Disturbing
During this time, I felt that the chickens and dolls had entered a period of collective agitation. Old mothers are really moody, suffering from gain and loss, one moment after another - in short, anxiety abnormalities.
The reason for this, I think there are three main points:
1. The end of the semester has arrived. The vigorous "double subtraction" lasted for more than half a semester, and finally it was almost time to test the results, that is, the time to open the blind box.
Lower grades we do not know Ha, middle and high grades, each school has more strictly implemented the "double subtraction" policy, parents can see, that is, in the school time is long, homework is less, the unit test period in the middle of the test disappeared, the teacher is not in the group to say the results.
Well, ask without saying.
The direct result is that parents do not know much about their children's degree in school and the degree of learning absorption. Even if there is a paper at home, but how to compare with classmates, whether the knowledge points in the school are covered, parents have no bottom in their hearts.
Don't look at the school bullies who usually have olympiads, Cambridge, and big languages, and have never relaxed their requirements for school grades.
If a room is not swept, why sweep the world
If the class is uneven, why is it uneven
But now that the blind box is gone, and there is less homework in normal times, it is worrying to be able to test in the end.
Seriously, this year I am in the fifth grade, and I feel that the school is really not so easy to deal with, and math is easy to get wrong! Language reading comprehension is getting harder and harder! This further increases the uncertainty of opening the blind box...
In the final review stage, Bao Buqi will make a bunch of moths, and all kinds of cries of the jingwei reclamation women will not stop in the circle of friends.
2, the winter vacation is coming. The end of the semester is coming, will the winter vacation be far away? The winter and summer vacation that has frightened countless parents is coming again!
As an old mother who raised a good-tempered piglet and a bad-tempered shepherd, I am generally welcome for winter and summer vacations. The baby can sleep more, raise a body, and then smooth the things that are too late to digest and absorb this semester, and concentrate on doing something serious with a large chunk of time.
But there are two Ha's families that expressed great annoyance, every extra day the child stayed at home, there was one more day of human tragedy that the mother was not kind and filial piety, so how not to be anxious.
Not to mention, this winter vacation... No classes! The old mother who was tired of Erha was even more crazy.
3, no class. For our generation of chicken baby old mothers, this may be the first holiday without institutional classes. Needless to say, I hope. Small and medium-sized institutions around me have also said... Don't wait, don't dare to open.
Hello parents, we are strictly abiding by the regulations of the relevant departments, there are no classes during the winter vacation.
Well, knowing that you are an old parent, there is no lesson.
Weak parents (including me) do not have the ability, energy, and confidence to go around looking for lessons, but they will be worried about wasting their precious fifth-grade winter vacation, rolling over corners, and recently super upset.
The fierce character with a strong heart will find a place to take a class no matter what, but how effective it is, it is really difficult to say, I think the process will be more disturbing.
How to be good.
4, more and more tricks. As your child progresses in grade, it feels like there are more and more things to consider. Nowadays, Beijing has begun to roll up informatics, and it is like a swarm of all in. This hindsight, and one step too late, what to do?
Sports to 50 points into the middle school entrance examination, ball, swimming, tricks can be really a lot... The fifth grade has not yet started, and when will it stay? Don't hide from you, I have already registered for a one-on-two class at the swimming pool in front of my home, and I must learn this holiday.
In the closed loop of Xiao'ao, the module review has to keep up; the ancient text is not born back for a day, the child is not beaten for three days (just kidding); whether the English test is still confusing, this listening, speaking, reading and writing has been sluggish... This cup and that competition, do not participate in it and wait to see others send red envelopes hot eyes...
Seeing that junior high school is over, no longer reading, junior high school has no time, books can not not let children read... Although this eye is already short-sighted, it must be carried out outdoors, or is it not more myopia?
The biggest advantage of parents in this circle is that they think too much;
The biggest disadvantage of parents in this circle is also thinking too much.
At the beginning of each semester, Vientiane is renewed, everything is happy with hope, and parents are full of enthusiasm and ambition, which is naturally more positive energy.
But at the end of each semester, there are no shortages, and the various planning blueprints are not rewarded, but they have to face cruel and unsupported tests immediately, and carry out the next stage of planning, so how not to be upset.
However, time does not stop because of the anxious thoughts, ticking, ticking, in the cold wind, we will eventually go through this time, the cycle repeats, into the next cycle.
Perhaps, this is life, when you go, you are upset, and after you walk, you will miss it.
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