The same is nine years of compulsory education, and it takes time to be efficient

Efficiency

The first week of school is about to end, everything is new, and the parents of the new junior high school are exchanging information with great interest, analyzing and analyzing.

Going home every day is full of anticipation, because the child can always bring back a lot of news, as well as various requirements and arrangements of the school. Yes, in middle school, the school does not tell parents much, and they tell their children directly about anything.

Communicate with the child, how is the situation of adapting in the new environment, how did you eat at noon, did you make friends, how did you go in class, did you take the test, and most importantly, how did you do your homework today?

It may be that school has just started, there is not much homework, home is close, and the two of them finish their homework early every day, which is indeed a bit inconsistent with the rumors of "too much homework" in this school.

I arrived home at seven, the boss was lying comfortably on the bed playing with his mobile phone, and I said you finished your homework? Take it out and I'll see!

At first glance, she has indeed finished writing, and her handwriting is quite serious. I checked around, but I didn't find anything, I stayed for a long time, and my lips clicked for a while:

When did you write it?

Said to write hard at school, and write quickly after lunch. The classmates were very puzzled, saying why are you always writing homework!

Okay! People are secretly learning, you should be diligent to show others! Classmates look, my goodness!

Do your classmates know that you are writing homework hard at school in order to go home and play with your phone for a while!?

Oh my! No, I'll have to find you some other homework. But just started school, and really didn't know how to get some extra miscellaneous for her, I was very annoyed after thinking about it for a while, I wanted to lie down and play for a while, and waved impatiently:

Play and go, you have to write your homework well tomorrow!

Regardless of the motivation to play with the mobile phone and the fact that I didn't learn more, I still appreciate the fact that I can coordinate the time, seize the time, and finish the homework early, without leaving it until the middle of the night.

It is indeed our family's ancestral efficiency gene.

Old fans know that I don't have a high opinion of myself, I don't like to boast, everyone praises me for being talented and attractive, and I laugh at it, but I don't respect it, and I never go to my heart.

If there's anything to be proud of, I think it's this – the uncompromising efficiency party.

Walking half a life, "procrastination" has never dominated me, and there is no "wait a minute" in life.

Anything transactional, whether from work, family or social, will be done immediately, unless you don't want to do it at all.

There is work to be done immediately, and it is done restingly.

Write immediately if you have inspiration, and leave it at the end of writing.

There is a message to return immediately, do not let people wait.

Write a 2,000-word article an hour at a normal speed, and you can also find time to reply to various WeChat messages and participate in group chats between writing.

Coordination is an invincible magic weapon, which one to do first, which one to do later, what can be done together, which piggyback hand to complete the other, are naturally arranged in the mind, and there is no need to list the task table.

When encountering particularly urgent matters and a particularly narrow time window, I feel that the whole person is highly tense, and every brain cell is mobilized, crazy processing, and can successfully complete the task every time.

If something is missed in your busy schedule, it is as if there is a small clock ringing in your ears: one more thing, one more thing, think about it! Always come up with it, finish it thoroughly, breathe and immediately start playing freely.

If there are no chores to worry about, it is a good season on earth.

So many people around me seem to be always playing, always idle, but in fact, I really finish my work, the work can't be finished, I can't play.

When I was young, my father couldn't understand the promise of the chronic son, and always said that you can't spread the time evenly? Why are you in such a hurry?

Even? The result of being as evenly open as him is to sleep first, and then write PPT in the middle of the night, and if it is not delayed until the last moment, it will not dry. Tightening first and then loosening, and first loosening and then tightening, is similar to how to give the monkeys seven peaches for that day.

Finish early and stop early.

But for children, the dynamics of this efficiency party may not be the same. For example, I have work in my hands, and I can stop it when I finish it, usually there will be no new additions, and if there is, I can scold and push it away.

If the child finishes working, nine times out of ten, the parents will give extra work.

After the homework is done, come you do two more pages of calculations, memorize ten words, do a language reading, memorize a poem... Is it much? Not much, right? I also want to sign you up for two classes... Hey, don't go!

If I knew that the work was done and there was other work on the way, then I might not be working so hard, grind! Why bother, right, anyway, it will take a day, then we will consume it slowly.

This makes me hesitant, how to add the task point to the boss, can only simmer slowly, a little bit, and if it is stronger, it will definitely rebel directly.

Writing here, I realized that the eldest child is actually very similar to me, she is not unable to learn, not that she can't do well, but she just has a freer soul and longs for a "good time" that can be controlled by herself.

That is to say, as long as the nature of learning is a "task", it is a "work", especially given by parents, it is difficult to expect children to willingly spread all their time on it.

In the end, the child still wants to fight and love to learn, that is, the so-called self-drive, so that the child can really learn well.

Returning to the new semester's middle school homework, parents should also pay close attention.

That kind of legend that a certain middle school is very scary, homework often has to be written until eleven or twelve, I feel that it is not necessarily really a lot of homework, it is likely that the child is inefficient, or afraid of adding tasks and deliberately grinding.

If you often write until the middle of the night, parents look at the amount of homework, is there really that much? What are the areas of the process that can be optimized? Is the child really doing homework? Are you worried that parents will keep it after writing homework?

Some are naturally slow, some are really homework, then there is no way, as a student, homework must always be written, others can complete, we also have to complete.

If you can't stay up, you have to find ways to improve efficiency and increase the output rate per unit time, so that you can be less tired and enjoy more of your time.

Tired early and tired late are tired, people's personalities are different, anyway, how to be comfortable how to come.

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