30,000 yuan can't support a child's summer vacation, parents post bills are surprising, why the vacation is more expensive than school

How much did your baby spend this summer?

"Every holiday wallet halved", this sentence is really not a joke, the girlfriend calculated the cost of her daughter's summer vacation, and before she went out to travel, she had already spent more than 20,000.

The girlfriend joked helplessly: "Every time I want to put on a bad retirement, as soon as I calculate the expenses of my children, I am full of chicken blood." ”

It only took more than a month to spend more than 20,000, is this cost high?

A few days ago, a mother posted her child's summer vacation bill, which included travel and interest classes, and spent nearly 30,000. And the comments of netizens are even more eye-opening, it turns out that 30,000 are small numbers.

Some families have two children, and the cost becomes double;

Some travel abroad, 100,000 can't stop;

A relative just signed up for a study group for his child, and he took out more than 30,000 at once, not counting the later registration fees and other expenses.

In just two months, it cost so much money!

For families above the middle class, maybe this is a small number, but for most ordinary families, the pressure is really not small.

Just one summer vacation, it took so much! So, where exactly is this money spent?

1. Tourism

Especially this summer, the study group is particularly popular. Some time ago, I went to the National Museum with Wa, and my eyes were full of research groups. Don't underestimate these study groups, the cost is really not cheap?

An off-campus research team of Peking University has a per capita fee of up to 10,800 yuan;

The cost of a research group at a launch base was nearly 30,000 yuan;

Famous school visits, famous teacher lectures, cultural edification, one-on-one explanations and other names, tens of thousands of yuan at every turn, and there are foreign study groups, summer camps, and the cost is even as high as hundreds of thousands.

Don't look at the high cost of the study group, but parents are flocking to it, and they are willing to pay money out, just to let their children see the world and grow knowledge.

Actually?

In the Lu Xun Museum, I met a study group, and after the children entered, none of them visited seriously, but found an open space, sat around and took out their mobile phones to play games.

Parents could not have imagined that letting their children go out was intellectual, but they returned to the beginning - playing with mobile phones.

2. Apply for classes

Registering for classes can be said to be the most willing money Chinese parents are willing to spend on their children, no matter how expensive it is.

Like my girlfriend, both of them are ordinary income, and the money spent on the children is spent on the children, and they haven't traveled this summer, and they killed more than 20,000 just by signing up for classes.

Children go from Monday to Sunday, from 8 a.m. to 9 p.m., one class after another, really more tired than office workers.

But what about the effect?

A friend who opened the class told me that don't look at so many children signing up for classes, in fact, the real progress is only individual, most of the children are mixed days, and many children are very dissatisfied and resistant to their parents' arrangements.

And for most parents, signing up for classes is actually spending money to ask for peace of mind, "I have done my best to pay for you", "I have a clear conscience", as for the effect?

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Being a parent is really not easy, for the sake of the child would rather suffer a little by yourself, than let the child lose at the starting line. But are we really giving what the child wants?

I remember when I was a child, winter and summer holidays were our happiest days.

At that time, there were no cram schools and no comparable tours.

Every day, I slept until I woke up naturally, watched TV, ate snacks, finished my homework, and played with my friends until dark before going home.

The company of parents, the play of peers together, the contact with nature, after such a summer vacation, I will really feel a hundred times more energetic when I start school again, and it seems to be full of electricity.

At that time, we did not go to cram school, nor did we go out to see the world, but we were all healthy and had a full core.

And today's children are already very tired from school, and finally when it is time to adjust to the rest during the summer vacation, the result is even harder than usual.

My girlfriend's children complained to me many times in private about my mother's arrangements, and even told me that lying in bed every day, I really wished that I would not have to wake up again if I closed my eyes, I was too tired.

Is it true that learning can only rely on tourism and study tours? Documentaries are just as achievable as books!

Can you only study by cram school? Learning without self-drive is futile!

You are worried about your child playing with the mobile phone at home, but you don't expect that the child will play more happily on the mobile phone outside;

You thought that your child would study seriously, but you didn't expect that your child was full of disgust and complaints about you.

So, does summer vacation really cost that much? How much of this is our wishful thinking?

How much did you spend on your children this summer? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.