The winter vacation is nearing the end, and the children around sugar mother have opened the "crazy make-up homework" mode.
Homework can not be written, children are anxious, parents are more anxious. Therefore, at the end of each winter and summer vacation, the family with a baby quarrels continuously every day, which can be described as "chicken flying dog jumping".
If you find that your child's homework is not completed, how will you solve this problem? Recently, the practice of a parent has caused controversy.
Children are too procrastinating when writing winter vacation homework, do you agree with Dad's approach?
A mother posted a video on the Internet, letting everyone see the real picture of primary school homework, and everyone did not know for a while whether to feel sorry for these two children or criticize them a few words.
In the picture, two children gather around the bathtub, the girl sobbs quietly, and the boy holds a pencil next to him, trying to fish the homework book out of the bath water.
At first, everyone thought that the two children did not want to write homework, and after deliberately throwing the homework book into the water, they were criticized by their parents, but in fact, this is their father's "masterpiece".
A few days before the start of school, the homework of the two children has not been completed, and after many days of urging by the father, the child is still procrastinating, only writing a few pages, and the father is very angry about it.
Dad just finished taking a shower that day, and in one breath he threw all his homework books into the bathtub. The two children are overwhelmed by their father's actions, so there will be a scene at the beginning, which looks heart-wrenching. Sugar Mom saw that many people were saying that this time the homework could not be written at all.
Winter vacation homework is blistered, who is wrong
Dad threw homework for a while, wait until the mother fished out the homework book dumbfounded, the book has been soaked and can not write, even the previous part of the hard to complete no longer exist, want to write homework, I am afraid I can only buy a new winter vacation homework book.
Some people said that if bear children do not write homework, they should be punished with a small punishment, otherwise they will not have a long memory, and they will be angry with them every holiday in the future.
There are also many people who speak for their two children, criticizing dad for being too extreme in this way of educating. In fact, most children do not dare not turn in homework, even if they are crazy to make up, write on the way back to school, they will also hand over their homework to the hands of teachers, parents do not have to be so radical, this move is likely to kill the "good seedlings".
At its root, the problems that conflict parents and children have something to do with homework. When discussing who is right and who is wrong with parents and children, people also have some doubts about winter vacation homework.
Some parents believe that there is no point in writing winter vacation homework
Now that the "double subtraction" is underway, under normal circumstances, teachers should not leave too much winter vacation homework for children. But people with children are often very entangled, worried that children do not write homework for a winter vacation, which will lead to a decline in learning. Maybe the teacher has no homework, and parents also have to assign some tasks to their children.
From the pictures taken by parents, it can be seen that the two children are still in elementary school, and there is no teacher to guide them during the winter vacation, and it will be difficult to do various exercises.
Sugar Mom met a parent and said that winter and summer vacation homework is meaningless. Many teachers only care about leaving homework, but after the start of school, they only look at whether the homework book is full, do not check the content at all, and even do not open it. Think that children work vacations in vain.
But then again, children learn for themselves, write homework for themselves, even if the teacher does not check, there are tasks to be completed seriously, because the knowledge is written in their own minds.
If you want to make the winter vacation homework successful, adults and children are happy
Not only do you want to make your children easier during the winter vacation, but also to ensure that your learning does not fall behind, parents should work hard with their children.
1) Parents give their children help
The original intention of the winter vacation homework is good intentions, but the child's self-control is relatively poor, and parents need correct help. Tearing operations and bubble operations will not only not solve the problem, but will bring great trouble.
The father in front of him soaked the child's homework in the water, which not only added an obstacle to the completion of the homework, but also made the child afraid and sad, which indirectly affected the parent-child relationship.
When the child is slow to write homework, parents should ask the child whether he is experiencing difficulties, rather than blindly urging the speed to speed up, otherwise the child is easy to get stuck on a problem for ten minutes, which is very inefficient.
2) Take the big tasks apart and do them
At the beginning of the winter vacation, parents can remember to follow their children to make plans. Average the winter vacation tasks to each day, and divide the time of each day into details.
Ensure that the single learning to write homework is about 30 minutes, so that the child can move freely for about 10 minutes. First, you can combine work and leisure to relax the child's psychological body.
On the other hand, children's concentration is usually 10 minutes to 30 minutes, and kindergarten children's concentration is shorter. If a single homework is too long, the child's attention will gradually be unable to concentrate, the learning efficiency will be reduced, and the resistance will also be intensified.
Candy Mother's Heart:
It is not excluded that some teachers really do not check the winter vacation homework, but it does not mean that the child can fool through. Parents try to check their children's homework as much as possible, since they have written it, they must ensure the quality, otherwise it is a holiday in vain.
【Today's topic】Do your children procrastinate in writing homework?