The name Gu Ailing has already brushed up weibo hot searches, WeChat circle of friends, and major video platforms.
Now people are talking about Gu Ailing is no longer talking about an athlete, but about a phenomenon.
Her aura is not only because she won the gold medal, but also because people enthusiastically scoured her growth experience and found that she seemed to be an "all-round winner" who was "perfect".
Gu Ailing itself is worth blowing up, but whether the "Gu Ailing phenomenon" is a good thing or not is still difficult to say.
From the current point of view, some of the enlightenments given to us by the "Gu Ailing Phenomenon" are summarized as follows:
1. Once again, the father's valuation in childcare has been lowered.
Some people say: Everywhere there is talk about how Gu Ailing's mother educates her children, and rarely mentions her father, so netizens summed up the vagueness of her father in parenting:
In fact, this is very normal, "bereavement parenting" has existed since ancient times, and the success rate of parenting is very high.
Go far away and say: Mencius, Ouyang Xiu, Fan Zhongyun, Yue Fei!
Say something closer: Jay Chou!
We can't say one-sidedly that "fathers are stumbling blocks on the road with babies", we can only say "the role of fathers on the road with babies... You can taste it yourself..."
Some fathers are about to say: "It seems that the father does not participate in the baby, the child can become a big instrument!" Then I'll run away from home tomorrow..."
No!
You must know one thing clearly: the premise that dads don't have to participate in parenting is that moms must be Gu Ailing's moms, Obama's moms, Clinton's moms... But would our average mom be that kind of mom? No, so dads can't imitate it.
This also gives the mother a revelation: let's not complain that the father is not good enough, if you are strong enough, then leaving the child and his father will be like a fish leaving the bicycle, without any impact.
If there is an impact, it means that you are only half a pound.
Therefore, the "Gu Ailing Phenomenon" helps middle-aged couples to give up their resentment towards each other and achieve family stability and harmony.
2. Gu Ailing did not double decrease.
Every year, Gu Ailing's mother takes her daughter to an after-school tutoring class in China to learn mathematics in Haidian Huangzhuang, a place where you want to consciously take out a five-year college entrance examination and three-year simulation when you hear the name.
Her mother said: "Come to China for ten days of classes, you can top in the United States for one year."
Gu Ailing strongly felt China's advantage in the exam, searched for teaching aids on the Internet, and finally found almost all Chinese editions.
This is a move to break down the barriers between China and the United States, you can write a book, the name I have thought of, it is called "The elite Girls of the United States have achieved a year in advance of entering Stanford by attending cram schools in China."
But this is Gu Ailing's good luck, if it is two years later, after the implementation of double subtraction in China, she may not be able to rely on the mathematics learned in China to return to the beautiful country to fight a hundred, nor can she successfully get a high score to enter the IVet School in advance, and there will be no such perfect aura support.
But now, the "Gu Ailing phenomenon" has set off a huge wave in China, proving that her mother, who calls herself "Buddhist chicken soup education", is actually very inward in the dark, worthy of Stanford, and always has the "Stanford duck spirit".
What are the consequences of this phenomenon? The immediate consequences may be:
Educational institutions such as Xueersi in Silicon Valley and other Chinese inner-volume areas in the United States may be banned by the U.S. Education Commission due to the butterfly effect of the "Gu Ailing Phenomenon", or stipulate that they may not hold subject remedial classes on weekends and holidays in the future, so as to avoid large areas of Inner Scrolls for American children, historically known as "Gu Ailing Rolls".
American children are afraid that they will also have to lose twice. It's good not to get used to them and let their math sneak past us.
3. Descent and elitism.
The whole family is an elite, and the efforts of three generations to change a Gu Ailing's birth is very reasonable, ordinary people do not need to be red-eyed, but ordinary people should also realize that no matter what class, fighting is the last word.
But in the same state of fighting, the circle of origin has decided some things, which is also an indisputable fact.
Elites are always light-hearted because they believe that their descendants will succeed no matter what, at least in one way.
Others tell you to lie flat, call you happy education, tell you to give children a relaxed childhood, you believe, some people do not believe, continue to enroll their children in various classes, invest a lot of energy and financial resources to learn this and that, cross the time zone two countries two-way to the ground cram school, drive 8 hours a weekend with baby training, to be a bully while not giving up dance, music and sports and other elites need to know everything ...
Gu Ailing said in an interview that her mother pays attention to her cultural class study and tutoring because she does not want her to become an uncultured athlete. This profoundly explains the parents' desire for "all-round development", Gu Ailing is lucky, and her teacher will certainly not be reported for assigning her a few more papers.
Now we finally see the prototype of the "next generation of elites" living, and they are more likely to succeed when they are free to choose what to learn and what to stick to. Learning and competition are always things that people who are eager to succeed cannot give up, and learning or not learning is not a problem, the core of the problem lies in whether you can freely decide whether to learn or not to learn. Some people are making drastic strides towards a more comprehensive elite, while others are encouraging students to report to each other which classmates have taken cram school during winter and summer vacations...
What everyone sees is not only Gu Ailing, but I am afraid that there is also a huge ridicule of some one-size-fits-all "Gu Ailing phenomenon".
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