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Fu Seoul said: What can a child do? He can't do anything, but he can make you do nothing.
Presumably, the parents who have recently been at home with a baby must have a deep feeling for this sentence, as if they did not give birth to a child, but a "two ha" that would tear down the family.
A mother recorded the life of the baby at home during this time, except for not having to go to work to relax a little, everything else made her close to collapse, especially the children who were "possessed" by Erha.
I don't know what kind of stimulation the child has received or whether it is so natural, and he has a special love for the sofa at home. One will move the sofa up, the other will get the sofa down.
Not only did the little guy use the sofa to build a new house for himself, the good home was tossed around, the old mother was going to be driven crazy, but the child was enjoying it as if nothing had happened.
After reading the child's "masterpiece", I only want to persuade this mother to relax her heart, because the children under the sky are really the same in the matter of "demolishing the family".
Do you think the scratches on the couch were caused by kittens and puppies? wrong! The perpetrator of the tragedy is precisely the "bear child" in the family, and even the parents of the child do not know why the baby is doing this.
In addition to sabotage, they also suddenly have "obsessive-compulsive disorder", such as having to put potatoes in the kitchen on the bed, training potatoes, and making them stand in rows, only neatly arranged potatoes are good potatoes.
Exploration is a characteristic of children, learning and imitating can better satisfy their hearts, so in the cartoon to see the truck pulling mud and sand, they will also actually operate in real life, but the concept of rice and sand is not clear enough.
In the process of growing up, there will be a dozen or twenty sensitive periods, and when the child shows great interest and single-mindedness in certain environments or traits at certain times and rejects other things, it may be a signal that a sensitive period is coming.
The sensitive period plays a very important role in the growth and stereotyping of "people", and helping children successfully pass the sensitive period is also the most important thing parents should pay attention to. In the above article, Bao Mom recorded that the baby's love for the sofa is actually a space sensitive period.
Babies who enter the space-sensitive period are particularly interested in small spaces, and the various corners of the home are places of interest to themselves, and if there are not enough corners, the children will create and build their own.
Babies need to perceive in small, differently shaped spaces to establish their own concept of space. The space-sensitive period is a longer period of time that ends when the child is about 6 years old.
What are the manifestations of babies in space-sensitive periods?
Stage 1: When the baby sees something falling from a high place, he has begun to be curious about the "space", so the baby will also learn to throw things.
The second stage: around the age of 1, children will slowly become interested in "holes", like to stuff things in and then take them out, and will also make homes for different objects according to the shape.
The third stage: building blocks is another big progress in the baby's understanding of space, so the baby at this stage always likes to stack things.
The fourth stage: do not miss any opportunity to drill holes, home cabinets, sofa gaps, washing machines, everything can accommodate the space of the baby to try.
Stage Five: The exploration of space is almost complete, and the little guy will personally take a look at the space he knows, and climbing is the favorite thing to do at this stage.
In the face of the baby's space sensitivity period, what parents have to do is not to stop but to help, how to help the baby through this period? Three words are enough: protection, creation, respect.
Expand their own scope of exploration, it is inevitable to encounter danger, parents should do a good job of protection, the home has a sharper angle must be wrapped well, do not use the socket to put away or block the power port, try not to put the baby alone in a high place, etc., are the protection work that parents can do.
Creation refers to creating space for children at home as much as possible to satisfy his desire to explore, and the space that parents intentionally create is relatively safe.
Respect is what parents need to ensure the most, to meet the baby's needs for exploration, do not easily accuse and criticize the baby's unusual behavior, and understand more and guide more.
The growth of each period is an important small step in the baby's life, and what parents have to do is to protect every small step of the baby.
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Do you still know what sensitive periods your baby has?