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Yesterday, I received a message from a reader:
Recently, it seems that many parents are filling out this "Questionnaire for Parents of Students in the Compulsory Education Stage", which is aimed at the implementation of the double reduction in the fall semester of 2021 and the learning and life of students.
I went in and looked at it a few times, and I felt that this was not just an ordinary questionnaire. Over the years, we have filled out a lot of large and small questionnaires, which should not be surprising.
But her sentence "The class teacher issued an answer and asked to fill in the answer according to the answer" aroused my curiosity.
And she told me: "Many schools have given standard answers and asked to fill in the correct answers..." This aroused my curiosity.
Casually looked for some readers around the country to ask around, and found that it was not true.
It seems that there is really a unified standard answer.
But take a closer look at the questionnaire, as soon as the white paper and black words clearly write: "The questionnaire is filled out anonymously, we will keep it strictly confidential, and no one has the right to check your specific filling content, please feel free to answer." ”
Since it is anonymous, since it is confidential, and since it is safe to answer, why give a unified answer?
In fact, the teacher gives the standard answer, and there is also a reason for the teacher. In some places, teachers clearly tell parents: "We have tasks, which are related to the teacher's assessment, so you must fill in this." ”
As a result, many teachers have to seriously come up with the correct answer, from "what time to sleep" to "homework after class" to "weekly examination and monthly examination" to "whether to be satisfied", all of which are clearly arranged for parents:
Good guys, teachers and parents come together with the goal of completing a beautiful questionnaire and getting perfect data and conclusions.
For the discussion of the standard answers to this questionnaire, the parents of primary school students still feel that "the answer is not much different from the actual", and the parents of middle school students are quite shocked.
A junior high school parent also made a special video for this purpose, in the video, his remarks instantly solved our doubts, such as Daigo empowerment, which is suddenly enlightening.
The original questionnaire, which seems to be a questionnaire, is actually a "guide to the code of conduct after the double reduction in the compulsory education stage", in order to let us understand the policy more deeply.
It has meticulously and comprehensively popularized the knowledge and methods of burden reduction, and given clear guidance to the vague and messy concepts in the minds of parents in the past year or two through questionnaires.
Its "standard answer" is to tell us what is right and what is wrong.
The parent said: "The questionnaire asked how long it took to write homework at home. Four options, the correct answer lets choose 1-1.5 hours. This means that junior high school students should not spend more than 1.5 hours writing homework at home, ah, I was not particularly clear before, now I understand..."
Junior high school students have to do their homework within 1.5 hours, and it is best to go to bed at 9 pm, which is correct. Beyond that, you're wrong.
He also said: "There is a question in the questionnaire: In addition to the mid-term and final exams in the last semester, did your child also participate in written exams such as weekly exams and monthly exams?" Do the exams publish results? Is the exam ranked? Standard answer: No, there is no weekly exam monthly exam, the exam does not publish results, does not rank, and adopts a grade system. That is to say, although the exam was taken, it could not be ranked and there was no score. ”
Exams are exams, you don't know what you're doing, that's right, and if you know the score, it's the wrong behavior.
He added: "The biggest impact on me is that the standard answer provides the correct data for getting up and going to bed." The standard answer lets me get up at 6:50, while my kids get up at 5 o'clock. The standard answer lets me get to school at 8:20, while my child will have to be in school at 7:10. The standard answer lets me go to bed at 9:50, while my child sleeps at 11:30 or 12:00. ”
It shows that his child is very wrong, and he must follow the correct answer in the future.
And "Are you satisfied with the after-school services, homework management, burden reduction and quality improvement work carried out by the school this semester?" And "Is your child satisfied with the school's after-school services, homework management, burden reduction and quality improvement work this semester?" ”
The correct answer is yes, very satisfied.
Then the parent said: "It seems that it should be done to make the parents very satisfied, and if the parents are not satisfied, it is the parents who are not right." And also made a satisfactory answer for the child, thank you very much. ”
In addition to the above questions, there are also some old questions about "whether the teacher assigns or disguises homework to parents", "whether the child participates in after-school services or off-campus training after class", "whether the courseware can leave the classroom" and so on... The standard answer is naturally to guess what it is with your toes.
These parents said: After learning these "standard answers", the whole person is mentally energetic, and everything that is not understood is understood, and those who are not thorough are transparent.
Someone said, "Isn't that a fraud?" ”
You see, the pattern is not big enough. This is equivalent to a guidance document, telling you what the correct appearance of the compulsory education stage is. If you don't match the correct answer, you have a problem, how can you say that people are cheating?
In order to implement the policy, some places have a thousand strange methods, and you can't say that people's methods are incorrect, right? It can only be said that your own consciousness has not kept up with the changes of the times.
For example, the rule that "the test does not allow the publication of scores, but can only adopt a grade system", some parents are very confused. What scores are, the lifeblood of students. Don't let say scores, what is the student's kPI? Therefore, some friends use various disguised ways to express "scores"——
This year, there is no IQ and even the test scores can't be understood.
If you think this kind of elementary school student's score expression is quite strange, it must be because you have not seen middle school -
In short, the masses of the people cannot undermine the policy, but they do not want to undermine their own bottom line. Middle school students talk about what to reduce the burden, how to reduce the burden, the fantasy. Students don't study, don't take exams, don't tutor, don't work hard, don't have to look at scores, what's that called? What was called waste 20 years ago has now become politically correct.
Elementary school teachers, now even the assignment of homework is trembling, like walking on thin ice, if you are not careful, it will become a "violation". After arranging the homework, he carefully said, "Choose to do, you can not do..."
The most shocking news seen in recent days is that "students are required to sign a letter of commitment, and participation in training in illegal disciplines will be counted in the personal integrity file".
Subject training is not allowed during winter and summer vacations, which is one of the policy provisions. In order not to let students participate in subject training, some places have really made great efforts and moved.
Whoever participates in training and tuition during winter and summer vacations is counted in the personal integrity file, which may affect future work, house purchase... Listening to this long-seen news, netizens are not calm: don't you just want to learn a habit, as for...
Just such a "promise of integrity", and it is said that it may be related to the commitment of personal integrity files, parents have to sign it, and they have to sign it without signing, you say that stimulation is not stimulating?
Whether it is a questionnaire or a letter of commitment, whether it is afraid to assign homework or no test without asking for scores, teachers and parents do not seem to have an option, teachers can only protect themselves first, and parents can only self-defeat.
I don't know about others, anyway, as an old mother of a junior high school student, there are some things I will listen to as jokes.
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