing the AA system for 12 years, which requires amazing perseverance, if he uses this perseverance to do the right thing, it will definitely be successful, if he can really persist for a lifetime, he is also a capable person, but when the mother-in-law is ill, he asks his wife to give half the money, such a man really does not want to face.
A man who insists on implementing the AA system with you certainly does not have much affection for you, women must understand this truth, do not be deceived by the words he says, do not feel that the implementation of the AA system between husband and wife is a very common thing, must know how to protect their interests in marriage, do not be led by the selfish and faceless man.
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