In fact, many parents do not know why their children's academic performance is declining. Destroying a child, a mobile phone is enough, not to mention the child, that is, we adults want to play with mobile phones for a little time, and cultural knowledge is much more boring than the wonderful world in mobile phones. If your child's attention is once drawn to the phone, it will be difficult to quit.
And we see that some good parents tend to give their children a good book instead of a mobile phone. Let books bring more spiritual food to children, let children develop the joy of reading, and open up a new world for children. Many excellent children start from reading, and many children get a good book, just like getting a baby, they can't let go.
This kind of good habit is cultivated from an early age and learned from the ears of adults. That's why the same school, the same teacher, turns out that the children behave very differently. It should be known that parents are the child's first teacher, and family education is the key factor in the formation of children's habits and personality.
Friends' Xiao Kai is a typical optimist, very playful, with a wide range of interests and very lively. Although the study is average, Xiao Kai has an advantage that he loves to read, and his parents are also very supportive, not only did not restrain him from playing and watching TV, but also collected various books for him to guide him. As a result, in the third grade, Xiao Kai's Chinese score soared, directly surpassing the first place Wenwen and becoming a veritable dark horse in the class.
Even Wen Wen couldn't figure it out, knowing that he was working so hard, how could he be overtaken by Xiao Kai? In fact, using the right method can often do more with less. Wenwen is a typical hard-working bully, her mother does not let her play, blindly concentrate on learning; and Xiaokai's mother encourages children to start from interest, knowing that Xiaokai loves to read, she spends more than a year with her children to read ancient texts, recite poems, and tell some interesting stories of literati and inkers, so that children have a strong interest in ancient texts.
After seeing the neighbor's children in junior high school, Guwen was extremely difficult, and XiaoKai's mother decided to let her children contact guwen earlier and fall in love with classical culture through reading. She believes that the book is read a hundred times, and its righteousness is self-evident. Classical literature can cultivate children's sentiments and make children more excellent.
Classical literature is broad and profound, with a unique rhythm, not only is it catchy to read, but also contains a unique mood and charm in ancient texts. Children are familiar with ancient texts, not only can enhance the sensitivity of language, but also increase the accumulation of knowledge, expand the horizons, the author's concern about the home country and the world in the article, can make children set up lofty ambitions from an early age.
Confucius once said: Those who know are not as good as those who are good, and those who are good are not as good as those who are happy. For knowledge, we must not only let children learn, but more importantly, cultivate children to like to learn and take the initiative to learn. Ancient Chinese for children who are just getting started may be a little obscure, increase the child's fear of difficulties, in addition to parents to tutor, a good introductory book can actually make ancient Chinese learning more simple and easy to understand.
Xiao Kai's mother chose "I love to read ancient texts", the article is full of pictures and texts, most of the articles are short and concise, easy to understand. There are also many simple notes. Perfect for small children to read. And the cover is beautiful, many children can't help but open the book to read at a glance. When children first start reading ancient Chinese, parents should encourage them to make their children feel confident. Slowly learn the ancient Chinese and you will be able to do it with ease.
For us adults, if we want to achieve a big goal, we usually quantify the goal and divide it into small goals that can be achieved. The same is true for children's learning, if the difficult ancient texts are divided into small goals one a week, it can not only cultivate children's love for classical literature, but also allow children to easily achieve learning goals.
This set of ancient texts is divided into four volumes: spring, summer, autumn and winter, with exquisite illustrations and notes for children to read. There are ancient famous articles such as "Eilean Saying", "Burrow Ming", "Horse Saying" and so on. It also has a very positive effect on cultivating children's personality.
We say that it is enough to destroy a child's mobile phone, and the reason why family education is important is to create a learning atmosphere. We say not to give children mobile phones, but when children read, adults sit on the side and brush their mobile phones vigorously, so will children stick to it? Therefore, high-quality accompanying learning is the key to family education. Read together, solve problems for children at the same time, taste and ponder the precision of ancient chinese words, the elegance of the artistic conception, the author's worries about the country and the people, and serve the motherland's home and country feelings. Nourish children's hearts with excellent works.
Parents can prepare a set for their children, in their leisure time, put down the mobile phone, take the child to appreciate the charm of traditional culture together, and stick to it and you will find it. What you get will be a talented child, and what the child will get is a brighter future!