"Hello class teacher, I am xxx's father, xxx has not written homework during the winter vacation, playing with mobile phones all day, she always holds the psychology of luck and feels that it does not matter whether to write homework, anyway, no one checks." I hope that on the day of school, you must check her homework, if you do not finish, you must treat her as a typical treatment: the penalty station will be punished, the roll call will be named, thank you homeroom teacher. ”
"Received, I will strictly check the homework after the school starts."
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Coordinates: Handan, Hebei;
Time: During winter vacation;
Incident: A child has not written homework at home, the bear child's attitude is still very tough, no matter what the parents say, the child is left ear in the right ear out, completely do not put the parents in the eyes. Therefore, the child's parents used a "trick": he secretly made a small report to the homeroom teacher, what will be the result?
Later, after the school started, the child really showed an expression that made parents expect: crying and crying, a sad face, a person hiding in the room crying silently, tears gushing, crying like a donkey - this child has really become a negative model of the legend in the class. The parents of this classmate could not bear to see the child in tears, so he told the child the truth of the matter.
So, the child, in a very angry situation, directly blacked out her father, but she still honestly did her homework. For this kind of parental practice of making small reports, some people say that it is quite unkind, and the child is criticized by the teacher in front of dozens of students, which is a very hurtful thing for the child's self-esteem, and the child will be very faceless.
But more people think that although this is not too cheeky, the effect is immediate, the child becomes a "well-behaved girl" in seconds, for parents, is this change not fragrant?
As a teacher, I think that this method of making small reports should be used less or not by parents.
On the one hand, parents secretly give a small report to the teacher, which is a "trick", but after the "trick" has been used, if the child continues to appear in this situation of being rude and willful and does not do homework, do you have other tricks? Is it next to watch this child directly ruined? In family education, parents are the "main force" that plays a leading role, as a parent you can not rely on the teacher for everything, after all, the teacher is not omnipotent, once the teacher's "golden oil" fails, the negative impact on your child is immeasurable.
On the other hand, it is indeed quite a uncomfortable thing for a child to be named and criticized in public. Parents may wish to think in a different position: If you are a child and you are used as a negative model by the teacher in front of dozens of classmates, what will you think? You may say that you always have to pay a price for your willfulness, but if your child is the kind of glass heart that is psychologically fragile, and after being criticized, you are not going to rely on the teacher again?
As parents, we must think about this question: Why do children play with mobile phones during the winter vacation? Are parents themselves setting a negative example for their children? Is it that parents themselves are desperately playing with their mobile phones in front of their children? In addition, the above-mentioned child "blacked out" the parents, and it is not difficult to see from this that this parent, who is like a local tycoon, directly bought a smart phone for his child.
Ask: You want your child to learn without distraction, and you buy a smartphone for your child, is this appropriate? What can a child learn if he smuggles his smartphone to school? Remember one sentence: if you want to ruin a child, give him or her a smartphone!