The "Summer Vacation is the Scible" series, it's really scary

Text | Thirteenth sister

Recently, the "Summer Vacation is the Scerrible" series has been collected by netizens, a bunch of so-called "teachers" who don't know where to come from, and tell parents in a serious way that "how terrible the summer vacation of each grade is".

"The summer vacation of first grade is the scariest because blablabla..."

They'll say a bunch of things that sound plausible, and then tell you that the summer vacation of first grade will be pulled apart by others if you don't work hard. When you can listen to the play, they will start selling books and classes.

But don't worry, the person in charge of selling second-grade teaching aids will not miss you.

They will tell you: in fact, the summer vacation of the second grade is more scary than the first grade, because it is an important time to open the gap between the third grade. If your child doesn't work hard during the summer vacation, your baby will be crushed in the third grade. When you can listen to the play, they start selling books and classes again.

At this point, you must have learned to draw inferences.

Similarly, the summer vacation of the third, fourth, and fifth grades, none of them can run, they are all "the most terrible", because they are all watersheds that open the gap between you and others, if you do not work hard during the summer vacation, you will be crushed by everyone. When you can listen to the play, your children will not think about being comfortable during the summer vacation of the past three years.

Then now fools also know how to and so on.

After all, six, seven, eight, ninety and eleventh grades, one is more important than the other, one is more than the other to open the gap, and one is more than the other is not to be missed...

Good guys, it's terrible, it's really terrible.

So you don't ask "which grade has the scariest summer vacation", ask "it's all terrible", and the more you look at it, the more scary it gets.

However, I think that judging from the words and deeds of these people, the most terrible thing is not the summer vacation of the past twelve years, the most terrible thing is that after graduating, I did a job that is either stupid or bad, and even if I don't want my brain, some people don't even want their faces.

So good at creating anxiety, you shouldn't just use your talents for 12 years of education.

Isn't the summer vacation of your senior year scary? Isn't it also a watershed, if you don't work hard to open the gap this summer, you won't have a place in college.

Let's talk about the summer vacation of freshman, sophomore and junior year, which one is not scary? Others are overtaking at this important node to prepare for graduate school, if you don't work hard, life will not lose half.

Even if you are about to graduate with a master's degree and a doctorate, which summer vacation can not be terrible? One is more important than the other life node, people work hard to turn around, find the right direction of life, become a pillar of talent, you don't work hard, in the future can only deliver food to those winners in life when they work overtime.

After that, there is finally no summer vacation, and every day should be terrible. People have found a partner, and you are still hanging. People are admitted to the editor, and you are still idle. Everyone is married and has children, and you are still lonely. People are the first pot of gold, and you still eat instant noodles for 996. People's children are in the first grade, starting a new round of "scariest summer vacation", but you are still reminiscing about your youth, you say terrible is not terrible.

So I suggest that you talents don't have to work so hard every day to nag which summer vacation is the most terrible, and simply come directly to "having children is the most terrible". As long as you don't give birth, all these terrible summer holidays won't disappear, and the pattern will be bigger.

I would like to know, do you have any children yourself who sell books and classes by selling anxiety to parents? If you hadn't been a parent, I would have understood that you were simply bad. But if you have children yourself, it's not just bad, it's a big fool.

I admit that there are a few summers that are really not suitable for too relaxing, such as the second year of junior high school or the second year of high school, but is there something wrong with you saying that the eleven years from the first grade of elementary school to the second year of high school are "watershed".

The growth and development of a child is diverse, in addition to learning, the expansion of personality emotional intelligence experience is very important. The former relies on school hours, and the latter on holidays.

You also stared at the baby study during the summer vacation of the first grade, and as soon as the second grade started, you could memorize 300 ancient poems and crush Zhang San, Li Si, what can you do, Peking University admitted you early?

For primary school students, the study arranged during the summer vacation should only be so that the child will not have nothing to do during the 2-month vacation, and now it is frightened by the gang with the so-called "overtaking" or "crushing", and the parents' "for the good of their own children" has become "afraid that other people's children are better than their own children".

A small change, the mentality is completely different.

Let me tell you what is the watershed of life, live until death, see who dies late, less work and lack of virtue to live long, this is the watershed.

As a passer-by, I can say that at least in the first half of elementary school and junior high school summer vacation is nothing terrible, if there is the only thing that is terrible, it is too grinding the spirit of the old mother...

If nothing else, summer vacation is also a time for parents to adjust and relax.

Official data can find the proportion of depression growth in primary and secondary schools every year, and parental depression data cannot be found, but everyone touches their double chins and blindly guesses, can the number be less.

Education is a targeted thing, every child is different, even if the successful experience taught by others may not work for themselves.

My son is now in the first year of high school, yes, it is the freshman who they call "the most terrible summer vacation in the first year of high school", I deeply experienced: children will naturally do what they have the ability to do at this stage when they reach a stage, before that, no matter how to pull seedlings and overtake, the pleasure of the moment may be there, but it will soon be leveled, and everyone will mainly fight for two things in the back: 1. Aptitude, 2. Mentality.

Look at how many of the children who have wanted to make a watershed with others since the first grade have insufficient stamina because they have oversqueezed.

Rather than stuffing a child as early as a sack, I feel that maintaining a state of resilience with more room for expansion is healthier, safer, and more durable, even as an adult.

So I advise everyone to try to stay away from these mouths and tell you "which summer vacation is the most terrible", on the way to your parenting, they can only play a side effect.